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Yaakov's Ladder
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Re: Yaakov's Ladder 24 Jan 2019 21:41 #338651

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Some dude on the bus has this quote in his signature.
-Nothing changes as long as everything stays the same" ~ Dov
BIG SHOT!
Free Choice?!
Yirai's Memories
STORY TIME :)

Dr. Seuss - You have brains in your head. You have feet in your shoes. You can steer yourself in any direction you choose. You're on your own, and you know what you know. And you are the guy who'll decide where to go.

FSKOT! (Fell Shmell--Keep on Trucking) (The Rebba R' Bards)

Re: Yaakov's Ladder 14 May 2019 21:08 #341147

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Yankelllll?
?דער באשעפער לאווט מיך אייביג. וויפיל לאוו איך עהם
My Creator loves me at all times. How great is my love for him?

Re: Yaakov's Ladder 14 May 2019 21:23 #341149

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TehillimZugger wrote on 14 May 2019 21:08:
Yankelllll?

TEEZEEEEE!!!!!!!!
!אנא עבדא דקודשא בריך הוא

וּבְיָדְךָ כֹּחַ וּגְבוּרָה וּבְיָדְךָ לְגַדֵּל וּלְחַזֵּק לַכֹּל

And every day that you want to waste, that you want to waste, you can
And every day that you want to wake up, that you want to wake, you can
And every day that you want to change, that you want to change, yeah
I'll help you see it through...


"If it would be so easy there wouldn't be a GYE, but if it would be impossible there also wouldn't be a GYE."

"Sometimes a hard decision leads to an easier outcome."

- General Grant



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Re: Yaakov's Ladder 14 May 2019 21:36 #341152

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BIG SHOT!
Free Choice?!
Yirai's Memories
STORY TIME :)

Dr. Seuss - You have brains in your head. You have feet in your shoes. You can steer yourself in any direction you choose. You're on your own, and you know what you know. And you are the guy who'll decide where to go.

FSKOT! (Fell Shmell--Keep on Trucking) (The Rebba R' Bards)

Re: Yaakov's Ladder 25 Jul 2019 04:59 #342522

i used to look back all the time saying "oh no! what have i done! Hashem help me erase the past." and i never heard a response.
finally i started looking forward saying "Hashem i'm leaving the past to you and i'm forgetting all about it. help me have a good future. help me from here and on be the person You want me to be." and that's where i realized Hashem had been waiting to help me all along

Re: Yaakov's Ladder 25 Jul 2019 05:10 #342523

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Re: Yaakov's Ladder 27 Apr 2021 20:17 #367521

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Thank you all for your responses, I really appreciate the support.

How do I get on the married forum?

Re: Yaakov's Ladder 27 Apr 2021 20:27 #367522

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My wife isn't as attractive as i originally wanted  I feel like ive made a mistake

Re: Yaakov's Ladder 27 Apr 2021 21:52 #367525

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military613 wrote on 27 Apr 2021 20:27:
My wife isn't as attractive as i originally wanted  I feel like ive made a mistake

I don't know enough about you, but I'll risk all the zealots jumping on me about my lack of sensitivity and how I dare diagnose you.

You dated your wife. Clearly found her sufficiently desirable and attractive. Got married. Started (or started again) to wallow in the online filth. Drooling over supermodels and disgustingly gorgeous animals laying their wares in your face for a few bucks. Suddenly you are finding issues with your poor wife's body. 

Do you see a pattern? There's a simple way to undo it. Murderously hard to execute, yet deliciously simple to see.

Correct me if I am wrong or missing something. 
I lost a 6 month streak. I will get back there. Not if, but when. When? Now.

l can be reached at: Grant.400@yahoo.com

Re: Yaakov's Ladder 27 Apr 2021 23:08 #367528

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military613 wrote on 27 Apr 2021 20:17:
Thank you all for your responses, I really appreciate the support.

How do I get on the married forum?

I highly recommend you starting your own thread
For the background to my name- see Tanya פרק טו.
״שההפרש בין עובד אלוקים לצדיק הוא שעובד הוא לשון הווה, שהוא באמצע העבודה״
-Oived Elokim means a constant work in progress...
Start where you are. Use what you have. Do what you can.
- Arthur Ashe
“Every saint has a past, and every sinner has a future”.

My old thread

My current thread 

Re: Yaakov's Ladder 27 Apr 2021 23:58 #367530

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military613 wrote on 27 Apr 2021 20:17:
How do I get on the married forum?

Contact GYE and tell them that you are married, then they'll update your profile and you'll have access.
Feel free to contact me happyyid613@gmail.com
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