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Free lust Truck Towing - see page 1 15 Oct 2015 00:52 #265946

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              INDEX

1. Success Stories   ⇓
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2. Polls                                ⇓
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3. Important Links  ⇓
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Important Threads
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4. Recovery              ⇓
5. Life Situations   ⇓
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6. Chizuk   ⇓
7. Audio    ⇓


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Welcome Aboard: I'd like the first few pages of this thread to be publicly shared / traded. My intent is to include universal trucking tips many guys can benefit from - that aren't found (yet) in 30 tool section.

Please Comment: I'm open to any input. If there's something in the first pages that you'd like to add or comment on, please do so right here

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Truck Towing #1 - Success Stories 15 Oct 2015 01:00 #265947

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UPDATED - 100 day Success Stories
Click on the Link of any user to read his Great Trucking Story

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cordnoythenewme613@hotmail.com
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There are 500+ success stories on the WOH, but I have selected only those which I feel are most beneficial, i.e. users that post regularly


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Truck Towing #2 - Join the Polls 15 Oct 2015 01:00 #265948

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  1. What was your Primary Source of Recovery?
  2. Your Biggest Concern
  3. Do you think You're an Addict?
  4. Chasin' general Pleasurin' - do you Minimize?
  5. How would you react to being recognized here by someone in real life?
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Truck Towing #3 - Great Links 15 Oct 2015 01:00 #265949

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GREAT LINKS
  1. Dov Quotes - thanks gibbor
  2. SA white book  |  SA pamphlet |   AA Red Book
  3. The 3 Second RULE
  4. Objectifying Women
  5. GYE Glossary Of Terms
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Truck Towing #4 - Great Posts - Recovery 15 Oct 2015 01:01 #265950

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GREAT POSTS - Recovery
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0- Recovery Mistakes to Avoid
1- Sobriety's not about beating a previous high score
2- Why do I act out?
3- Think you can do it without the 12-Steps?
4- SA Meetings?? Are They Necessary?
5- Am I An Addict?. See also here
6- leaving only pornography
7- 90 Day Chart - A great instrument when used with other tools, also see here
8- Disclosing to Wife, see also here and here and here and here
9- Lust is a state of the mind. If your brain is lust free, regular life situations won't bother you, not even surfing gye forums
10- Appropriate Dress in Shul
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Truck Towing #5 - Great Posts - Life Situations 15 Oct 2015 01:01 #265951

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0- Reaching Out for Help on Shabbos
1- The Bathroom - MY SHUL
2- What to do about Wet Dreams?
3- Prayer before watching a movie click here
4- Boys In Yeshiva?
5- Does anyone go to a Psychologist woman?
6- Not Married? Grab the opportunity to recover today
7- Divorced, see also here
8- Attraction to well dressed women (copied here)
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Truck Towing - #6 Chizuk 15 Oct 2015 01:01 #265952

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CHIZUK
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The Mark of Torah - Lust Chizuk

PART A
  1. TORAH TAVLIN: a) Torah is not a blanket protection and can actually do the opposite if not approached correctly.  b) May not work for all forms ofYetzer Hara
  2. Gd wants our small sacrifice and effort
  3. ODAAT: One Day at a Time. And a nice source for ODAAT.
  4. DO SOMETHING: When facing a personal challenge,We can't say "I tried, I cried, I prayed", No no no! Do something positive!!
  5. BECHIRA: The "main" bechira we have is to avoid triggering situations in the first place
  6. THE 3 SECOND RULE: The pasuk is telling us - do not follow your heart to take that second look
  7. THE REAL PROBLEM: To me it seems poshut that the problem is lusting not shmiras eynayim
  8. WHITE KNUCLING: Is not the Torah way so cut the Confrontations . Which according to the Torah way will not succeed
  9. Is everyone in the world an addict?
  10. WIFE: Is she your Pas Besalo?
    :pinch: Warning: Spoiler!
  11. INTENT: I'm a lustaholic and I want Intimacy leshem shamayim. Honest?
  12. TESHUVA: Teshuva (the way we understand it) is NOT recovery but a ploy
  13. in the Zohar, it is said the sin of wasted seed is the worst sin for which no recovery is possible. And that relations with non-Jews attaches to us even in Olam Haba. What are the defenses against these charges?


SCOURCES:


  1. The prohibition of V'NISHMARTA and V'LO SASURU
  2. including undressed unmarried gentile women
  3. A wife is like bread?


HOLIDAYS


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  2. Thank Gd - Al Hanissim
  3. The 3 Weeks - We are building the Beis Hamikdash with GYE


PART B
1- moshol by Watson
2- Can we truly correct 30 years and have a תחיית המתים in 90 days?
3- What in the world does Hashem want from me?
4- Repent! Teshuvas Hamishkal - For addiction its enough the tremendous effort and accomplishment of getting over the addiction! Rav Wosner
5- Great Shiurim
6- Can an addict be a Chazan for the Yomim Noraim???
7- Click HERE for a prayer to recite before watching a movie)
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Truck Towing- #7 Audio 15 Oct 2015 01:02 #265953

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1) The chasan schmooze you never got, and many more great lectures
2) Shalom Bayis - Attention Affection Appreciation, and more!!
Enter your Login to torahmedia.com go to "Speakers" from the main page, then select the "Pamensky, Rabbi Aryeh" lectures and enjoy!
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Truck Towing - #10 Just Having Fun 15 Oct 2015 01:03 #265957

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Im just having fun


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Donate your Karma today! Call 1-800-KARMA-4-KIDS

It's 1-877-KARMA4KIDS.

You clearly don't listen to the radio enough. That's probably a good thing.

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Truck Towing - #11 Ideas 15 Oct 2015 01:03 #265958

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Ideas

  1. It's best to share what has worked for us in our own experiences rather than trying to think up good advice for the person we are chatting with. We are not here to play therapist/rabbi, we are here as people who could relate to each other because we've been through similar situations. Sometimes just being understanding, even if we don't have all the answers, is helpful. Cordnoy wrote "Know (or try to know) who you are talkin' to, and talk from experience and how it was productive, or how it wasn't". If you don't have experience e.g. what to say to a teen, take a back seat, relax, someone will be in shortly with right thing to say


Please forgive my bluntness, but HERE's an example of many foolish pieces of advice
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Re: Goal Posts 15 Oct 2015 01:14 #265968

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Phew... ok.
Whoever wants to respond now please do.

Im hoping to compile summaries of great notes in the first 20 posts, and index them in the 1st.
:pinch: Warning: Spoiler!

From here and on Id like to hear input criticism and feedback, so whoever can pass by this post every now and then and blow your horn is appreciated.

Of course I have my personal perception (as we all do) when deciding how to broach and deal with different topics, but Id like to share these posts with the chevra therefore whatever / whenever you choose to input - please do, and don't be scared to be blunt with me, so go on fire away!!!
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Gotta run
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Re: Free lust Truck Towing - see page 1 16 Dec 2015 03:50 #271481

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eslaasos wrote:
markz wrote:
I like to spend time either in Torah or in recovery


Thats a truck I'd like to hitch a ride with!
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Re: Free lust Truck Towing - see page 1 16 Dec 2015 03:50 #271482

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Eslaasos Welcome aboard.
In your honor this thread is being revealed.

Just one little disclaimer
What "I like" isn't necessarily what I do practically
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Re: Free lust Truck Towing - see page 1 16 Dec 2015 04:00 #271484

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WARNING:
People may offer to be in touch via email, cellphone apps, phone, etc. Unless you have chatted with them to the point that you feel comfortable with them and feel that they are stable, this is not recommended

I almost got burnt recently by an unscrupulous individual that seemed stable. Guys - please take caution
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Awesome thread!
Now I have something else to read when I want to escape and procrastinate

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Re: Free lust Truck Towing - see page 1 11 Jan 2016 18:07 #273986

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Tool # 119
A speaker in your back pocket
(You never know when you'll need it)

tehillimzugger wrote:
i was doing pretty good until now but various circumstances led to me spending the meals this past shabbos with a certain girl (i'm a bachur) and then going on a full day trip with her yesterday, now there were other ppl there so it wasn't yichud and i didn't even speak to her (directly) the whole time, but it was kind of uncomfortable going to meron, tzfat, tiveria. with two ppl out of the six going being the only singles and of the opposite sex, so there we were both davening for a shidduch and it was kinda uncomfortable [was that a run-on sentence?]. but i survived. then last night i had a dream where i watched p**n and started mas******ing i didn't finish though, i woke up and stopped. so i'm still doing pretty good but i could really use some chizuk.
oh, and did i mention that i said tehilim at the mekomos hakedoshim?

HER camera is right in front of me as we speak and there are some good pics of me [not to mention HER] o0n it and i'm NOT going to touch it

gibbor120 wrote:
How soon can you get the heck out of your situation? The sooner the better!

ZemirosShabbos wrote:
hi TehillimZuger,
are you out of the 'situation' yet?
if not, then it's time to rev dem enjins and put the petal to the metal
kibalti mayrabi mi'Bardichev sheyichyeh, that we don't look back, we just go forward, this is the NO HAND-WRINGING ZONE
turn up the speakers and let the Tehillim roll..

tehillimzugger wrote:
yeah. she's here now again.
keep the chizuk coming guys!

ZemirosShabbos wrote:
creep up on her and position a Monstuh' Truck Speaker near her (ear) and then let loose with Kapitel 119. you should only hear from her again in about 2030...
or book a trip to Meron Tzfas Teverya without her
or call the Mishmeres Hatzniyus

tehillimzugger wrote:
u really got me laughing ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D
but she's blowdrying my sister's sheitel right now (she's very talented lol) and that would kind of upset some ppl here.
oops, she just asked for the computer, i'm off for some music.

ben durdayah wrote:
This is NOT an ideal situation.

>

Why don't you come over and spend a few days with me...
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Re: Free lust Truck Towing - see page 1 11 Jan 2016 18:10 #273988

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milehashem wrote:
Geshmock,

This is what I did.

The very second you get an urge to look at something, CLAP!

Clap your hands together. If the urge is still there, clap again. Harder.

Still there? Clap again. Still there? Clap!

Eventually, one of three things will happen:

The urge will pass. You win!

Someone will come into the room and say "What is all that noise? Are you okay?"
You will makeup some silly excuse for all that clapping, and you will be too embarrassed to continue sitting at the computer. You win!

Or, your hands will hurt so much from all that clapping, that you won't be able to use them for the aveirah..... .....and you win!

I'm up to 14 days, and with this technique, I know I'll get to 90

By the way, after the first few days, you won't feel that overwhelming urge to go look, as often as you do now. It will still be there, but it will be less intense and less often.

Also - go to a mikvah, preferably a COLD one. You can walk in slowly if you want to, but eventually force yourself to toivel completely into the cold mikvah. A cold mikvah has vast spiritual benefits, specifically related to this aveirah, that are too complex to explain in this forum. (Ask any mekubal, he'll tell you the same)

Try to stay under the water for a few seconds , making sure that no part of your body is touching the floor or walls.

Get yourself to a mikvah as often as possible, but at the very least every erev shabbos and yom tov. Natural lakes as well as the ocean are also kosher mikvaos.

You can do it! I believe in you!




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Re: Free lust Truck Towing - see page 1 11 Jan 2016 21:32 #274010

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If you see someone clapping in the Mikva then you found him
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וּבְיָדְךָ כֹּחַ וּגְבוּרָה וּבְיָדְךָ לְגַדֵּל וּלְחַזֵּק לַכֹּל

And every day that you want to waste, that you want to waste, you can
And every day that you want to wake up, that you want to wake, you can
And every day that you want to change, that you want to change, yeah
I'll help you see it through...

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Re: Free lust Truck Towing - see page 1 21 Jan 2016 19:16 #275152

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Today with the help of ה׳ I tried to do a towing upgrade, and the Success Stories on page one have a new face

If you like you can
Check it, check it, check it, checkit out
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Re: Free lust Truck Towing - see page 1 21 Jan 2016 23:05 #275190

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cordnoy wrote:
neshamaincharge wrote:
I need to read thru this thread at least once a month. There is so much wisdom in here to be absorbed and PRACTICED.


Thanks for bumping.
I try not to bump an old thread where I was the last poster.
That cuts 50% of good threads from getting bumped, so I totally don't agree with that policy!

...In other news...
If there's any good threads you know of, I'd love to get a list of those so that I can add them to the first page of this towing thread, and they can then always be "read"-ily available, cos there are other gye's that look at this page too

Feel free to post them right here, whenever you find any good ones, or please email them to me
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Re: Free lust Truck Towing - see page 1 31 Jan 2016 15:01 #276043

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Don't think I posted on this thread.
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If one gives up at the first sign of a struggle, he is really not ready to be successful."
"Tryin' and doin' are two different thin's - tryin' is hopin'; doin' is succeedin'.
"The right thin' to do and the hard thin' to do are usually the same."

Disclaimer: I am not a cheerleader; B"H, there are many on the site. I am here to change myself, and with God's help, by some mistake, I might even help change others.

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Re: Free lust Truck Towing - see page 1 19 Feb 2016 05:40 #278408

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I am rooting very strong for one of the greatest lights on GYE

You not only guard our eyes, You illuminate them!!!

Appatently you are very down, and I noticed today you were recently Tryin to eliminate half of your thread, and managed to totally wipe the Mikva off the map

If that's what need doing we can't protest, but I'm concerned that everything should go well for you!!!

I'm referring to one of the massive tow truckers (yeah - you should go to gym and lose some weight...) that has a family tradition of sobriety, and has kindly brought us into his family, and I am totally having you in mind that things should really work out in you family only to your benefit and satisfaction.
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Re: Free lust Truck Towing - see page 1 21 Apr 2016 18:40 #285615

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Can't wait for chol hamoed - No work!
BH finally have time to allocate to this 24hr Towing thread

Im planning to update the "success stories", and will shorten it to show only the frequent visiting posters, and also successful moderators that are here (but wanna hide behind our view)

Workingguy and all other recent "100 day success" guys Working on recovery, that passed the 100 day marker in the past +-100 days, could you do me a favor, so that I can put your  optimum story link!

Please could you PM or email me the link to the post that best details your story (eg your opening or 90th day post)?
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Re: Truck Towing #1 - Success Stories 04 May 2016 05:19 #286600

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markz wrote on 15 Oct 2015 01:00:
100 day Success Stories
Click on the Link of any user to read his great story


MEMBERLINKProfile VIEWSDAYS
cordnoyStory1052292
DovStory814Not Displayed
skepticalStory570Not Displayed
Gevura ShebyesodStory564936
PidainiStory484Not Displayed
gibbor120Story336Not Displayed
Shlomo24Story223Not Displayed
AlexEliezerStory222Not Displayed
WatsonStory213Not Displayed
markzStory202160
obormottelStory181107
serenityStory179225
ur-a-jewStory1681087
kedushaStory962435
YesodStory90146
unanumunStory84570
lomedStory44323
Moshe271Story27Not Displayed
MesayinStory15104
ZemirosShabbosuser link344Not Displayed
Lizhenskuser link242Not Displayed
TehillimZuggeruser link232170
Bigmoishuser link230Not Displayed
TriggerMeNot88user link210136
ddmm11219user link178248
shivisiuser link113193
peloni almoniuser link90180
neshamainchargeuser link84516
Yudiuser link69133
MendelZuser link57825
eslaasosuser link55185
belmont4175user link51428
Reb Yiduser link47351
Palti-Yossefuser link37162
me3user link3797
Fightingaddictionnowuser link35163
think gooduser link30289
yidtryingharderuser link29150
xyxorwauser link29127
military613user link21377
fulfillinglife613user link18252
an honest mouseuser link1595


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If you would like your story added, removed, or the link changed, or whatever, please let me know

A lot of the above people haven't posted in a long time...
What works for me: 1) Honesty 2) Meetings 3) 12-step 4) Listening to my Sponsor 5) Not doing what I want to do 6) Inviting the God of my understanding into my life

"I can't do it, God can help." | "Everything I want is on the other side of fear." | "Where there is deprivation there is addiction." | "Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery." | "Stop stopping, start living."

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Re: Truck Towing #1 - Success Stories 04 May 2016 17:52 #286644

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Thanks Shlomo

Nice to see you're a visitor too

It took time to compile, and iyH tonight it will be updated, and compacted.

FYI I had previously followed "Last accessed" gye, and many of those mentioned had logged on, but not posted. Eg the last guy "honest mouse" actually logged in yesterday, but we haven't heard a squeak from him recently...
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Re: Truck Towing #1 - Success Stories 05 May 2016 16:12 #286786

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Shlomo as you requested, and was updated last night on the first page, here's the updated list of fellow 100 day gye's

100 day Success Stories
Click on the Link of any user to read his Great Trucking Story

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cordnoyemail3971303266
DovemailNot Displayed933152
skepticalemailNot Displayed67563
Gevura Shebyesodemail1039667216
Shlomo24emailNot Displayed37657
gibbor120emailNot Displayed35896
ZemirosShabbosemailNot Displayed35467
WatsonemailNot Displayed23953
Yesodemail24721846
obormottelemail2032016
serenityemail40119295
ur-a-jewemail108717137
Kedushaemail252212421
neshamainchargeemail61411429
unanumunemail73010243
BenTorah.BaalHabayisemail1229511
Workingguyemail908120
markzemail26045693


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Re: Free lust Truck Towing - see page 1 23 Jan 2017 03:50 #303872

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Thank you Markz for your link to the video explaining that the opposite of addiction is connection. Very powerful and really makes one think.
Feel free to contact me at michelgelner@gmail.com

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Re: Free lust Truck Towing - see page 1 24 Mar 2017 12:26 #309073

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For everyone who made it hope you had a good time!

Re: Free lust Truck Towing - see page 1 24 Mar 2017 12:42 #309076

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No wonder I had such issues this past week.
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If one gives up at the first sign of a struggle, he is really not ready to be successful."
"Tryin' and doin' are two different thin's - tryin' is hopin'; doin' is succeedin'.
"The right thin' to do and the hard thin' to do are usually the same."

Disclaimer: I am not a cheerleader; B"H, there are many on the site. I am here to change myself, and with God's help, by some mistake, I might even help change others.

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Re: Free lust Truck Towing - see page 1 24 Mar 2017 12:48 #309077

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GrowStrong wrote on 24 Mar 2017 12:26:
For everyone who made it hope you had a good time!

#TWEET
OPEN HOUSE FOR ALL WHITE BOOK HOLDER US CITIZENS
ALL WHITE KNUCKLERS MUST GO THRU MULTILAYER SECURITY CHECK

MAKE GYE GR8 AGAIN
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Re: Truck Towing #1 - Success Stories 28 May 2017 19:54 #314326

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UPDATED - 100 day Success Stories
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Member Story LinkE-mail
cordnoythenewme613@hotmail.com
Gevura Shebyesodyesod25@gmail.com
Dovwequithiding@gmail.com
gibbor120✉
serenityGomu2serenity@gmail.com
Shlomo24iam24zman@gmail.com
Watson✉
Workingguy✉
Yesodyesod613@gmail.com
GrowStrong
Singularity
Hashem Help Me
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Re: Truck Towing #1 - Success Stories 30 Aug 2017 21:25 #319554

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Hey Markz I think you should collect all the posts in the first page and organize it so that it should be easier to navigate.
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Re: Truck Towing #1 - Success Stories: See Page 1 31 Aug 2017 00:24 #319560

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Mesayin wrote on 30 Aug 2017 21:25:
Hey Markz I think you should collect all the posts in the first page and organize it so that it should be easier to navigate.

Please explain what issues you are experiencing - everything is on the 1st page ;-)
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Re: Truck Towing- #7 Audio 14 Nov 2017 23:04 #322437

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the link to pomaranche isnt working

Re: Truck Towing- #7 Audio 15 Nov 2017 03:34 #322444

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I updated it for you, and posting it here too

Shalom Bayis - Attention Affection Appreciation, and more!!
Enter your Login to torahmedia.com go to "Speakers" from the main page, then select the "Pamensky, Rabbi Aryeh" lectures and enjoy!
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Re: Truck Towing 13 Dec 2018 17:11 #337809

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Life isn't just about clean days.
It's also about being friendly and helpful (and more) and gye has some stats.

How about gye adding a new weekly report for all their truckers like waze does
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Re: Free lust Truck Towing - see page 1 27 Jan 2019 06:57 #338673

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It's been pretty quiet on the forum in recent months ...not so many truckers on the I-gye
Maybe they need their Dispatcher back...

Re: Free lust Truck Towing - see page 1 27 Jan 2019 19:55 #338683

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i-man wrote on 27 Jan 2019 06:57:
It's been pretty quiet on the forum in recent months ...not so many truckers on the I-gye
Maybe they need their Dispatcher back...

He's plugged into TA and running on auto pilot - handsfree!

What about you bro?
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