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Re: Holy In Jerusalem 06 Jan 2025 22:57 #428571

stopsurvivingstartliving
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I would like to try a new tactic, I am not sure it's the right way to go but for me it may be:

I would like to split my Ruchniyus into two different entities. SSSL1 and SSSL2. Part 1 of me is anything related to Kedusha. Part 2 is all other things such as how much I learn a day, if I daven with a minyan, if I had a productive day etc.

The point of this is that right now part 2 of my Ruchniyus freaken sucks. I really am not doing good and I don't know what the long term plan is. Part 1 of me -in the moment- isn't either doing good, from porn to masturbation and staring on the streets (in a way I tell myself that it isn't visible to others that I am staring

). In the past I had good times in the battle of kedushah. But lately I practically gave up. I think a big reason for this was because my part 2 was horrible. This gave me a bad feeling about myslef and I therefore was ready to throw in the towel.

Moving forward I hope this tactic works. This way at the end of a Clean day I can look at the part 1 of me and say WOW! you did it! Without the negative self talk telling me "your proud of yourself? you haven't learned a word today".

As an end note, I don't know if this makes sense and if it will help me in the kedusha battle, but I am trying my luck. I am trying to psychologically trick myself and am hoping for the best.

Replies are welcome.

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My current count to 90!

Last Edit: 06 Jan 2025 22:57 by stopsurvivingstartliving.

Re: Holy In Jerusalem 06 Jan 2025 23:05 #428572

stopsurvivingstartliving OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 375	Okay my Major idea gave me the confidence to delete a Gmail account I would turn to the past few days as a pacifier. I am proud of SSSL1!
	My New Tactic My current count to 90!

Re: Holy In Jerusalem 07 Jan 2025 04:33 #428587

Markz
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stopsurvivingstartliving wrote on 06 Jan 2025 22:57:

Ok then I’ll reply

if you actually wanna get somewhere, then I would suggest you break it out like this.
Part 1 is anything related to Kedusha, learning, Daven with a minyan…

Part 2 will be if you had a productive day etc.

Focus on Part 2

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Last Edit: 07 Jan 2025 04:35 by Markz.

Re: Holy In Jerusalem 09 Jan 2025 01:46 #428757

stopsurvivingstartliving OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 375	Don't know if it has to do with my new tactic or not but: Today and yesterday SSSL1 Clean! PS I still use every urge on the street as an opportunity to look (instead of an opportunity to not look). Not really fantasizing to do anything with them but just enjoy seeing it, does that make sense?
	My New Tactic My current count to 90!

Re: Holy In Jerusalem 10 Jan 2025 13:22 #428849

stopsurvivingstartliving OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 375	Today and Yesterday Clean! PS I've been to holy places recently and had the family in mind.
	My New Tactic My current count to 90!

Re: Holy In Jerusalem 10 Jan 2025 13:40 #428850

BenHashemBH OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 842 Karma: 25	stopsurvivingstartliving wrote on 10 Jan 2025 13:22: Today and Yesterday Clean! PS I've been to holy places recently and had the family in mind. Thank you! Have a beautiful and Holy Shabbos in Jerusalem!
	Today is yesterday's tomorrow. The yetzarim a person has the most trouble dealing with are his most powerful God-given tools for developing his potential and achieving shleimus. It doesn't matter how big the number is, only that today it is going up by one. A little about what I'm doing here: guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/412971-I-Want-to-Help-Others

Re: Holy In Jerusalem 12 Jan 2025 00:29 #428892

stopsurvivingstartliving OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 375	Shabbos Clean! Though I am doin pretty good the last few days on P and M I still dread a whole week in front of me. Help!
	My New Tactic My current count to 90! Last Edit: 12 Jan 2025 00:30 by stopsurvivingstartliving.

Re: Holy In Jerusalem 12 Jan 2025 00:37 #428894

hopefulposek Current streak: 283 days OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 240 Karma: 15	Just keep being in touch with the chevra, your gonna do great!
	"Greatness is forged in battle" - Reb Yerucham Levovitz My Journey - https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/399197-On-the-way-Again Feel Free to Reach out to me through email at hopefulposek613@gmail.com Or my google voice at 3476447501

Re: Holy In Jerusalem 12 Jan 2025 04:54 #428922

eerie Current streak: 877 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1638	stopsurvivingstartliving wrote on 12 Jan 2025 00:29: Shabbos Clean! Though I am doin pretty good the last few days on P and M I still dread a whole week in front of me. Help! My dear friend, you don't have to do the whole week. Just today. Just today. Just today. Just today. One more thing: you just have to do today
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Re: Holy In Jerusalem 12 Jan 2025 06:10 #428925

simchastorah Current streak: 73 days NOW ONLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 357 Karma: 17	I agree with everything in eerie's post I just want to add one thing - you just have to do today (not sure why he didnt mention that, אבל הניח מקום להתגדר בו)
	Last Edit: 12 Jan 2025 06:10 by simchastorah.