Forum

Welcome, Guest

Make it to Yeshiva

(0 viewing)

Welcome to our forum! Introduce yourself here (anonymously, of course) and get a warm welcome from the rest of the community!

Reply Topic

New Topic

Page:
1
...
74
75
76
77
78
79
80
...
123

TOPIC: Make it to Yeshiva 108721 Views

Re: Make it to Yeshiva 16 Aug 2021 01:00 #371629

Yaakov5782 OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 16 Karma: 1	If you have never seen “it” you have retained an innocence like Adam in Gan Eden. You have not bitten from the Tree of Knowledge and have only eaten from the Tree of Life. Stay pure to inspire us! I believe in you!!

Re: Make it to Yeshiva 16 Aug 2021 06:11 #371644

wilnevergiveup
Current streak: 1 day
OFFLINE
Platinum Boarder
Posts: 1159
Karma: 113

Hi Yaakov, welcome to GYE!

I am having a hard time understanding your posts. Do you struggle with porn and/or masturbation or are free for a long time with lots of experience and you understand what works and what doesn't and are here primarily to help others.

If you are here for the former, it will help if you start your own thread, introduce yourself and share a little about your struggle. GYE is an amazing community that offers tremendous support that you wont find anywhere else and I am proud to be part of it.

Excluding specific circumstances, I don't think it's ever a good idea to "just go for it".

Check out My Thread and The Truth

(עשה רצונו כרצונך (אבות,ב:ד

Feel free to email me wilnevergiveupgye@gmail.com

Re: Make it to Yeshiva 16 Aug 2021 17:25 #371654

yeshivaguy
Current streak: 6 days
OFFLINE
Platinum Boarder
Posts: 1493
Karma: 148

Yaakov5782 wrote on 15 Aug 2021 22:40:

I get your quandary. I would also ask, is it something you struggle with on the day to day or you’re posting here because this specific issue has come up? Personally, if you have no prior issues, I say go for it.

Thank you for reaching out. And please do take up Wilnevergiveup on his post and let us know your role here and if we can be of service to you then it would be best to start your own thread.
I take great issue with you saying to “go for it,” perhaps you can please explain what you mean by it and what exactly is your reasoning?

Thanks,

YeshivaGuy

Re: Make it to Yeshiva 17 Aug 2021 01:16 #371672

yeshivaguy Current streak: 6 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1493 Karma: 148	Today I went to target to get some things. There were pretty girls there (the frum ones are always the hardest), and Baruch HaShem Yisborach I was matzliach. Even when I needed to get a notebook in the same vicinity of a girl, I looked straight ahead. I remained conscious of the fact that women are people and not items to be consumed. Thank you all, YeshivaGuy
	Last Edit: 17 Aug 2021 01:16 by yeshivaguy.

Re: Make it to Yeshiva 17 Aug 2021 02:54 #371678

DeletedUser825 Current streak: 109 days OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 141 Karma: 21	There were pretty girls there (the frum ones are always the hardest) maskim...
	My thread: Let's get this party started Who the heck is Benoni? Procrastination is something best put off until tomorrow. -Gerald Vaughan

Re: Make it to Yeshiva 17 Aug 2021 02:55 #371680

Markz
OFFLINE
Platinum Boarder
Posts: 8260
Karma: 428

YeshivaGuy wrote on 17 Aug 2021 01:16:

Today I went to target to get some things.
There were pretty girls there (the frum ones are always the hardest), and Baruch HaShem Yisborach I was matzliach.
Even when I needed to get a notebook in the same vicinity of a girl, I looked straight ahead.
I remained conscious of the fact that women are people and not items to be consumed.

Thank you all,

YeshivaGuy

YG is gonna kill me for this, but here’s the redacted post

”When I needed to get a notebook in the same vicinity of a girl, I looked straight ahead.

Our eyes met. I pulled out my gye Siddur and read to her page 199. “You are someone’s daughter (obviously). Women are people and not items to be consumed. I will never objectify you.

Now will you marry me please??”

She said “I object”
I said “You no object”

This went back and forth a couple of times until I finally understood why the women’s forum was separated from the guys…
So I’m clean today. Not sure about tomorrow, maybe I’ll finally meet a smart woman…

My Story---------Dov Quotes

FREE LUST TRUCK TOWING
Click HERE to checkout;
• 100 Day Success Stories: cordnoy, Dov, Gevura and more...
• Awesome Threads Saved for You
• Cast Your Vote

➣ GYE Plenty Solutions
➣ The Mark of Torah - Lust Chizuk
➣ Nice Trucking Story

Re: Make it to Yeshiva 17 Aug 2021 06:08 #371687

starting
Current streak: 5 days
OFFLINE
Platinum Boarder
Posts: 469

YeshivaGuy wrote on 13 Aug 2021 05:57:

Hey guys, I need some chizzuk.
Was shmuzing with some friends in Yeshiva tonight, and they started discussing a tv show about off the derech people, I hadn’t heard of it before so they told me about it.
Then my friend took out his laptop to show us the trailer.

It was me and a few guys and immediately at the beggining there was a woman with her chest showing, I was taken aback and walked away, and my friends didn’t flinch. They kept watching it, and told me (as saying nebach it’s so crumb) it was very inappropriate, and kissing etc.
I was so surprised that these guys had no boosha to see that in a yeshiva dorm together.

I felt bad that maybe I looked too frum and there was a guy who said sarcastically “you’re suuucchh a tzaddiikk,” and thought maybe I should apologize, but I didn’t. Instead I said “I’m not such a tzadik, I just know that if I see breasts I’ll go crazy.”

The thing is, it’s not that I’m super duper perfect with Shmiras Eynayim, I was just repulsed at that moment, which made me feel hypocritical…

WOW!!!!

YOU ARE THE NEXT LEVEL!!!!

GEVURA OF YOSEF HATZADDIK!!!!

HOLD YOUR HEAD UP AND FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE USE THIS INCIDENT TO DESCRIBE YOURSELF

The start of 'STARting' is 'star'. Just start and you're a star!!

'the cleaner I stay, the cleaner I stay' - AlexEliezer
העבר עיני מראות שוא, בדרכך חינו (תהלים קיט, לז)
PM me for my phone number

Re: Make it to Yeshiva 17 Aug 2021 14:00 #371692

Yaakov5782 OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 16 Karma: 1	Good point. Here is my intro. Let’s do this together. for the sake of heaven! https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/371691-Long-Time-Free-then-slight-hiccup#371691

Re: Make it to Yeshiva 17 Aug 2021 14:01 #371693

Yaakov5782 OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 16 Karma: 1	This is pretty damn funny… here is my intro: https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/371691-Long-Time-Free-then-slight-hiccup#371691
	Last Edit: 17 Aug 2021 14:02 by Yaakov5782. Reason: More info needed

Re: Make it to Yeshiva 18 Aug 2021 01:54 #371705

yeshivaguy
Current streak: 6 days
OFFLINE
Platinum Boarder
Posts: 1493
Karma: 148

For the last hour: Have been lying in bed during NightSeder. Why? Cuz I’m exhausted. Thoughts drift to how much I didn’t enjoy learning today. I’ve been pushing to learn most of first/2nd seder but hasn’t been so Geshmak (besides some moments here and there).

-Enter Yetzer

Yetzer: Masterbate, find a way to watch some vids and you’ll feel good!
Me: What shaychus? I’m upset about my learning.
Yetzer: Cmon, it would be so so Geshmak if you could just masterbate, watch bad zachen etc. why are you depriving yourself from such gevaldik taanugim?!
Me: You have a point it is Geshmak… But it’s not כדאי to masterbate now as I don’t even have anything to watch, it’s such a “waste” of a fall.
But Oy maybe you’re right…
(Fantasies and an erection ensues)
Me: Ah! I can’t do it, I will just feel worse and I’ll have to start over. And it’s Elul, cmon!
Yetzer: Don’t think just enjoy, cmon turn over, just reach down and give it a touch and enjoy yourself, cmon. Just think about that moment of pleasure, that can be yours, it’s so so easy.
Me:Aaahhh!! I’ll post this on GYE and hopefully that will help.

Last Edit: 18 Aug 2021 01:59 by yeshivaguy.

Re: Make it to Yeshiva 18 Aug 2021 02:14 #371706

yeshivaguy Current streak: 6 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1493 Karma: 148	Thank You @Sapy for holding me back from jumping off the cliff.
	Last Edit: 18 Aug 2021 02:14 by yeshivaguy.

Re: Make it to Yeshiva 18 Aug 2021 03:46 #371707

i-man Current streak: 1 day OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 584 Karma: 61	Wow! Beautiful! Thank you both for the chizuk
	Imapureman2018@gmail.com

Re: Make it to Yeshiva 18 Aug 2021 04:14 #371709

oivedelokim
Current streak: 25 days
OFFLINE
Platinum Boarder
Posts: 769
Karma: 104

Wow! I’m inspired…

I am a bochur with a passion for meaning and truth, searching to remain clean and live a holy and fulfilling life.

If you are reading this-you have a friend in me.
Feel free to PM me and I'll share my offline contact information, so we can call and text. I'd be honored if you'd trust me with your story and promise to support you in any way I possibly can.
I've been on GYE for over 7 years. "I may walk slow, but I never walk back" (-Abraham Lincoln?).
(For the background and meaning of my username- see Tanya chapter 15).

My current thread

Re: Make it to Yeshiva 18 Aug 2021 04:56 #371712

zedj
Current streak: 14 days
OFFLINE
Platinum Boarder
Posts: 627
Karma: 46

YeshivaGuy wrote on 18 Aug 2021 01:54:

Amazing!

One who has given up hope is without a G‑d.

One who sees hope in each day is already free

Re: Make it to Yeshiva 19 Aug 2021 23:41 #371762

yeshivaguy Current streak: 6 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1493 Karma: 148	I am bored. I want to watch bad vids and masterbate. I want pleasure. I want to feel good. Is bad vids and masterbation the only way to get it? Probably not. But it’s super Geshmak and nothing else going on right now, plus no one is in my room now, I can chap arein a great masterbation session. These are my thoughts.
	Last Edit: 19 Aug 2021 23:42 by yeshivaguy.