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GYE Newbie 09 May 2017 07:30 #312629

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Hey guys, I just joined. I'm 21 and I've been struggling with porn since my parents got divorced when I was 14

GYE Newbie 09 May 2017 07:44 #312630

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Welcome Brother,
You are not alone, there is a group of guys here going through very similar issues for many different reasons.
You can breathe easy, you will find most of the answers you need, right here on the site.
Find some free moments to read through the GYE handbook if you have not yet already done so. Take some extra time to go through the 30 Principles of GYE
Of the many tools you will find here on this site, bringing the problem out into the open, out of isolation and sharing it with others in a similar boat is a great first step.
Read up on the various ways that many here have managed to stay clean for amazingly long periods of time by participating with us in the forum.
If you are dedicated to stopping, know that it is possible.
Most importantly.
Keep on Trucking.

GYE Newbie 09 May 2017 11:17 #312644

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Welcome, brother.

Take the time to read around and gauge where you are / how serious your issue is.

Just don't split on us
"Vegeta, what does the scouter say about his sobriety level?"
"... It's over NINE-ZEROOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!"

One day... At A Time :-D


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GYE Newbie 09 May 2017 11:19 #312646

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Welcome

Re: GYE Newbie 09 May 2017 11:32 #312647

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Welcome,

Life and recovery should be with hatzlachah.
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Re: GYE Newbie 09 May 2017 12:40 #312651

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Welcome. Best wishes for hatzlocha. Maybe you could write some more details of the struggle?
Feel free to contact me at michelgelner@gmail.com

My threads: Lessons Learned: guardyoureyes.com/forum/20-Important-Threads/335248-Lessons-Learned

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Re: GYE Newbie 09 May 2017 13:07 #312654

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Yam Suf wrote on 09 May 2017 07:30:
Hey guys, I just joined. I'm 21 and I've been struggling with porn since my parents got divorced when I was 14


How did you find out about gye?
I thought we were a secret club????

Now that you're here, we welcome you to the brotherhood with open arms!

In many cases porn is the solution not the problem. Your unfortunate parents divorce is likely a much bigger part of the problem, and there are many ways you can break free from your problems

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Re: GYE Newbie 09 May 2017 13:56 #312657

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Welcome. I'm also 21. Been on the site for around 2.5 years. My contact info is in my signature.
Hatzlacha.
If you're an LGBTQ or LGBTQ-questioning person and looking for someone who can understand you, feel free to reach out. I promise no judgement and to try and listen the best I can. 

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Re: GYE Newbie 09 May 2017 14:14 #312660

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Markz wrote on 09 May 2017 13:07:

Yam Suf wrote on 09 May 2017 07:30:
Hey guys, I just joined. I'm 21 and I've been struggling with porn since my parents got divorced when I was 14


How did you find out about gye?
I thought we were a secret club????



used to be! and that's the problem, If I would know about this secret club years before, I would have my life back earlier...
My email:jacdoja@gmail.com
My threads: my long נסיעה of almost 30 years ~ My Book of Business ~ My Upcoming Dilemma

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כי עיקר מציאות האדם בעה"ז הוא רק לקיים מצות ולעמד בניסיון,  והנאות העולם אין ראוי שיהו לו אלא לעזר ולסיוע בלבד לשיהיה לו נחת רוח ויישוב הדעת למען יוכל לפנות לבו אל העבודה הזאת מסילת ישרים

Re: GYE Newbie 09 May 2017 17:45 #312672

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Welcome 

Recovery should be with hatzlacha 

Let us know how we can help
very important thread: guardyoureyes.com/forum/20-Important-Threads/19180-FEEL-THE-HUGS%21%21%21" option="guardyoureyes.com/forum/20-Important-Threads/19180-FEEL-THE-HUGS%21%21%21">FEEL THE HUGS!!!

Re: GYE Newbie 18 May 2017 21:39 #313608

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Welcome!  Check out the handbook.  Keep posting.  Have you gotten help to deal with the divorce?  How is your relationship with your parents?  Do you have anyone you can discuss this with?
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