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Re: Hashem might send my salvation here 06 Dec 2016 19:41 #299281

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Welcome Ahavah Veyirah,

YOU have doen the right thing by coming here. This was the first step for me to get helped.

One of the suggestions would be to read the handbook and figure out where you are really struggling and follow their recommendation. In addition perhaps you should follow gibors suggestions.

Feel free to reach out to me for anything I may be at help.

May Hashem be with you through this and help you step by step.

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Re: Hashem might send my salvation here 06 Dec 2016 21:22 #299285

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ahavayirah wrote on 06 Dec 2016 18:51:

gibbor120 wrote on 06 Dec 2016 18:46:
I'm afraid hope will not help you here.  MAKE GEDARIM and MAKE THEM FAST.  Even if it is VERY uncomfortable.  GEDARIM are there for a reason.  If you don't put a wedge between the 2 of you somehow, this will not end pretty.  DO NOT take this lightly.  You MUST TAKE action BEFORE you end up in a compromising situation. DO NOT WAIT. Do not think, ponder, hope... JUST ACT.

DON'T KNOW what to tell you specifically, since I don't know the exact situation.  BUT PLEEEEASE, for your sake, your wife? children?  People loose everything dear to them.  DON'T BE ONE OF THEM.

Please report back and let us know how it's going.

I wish you all the best.


WOW! now that was a powerful message.
Thank you gibbor120 - I think I will change my name to gibbor121

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Re: Hashem might send my salvation here 06 Dec 2016 21:28 #299286

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Don't change your name. Change your actions.  Then write about it here, and let us know how it's going.  We're here for you .
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Re: Hashem might send my salvation here 06 Dec 2016 21:40 #299288

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That's a bad typo to make on this forum, Gibbor. Lol. Read your post again.
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Re: Hashem might send my salvation here 06 Dec 2016 22:09 #299290

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Shlomo24 wrote:
That's a bad typo to make on this forum, Gibbor. Lol. Read your post again.

Is that why Gibbor wrote that comment and now Gevurah gave a thank you
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Re: Hashem might send my salvation here 06 Dec 2016 23:08 #299292

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Shlomo, when you comment on a typo you have to quote it. Otherwise nobody knows what you meant after the OP fixes his post. 
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Re: Hashem might send my salvation here 07 Dec 2016 01:37 #299301

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Gevura Shebyesod wrote on 06 Dec 2016 23:08:
Shlomo, when you comment on a typo yo skep tonightu have to quote it. Otherwise nobody knows what you meant after the OP fixes his post. 

Now, I won't be able to sleep tonight.
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Re: Hashem might send my salvation here 07 Dec 2016 01:44 #299302

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cordnoy wrote on 07 Dec 2016 01:37:

Gevura Shebyesod wrote on 06 Dec 2016 23:08:
Shlomo, when you comment on a typo yo skep tonightu have to quote it. Otherwise nobody knows what you meant after the OP fixes his post. 

Now, I won't be able to sleep tonight.

Quoting a quote with a typo in it...
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Re: Hashem might send my salvation here 07 Dec 2016 01:51 #299303

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Ahavayirah it is commendable that you came here do not delay though! I can't agree more with gibbor you must first make a geder put a sword between you and that woman do it now! Then you can start thinking about underlying things and stuff like that- do whatever it takes because it will take you for a ride all the way to hell. You have everything going for you and we are cheering for you make the right move 

Re: Hashem might send my salvation here 07 Dec 2016 02:35 #299310

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Gevura Shebyesod wrote on 07 Dec 2016 01:44:

cordnoy wrote on 07 Dec 2016 01:37:

Gevura Shebyesod wrote on 06 Dec 2016 23:08:
Shlomo, when you comment on a typo yo skep tonightu have to quote it. Otherwise nobody knows what you meant after the OP fixes his post. 

Now, I won't be able to sleep tonight.

Quoting a quote with a typo in it...

Must be tired.
 took me a few seconds.
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Re: Hashem might send my salvation here 07 Dec 2016 16:58 #299351

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Re: Hashem might send my salvation here 07 Dec 2016 18:44 #299365

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Re: Hashem might send my salvation here 13 Dec 2016 16:06 #299814

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Hey Mr. AY,

Can you give us an update?  How are you doing?

Re: Hashem might send my salvation here 14 Dec 2016 08:14 #299885

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Re: Hashem might send my salvation here 03 Jan 2017 19:21 #302069

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Hi all...
Baruch Hashem, my life turned around completely by an unexpected turn of events. The exact details are not important, but I can say that the issue is completely resolved and I am a new person. My prayer & blessing is, that it should keep up and we should all be able to serve Hashem properly.
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