Getting married wrote:


I don't know to where you went, and I dont know on what kind of girls you were looking.
There are clear rules, guardyoureyes.com/90-days-chart/rules

What constitutes a "Fall" to require restarting the count?
There are "slips" and there are "falls". "Slips" do not require restarting the count. "Falls" do require restarting.
A "Fall" is one of the following things:

1 Intentional masturbation (with finish)
2 Intentionally viewing improper sites
3 Intentionally calling inappropriate telephone numbers
4 Intentionally seeking out and reading erotica
5 Worse things, which we need not mention

In regard to number 2 (and 4), if someone saw something by mistake and then got a little bit carried away and kept looking at it, or even if someone saw a link and couldn't resist clicking on it but then catches themselves within a few seconds, that would only be considered a "slip", not a "fall". However, if someone decides to actively pursue viewing bad sites, that would be considered a fall.

All the best

Cordnoy I know you didn't told me to reset it and no one one told me clear to reset it but as I understood from you and other like there is no question about it and from you for sure with your question are you Being serious ??? You think I would of wrote it if I'm not serious????
About you didn't understand what I wrote sorry I'm not in the mood to write it over
To doingtshuva I think there is a 3 second rule here and failed here big time

Look bucher, you're still young
Don't put too much emphasis on the chart whether you restart or not

The ikar is make sure today is a good one, and try the same tomoro, and stick around

The fact that you're noticing where you're slipping, is also a step up

Keep on the great trucking

markz wrote:

Thank you markz I really appreciate your good words

Getting married wrote:


No problem.

All should be well.

Getting married wrote:


Dear getting married.
If you look at a dressed women in the street for more than 3 seconds it is not a FALL!!!! NO
If you look at porn or erotica material for more than 3 seconds it is a FALL !!!! Yes

You wrote that you went to a clean place, so what type of women did you see there?
The place doesn't matter so much, the way the women was dressed is what matters.
Is it clear enough?

I hope I helped you.

doingtshuva wrote:

Reugler non jewish women fully dressed
Thanks I will know for next time

I've only read the past few posts, so if I'm writing something that doesn't really fit in, please excuse me.

In my view, whether you decide to reset your count or not, gazing at women -whether completely tznius, or otherwise- is definitely something to work on.

If my intention is to drink in the sights, I'm in essence, ingesting the same poison.

Getting married wrote:
Then it's not a fall of course . Don't worry so much about defining it. Forget it, and move on.