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Hi 28 Dec 2014 09:48 #245929

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Hi i would like to introduce my self.
I being around here for a while but I never posted before.
I joined the 90 days chart and is being a life changer.
I get a lot of chizuk from all of you.
Even though things are better, than before finding this site and join the chart, I still get this nagging feeling of just look into something, not terrible pornographic, but I know we're all will end. Any suggestions how to deal with that?

Re: Hi 28 Dec 2014 10:06 #245930

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Welcome to the postin' section.

This is also a big step!

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Re: Hi 28 Dec 2014 10:25 #245931

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Hi! Glad you're here! Keep posting! For me, talking out my feelings with a chaver helps a lot. Also helping other people helps me tremendously. Hatzlacha!
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Re: Hi 28 Dec 2014 18:07 #245939

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welcome cuidandome.
Read the Handbook, and get ready to work.
Looking for a Chaver to open up is wonderful.
Remember every time you delay an urge even if it's for 10 minutes you'll get tremendous Schar.


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Re: Hi 29 Dec 2014 08:41 #246025

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WELCOME!

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Re: Hi 29 Dec 2014 20:06 #246061

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WELCOME! Read the handbook. Keep posting. Get to know the chevra here.

Re: Hi 28 Mar 2016 01:53 #282703

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Re: Hi 28 Mar 2016 03:38 #282716

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Thank you for noticing,  but unfortunately,  I have to update. Just after reaching the 90 days,  I had a stupid fall. Definitely  Not as bad as it use to be,  but non the less a fall. 
Here we go again,  starting from 1.  

Re: Hi 28 Mar 2016 05:04 #282721

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cuidandome. wrote on 28 Mar 2016 03:38:
Thank you for noticing,  but unfortunately,  I have to update. Just after reaching the 90 days,  I had a stupid fall. Definitely  Not as bad as it use to be,  but non the less a fall. 
Here we go again,  starting from 1.  

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Re: Hi 28 Mar 2016 11:01 #282726

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Re: Hi 28 Mar 2016 12:03 #282732

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cuidandome. wrote on 28 Mar 2016 03:38:
Thank you for noticing,  but unfortunately,  I have to update. Just after reaching the 90 days,  I had a stupid fall. Definitely  Not as bad as it use to be,  but non the less a fall. 
Here we go again,  starting from 1.  

Perhaps that's why I wrote "Keep Calm" :-)

But hey, you didn't say how you made 90 days
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Re: Hi 28 Mar 2016 16:31 #282754

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Hey Markz,  you are ready good. 
Well,  I think things go well when I'm keeping a very tight Resolution not to alloud even a small thought of lust. Once I let some small lustfull thoughts and ideas creep in,  then it becomes a sleepery down the hill,  I start to sexualize people, and then is just a matter of time that I end up finding ways to  look at  triggering images.  
 

Re: Hi 28 Mar 2016 16:36 #282756

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No I'm not already good - sorry

Any idea - was it the overload of Purim that caused your fall?
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Re: Hi 28 Mar 2016 16:37 #282757

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cuidandome. wrote on 28 Mar 2016 16:31:
Hey Markz,  you are ready good. 
Well,  I think things go well when I'm keeping a very tight Resolution not to alloud even a small thought of lust. Once I let some small lustfull thoughts and ideas creep in,  then it becomes a sleepery down the hill,  I start to sexualize people, and then is just a matter of time that I end up finding ways to  look at  triggering images.  


 

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Last Edit: 28 Mar 2016 16:37 by shlomo24.

Re: Hi 29 Mar 2016 00:34 #282804

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Well,  when things are ok,  I'm actually able to do that,  the problem so far is that is not being a everlasting strategy,  and the proof is that I end up falling.  However,  this time I lasted pretty nicely,  and the best is that when I fell, B'H didn't went on a craze,  (granted since Thanks G-d I have a good filter I couldn't really go anywhere to get more stuff)  but non the less,  it wasn't a craze like other times in the past 
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