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Poll: What Ya' Worried About?

Eyes Wanderin' in Street 29 19.9%
Trigger-Happy-Finger on Computer 58 39.7%
Thoughts/Fantasies 28 19.2%
M 31 21.2%
Total number of voters:146 ( ZemirosShabbos gevura shebyesod mggsbms jewishfiltergeek dms1234 rav etzlo Atzmosyosef MBJ gibbor120 inastruggle testchart1 lizhensk pischoshelmachat Singularity mr.clean cordnoy mattlanta Shmeichel dd ddmm11219 9494 shomer bro iwillguardmyeyes doingtshuva beattheyezter bsimcha joniteshuba ineedchizuk bigmoish peloni almoni trysohard newaction neshamaincharge shlomo24 workingjew DeletedUser2996 belmont4175 Yesod MisterD91 yidtryingharder serenity yiraishamaim ehrliche.bochur needchange18 breakingthehabit Gimpel123456789 Hashivalisesonyishecho Yanklast Sasha 2 stillgoing fulfillinglife613 polar bear yudi Shas abd297 i-man waydown ZDuvid goodchange613 eslaasos Markz Mitgaber Aryeh821 shmulyz19 Acr Gettingcloser Marven wantoimprove 1DayMore mesayin alwaysimproving365 re balabos colincolin Yesodi Workingguy BenTorah.BaalHabayis ishkabible dz703 Yaalzu shmirashachaim happy guy strugglinginpain Endeavouring gettingincontrol Chizuk29 YidFromMonsey yyy benyakov will Succeed Beh NewJew21 KedushasLevi elul teshuvahguy Meier bb0212 Dreaming Lite Baruch_Hashem hakolhevel SalerMoish GrowStrong mayanhamisgaber trouble Ihavestrength oivedelokim RaabosMachshovos lionking higherjourney higher clarity26 Shnitzel and kugel Yoni234 Shmiras_3.0 aaron1 trg261 Guard1 qwerty123456 ehrlich Bezrashashen looking_to_improve AsimpleJew fr33et flognaw48 shalom2 eccentriccomposer yeshivaguy Rebuild613 zedj theyoungertwin concernedjew21 dansto benny57 gettingthere9 tf f2fd workingonmyselfyid Mr94 neshomo kedosha amevakesh iyh2023 RabonShelKolBeniHagola talkonly levaryeh 5678 )
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Re: A Poll - Your Biggest Concern 26 Oct 2015 22:15 #266933

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I voted the 3rd one "thoughts/fantasies, although mostly just thoughts, and just as R' Cordnoy suggested it's more an issue with yechidim.

It used to be for me the forth "M" but I haven't even come close to that in a while B"H Hashem should help further.

My second would be "trigger happy on the computer" although not to xxx sites but to places that have a 10% chance that there might be somthin'.

As far as the first choice, I B"H have no problem on the streets, I take off my glasses, look at the ground while walking and getting out of the way of potential problems.

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Re: A Poll - Your Biggest Concern 22 Nov 2015 03:12 #269223

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Re: A Poll - Your Biggest Concern 23 Nov 2015 19:11 #269410

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Re: A Poll - Your Biggest Concern 23 Nov 2015 19:45 #269422

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Thank God! I'm not losin' anymore.
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Re: A Poll - Your Biggest Concern 18 Jan 2016 16:49 #274730

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I'm thinking of changing my vote - it's been swinging between 2, so for the next 2 months I'll change it to the 2nd
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Re: A Poll - Your Biggest Concern 18 Jan 2016 18:57 #274742

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markz wrote:
I'm thinking of changing my vote - it's been swinging between 2, so for the next 2 months I'll change it to the 2nd


Thanks for bumpin'.
It actually was good for me to think of this question again.
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Re: A Poll - Your Biggest Concern 18 Jan 2016 21:19 #274776

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I changed my vote to thoughts/fantasies, it's been what I have been struggling with the most for the past while.
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Re: A Poll - Your Biggest Concern 20 Jan 2016 22:10 #275069

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I refuse to vote! I need to choose more then one option. Even in the presidential election you can choose a vice. Maybe the poll could be 'what is our biggest concern 1st place and 2nd', or just choose all that apply.
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Re: A Poll - Your Biggest Concern 21 Jan 2016 00:08 #275083

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stillgoing wrote:
Even in the presidential election you can choose a vice.

I think if you're on GYE you've already chosen your vice....

Re: A Poll - Your Biggest Concern 21 Jan 2016 00:13 #275084

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I refuse to vote! I need to choose more then one option. Even in the presidential election you can choose a vice. Maybe the poll could be 'what is our biggest concern 1st place and 2nd', or just choose all that apply.
So you admit there's a president, and that was the question
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Re: A Poll - Your Biggest Concern 21 Jan 2016 19:11 #275151

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markz wrote:
stillgoing wrote:
I refuse to vote! I need to choose more then one option. Even in the presidential election you can choose a vice. Maybe the poll could be 'what is our biggest concern 1st place and 2nd', or just choose all that apply.
So you admit there's a president, and that was the question

ok fine, so I voted for president problem today. But I plan on changing it soon. unlike our other president, I don't think that this one will stay the same for four years (or even four days). But where is the 'change your vote' button?
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Re: A Poll - Your Biggest Concern 08 Mar 2016 20:50 #280689

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I voted "Thoughts/Fantasies", but would have co-listed "Eyes Wanderin' in Street" (and maybe also reversed the two) had we been allowed to vote for more than one.

Not intending to seem overly-confident Chas veShalom, but -- maybe because of my 180-day streak today -- I currently feel that my decision to forever stop with both "M" and with Internet-porn ("Trigger-Happy-Finger on Computer") is so "rock solid" that these are simply not options.

And thus practically, most of my effort now is on trying to control:
  1. ​my thoughts and fantasies: for now. I've been very successful with not actively indulging such thought, or with forcibly kicking them out whenever they try popping in , B"H. (And this is because it is so clear to me that indulging such thoughts can so easily trigger "acting out.")
  2. "Eyes Wanderin' in Street": I've been pretty good at "looking away" fairly quickly when suddenly seeing a pretty face or body, and I'm also doing my best to avoid intentionally looking in the first place. But I feel that I still need more work in this area.

With that, I wouldn't define my understanding that I need to be constantly vigilant in these areas as "worry."
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Re: A Poll - Your Biggest Concern 08 Mar 2016 22:34 #280701

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Halevay veiter.

My decision to forever stop was.....oops, I actually never made such a decision. I know that would be a big fat lie. I made it for today. Thank God I have been makin' that decision every day for quite some time now.

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Re: A Poll - Your Biggest Concern 31 Jul 2016 16:20 #293019

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I just tried to change my vote, it's not letting me.

anyone else seeing the same?
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Re: A Poll - Your Biggest Concern 31 Jul 2016 17:27 #293021

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Markz wrote on 31 Jul 2016 16:20:
I just tried to change my vote, it's not letting me.

anyone else seeing the same?

Seems all elections and votes nowadays are rigged.
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