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Re: why be afraid of saying 21 Nov 2016 19:51 #298241

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Shlomo24 wrote on 21 Nov 2016 19:21:

Gevura Shebyesod wrote on 21 Nov 2016 18:31:

Shlomo24 wrote on 21 Nov 2016 17:44:
YFM: What are the boxing gloves for? I put mine down a while ago

It's hard to tell from the picture if his hands are still in them, maybe he already put them down.

Aha! That's the chiddush!

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Re: why be afraid of saying 21 Nov 2016 20:34 #298243

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Ask God for willingness.
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Re: why be afraid of saying 21 Nov 2016 22:21 #298244

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Shlomo24 wrote on 21 Nov 2016 17:44:
YFM: What are the boxing gloves for? I put mine down a while ago

There Shlomo24, better?
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Re: why be afraid of saying 21 Nov 2016 22:29 #298245

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YidFromMonsey wrote on 21 Nov 2016 22:21:

Shlomo24 wrote on 21 Nov 2016 17:44:
YFM: What are the boxing gloves for? I put mine down a while ago

There Shlomo24, better?

Yup

Phew

I was worried
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Re: why be afraid of saying 21 Nov 2016 23:03 #298246

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Serious bug on this thread 

This holy website doesn't like * & * in the title so it simply x's it out
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Re: why be afraid of saying 21 Nov 2016 23:11 #298247

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Re: why be afraid of saying 21 Nov 2016 23:12 #298248

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Shlomo, Thank you for your reply. I really appreciate it. If I'm not mistaken I believe you have a bit of sobriety under your belt. If you would care to share your sobriety date, it may be helpful to some of us. Up to you of-course. I do have a question. Can you please by way of explanation reconcile these two statements: 1. " So if I see a beautiful man, those neuronal pathways can get lit up, which is the definition of being triggered. Once those pathways are excited, only a true act of God can keep me sober, because I'm biologically determined to act on those impulses." and 2. "I don't believe that triggers CAUSE me to act out. It's just that my diseased brain tells me I need to lust when I'm feeling triggered." to me they seem to be inconsistent and contradictory. 
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Re: why be afraid of saying 21 Nov 2016 23:14 #298249

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Re: why be afraid of saying 21 Nov 2016 23:15 #298250

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Watson wrote on 21 Nov 2016 23:11:
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Re: why be afraid of saying 21 Nov 2016 23:15 #298251

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Re: why be afraid of saying 21 Nov 2016 23:31 #298252

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Workingguy, I just want to point out that the word trigger doesn't appear once in the AA Big Book which is the foundation of 12 step recovery. Well, that's not exactly true, there is one reference to actual trigger on a shotgun. I'm aware the word and the concept is found in the White Book and may be appropriate in the context in which it is found there. I rarely if ever hear the word at SA or AA meetings. 
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Re: why be afraid of saying 21 Nov 2016 23:37 #298253

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I counted 14 times in the White Book, including "What we seem to be discovering is that just about anything can become a trigger."



I'm not arguing, just referencing. Have a wonderful sober night everyone.
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Re: why be afraid of saying 21 Nov 2016 23:46 #298254

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serenity wrote on 21 Nov 2016 23:31:
Workingguy, I just want to point out that the word trigger doesn't appear once in the AA Big Book which is the foundation of 12 step recovery. Well, that's not exactly true, there is one reference to actual trigger on a shotgun. I'm aware the word and the concept is found in the White Book and may be appropriate in the context in which it is found there. I rarely if ever hear the word at SA or AA meetings. 

II haven't been at meetings in a while, but the group I was associated with did use the word.
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Re: why be afraid of saying 21 Nov 2016 23:51 #298255

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cordnoy wrote on 21 Nov 2016 23:15:

Watson wrote on 21 Nov 2016 23:11:
Love snoopy!
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Re: why be afraid of saying 22 Nov 2016 00:05 #298258

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It's not common in the rooms as it is here and it's in a different context.
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--"ולא המדרש עיקר, אלא המעשה"
--"To promise not to do a thing is the surest way in the world to make a body want to go and do that very thing." Mark Twain
--"If, when you honestly want to, you find you cannot quit entirely, or if when drinking (or lusting), you have little control over the amount you take, you are probably alcoholic (or sexaholic)." AA Big Book P. 45. Parenthesis added.
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