No, as a matter of fact, those, sometimes, that spend a lot of time on ratzon and thinkin', never get to action.

B'hatzlachah on takin' action

Markz wrote on 01 Nov 2017 19:39:

Ah ha so that is the trick why didn't anyone tell me that sooner now I'll post so much I'll be so busy I won't have time to do anything else

MayanHamisgaber wrote on 02 Nov 2017 06:50:

4 posts doesn't take up the whole day, and as I said it only works for some. There are many old timers with hundreds of posts and no relief from their porn / mast customs...
If a tool works for you, great

If not, Keep On Tooling

MayanHamisgaber wrote on 02 Nov 2017 06:50:

yes, for me works posting, many times at high peaks, i started thinking, so now ill act out, and then ill have to admit it on a public forum? no i cant, and that actually stopped me, 
also, posting helps, in case i have an urge, and im posting just for the purpose to fade out the lust....
so, yes, posting helps big time, but its a tool, what works for me, wont work for you..

Day #79

Today is Day #79, the feeling of being clean so long is amazing, and when ever i get some stupid thoughts im getting very upset, why in the world are they still coming to me? why? but i treat them as a great reminder, i shouldn't get comfortable, i still can fall, i have to know it very clear, and live with that, that the YH is a smart cookie, he has his way to get me back on his side, so basically, this small reminders are just to give me the tickle, yes, you are not over yet.... just watch out, and ill try to get around him, and of course it will work, but only with tefila and with the great support at GYE.... Thank You All !!!!!

i started a new Kabalah, everyday before entering to shil, im Mekabel on myself not to talk when the Tsibur are davening, even if im not davening at that minyan, i cant talk when people are davening, i have to go outside, and it should be Lezchus i shouldn't fall from this tefila till the end of the next tefilah... just mentioning here, so you can do it too, and ill have some share in that zchus...

Hay Brother!!!! Remember: One day at a time, why mess up the day when most of the day is almost over, stay positive, think and talk positive then everything will go your way, only with Simcha.

Thank you all!!! Im still clean all because of you, your support, your posts, your messages and what not.. keep it up.

Let’s Stay Strong! Let’s Stay Clean! And let’s be positive and happy, Yes! We can and we will do it! And Together

MayanHamisgaber wrote on 02 Nov 2017 06:50:

Mayen,

You're up to your 999's post! Now don't say no one told you sooner. Come on, give it all it takes!

Thank you for contributing so much to this wonderful place! ANd continued hatzlacha on whatever you do!

Thanks for noticing

I do not mean to sound stiff or anything but most of those posts are hogwash and garbage 
just someone stumbling around and not really doing the things he should be doing
But if there are those benefiting then as the saying goes 
One mans garbage is an others treasure  

ok so find your treasures 
you r being to hard on yourself man

tzomah wrote on 03 Nov 2017 09:18:

Tell me about it     

MayanHamisgaber wrote on 03 Nov 2017 10:58:

My fellow friends, please dont fight.... and be happy..
Thank You

Day #80

Shivisi_Hashem wrote on 03 Nov 2017 15:44:

1) Happy to be friends
2) This is the way friends help each other be honest with oneself yes it is hard but it works
3) Amen
4) Your welcome

Day #84 - Just one week left to reach day #90

today is Day #84, and guess what, i have left just one week to reach day # 90.... Yah Yah!!!!  will i make it??? hope that i will, but, hay, you may never know.... (in scared... please pray for me... i really want to make it) everything might happen, but ill tell you all, its tough, one day tougher then another.... as of today, porn is history, i dont even have any Taveh for it, im porn clean for 215 days, as of today my biggest struggle is on the street, looking on woman, its basically a daily issue, and im doing BH fine, but still they are in my way.... but i wouldn't say that i wouldn't enjoy looking at them... but thats my problem, and i have to work on myself, and thats exactly what im doing. and no, it wont go away, the street and the woman are here to stay, and me, going on the street is also here to stay, so i should better work on myself, and i will......

Hay Brother!!!! Remember: One day at a time, why mess up the day when most of the day is almost over, stay positive, think and talk positive then everything will go your way, only with Simcha.

Thank you all!!! Im still clean all because of you, your support, your posts, your messages and what not.. keep it up.

Let’s Stay Strong! Let’s Stay Clean! And let’s be positive and happy, Yes! We can and we will do it! And Together

Tell me brother, what is the view from so far up? I can hardly see you anymore. Hold me a place so I have where to sit once I catch up on you. 


Hurray!!!!! But don't let your past successes fool you! Keep your guard up!

Cheers!

Step 0 is stopping
Step 1 -12 is to start living.
I joined SA after I had 90 days because stopping wasn't enough for me, I wanted to start living.
I was in a really good place when I joined SA but it is incomparable to the life I have now with the fellowship and the steps and a real sponsor.
For me recovery is about growing up and I am so grateful that I am able to grow daily.
Looking forwards to your L'chaim in a week but remember this is just the beginning of the journey.