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PETITION AGAINST SPLITTING UP THE WEBSITE
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PETITION AGAINST SPLITTING UP THE WEBSITE 15 May 2017 10:27 #313103

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QUOTE FROM SHMIRAS AINYANIM EMAIL (1391):

Footnote by the editor:For the above-stated reason, GYE is in the process of dividing the website into two separate websites: one for non-addicts and one for addicts. We hope it's ready by the end of 2017, be"H.

I sign this petition against this idea. I consider myself a non-addict, but have gained tremendously from exposure to some great people whom are addicts.
My email address is: growinghigher613@gmail.com

Re: PETITION AGAINST SPLITTING UP THE WEBSITE 15 May 2017 10:44 #313106

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Perhaps the.guard can set up separate threads specific for each type but leave access open so we shouldn't need to sneak in like the ladies. Also perhaps in the welcome email hevcan set up a short quiz to help people define where they stand.
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Re: PETITION AGAINST SPLITTING UP THE WEBSITE 15 May 2017 10:58 #313108

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Do we know if the forum is included in the split?

Re: PETITION AGAINST SPLITTING UP THE WEBSITE 15 May 2017 11:13 #313110

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GrowStrong wrote on 15 May 2017 10:58:
Do we know if the forum is included in the split?

Good Point. I gotta learn to find out everything before issuing judgement, and even then to judge favorably. It is possible that some people might gain from a split site, I was just being selfish.
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Re: PETITION AGAINST SPLITTING UP THE WEBSITE 15 May 2017 11:40 #313116

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Who would gain?

I'm not arguing; just asking.
I'm all about that (substantial) bass, no trouble ....

Re: PETITION AGAINST SPLITTING UP THE WEBSITE 15 May 2017 11:49 #313118

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lionking wrote on 15 May 2017 10:44:
Perhaps the.guard can set up separate threads specific for each type but leave access open so we shouldn't need to sneak in like the ladies. Also perhaps in the welcome email hevcan set up a short quiz to help people define where they stand.

Like they would know.
I'm all about that (substantial) bass, no trouble ....

Re: PETITION AGAINST SPLITTING UP THE WEBSITE 15 May 2017 12:10 #313122

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Guys you're wasting your time

Please sign on the dotted lion below and move on

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I am powerless against stupid ideas

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Re: PETITION AGAINST SPLITTING UP THE WEBSITE 15 May 2017 12:32 #313128

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Trouble wrote on 15 May 2017 11:40:
Who would gain?

I'm not arguing; just asking.

I wasn't stating an obvious, just a theory. "It is possible that some people might gain"
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Re: PETITION AGAINST SPLITTING UP THE WEBSITE 15 May 2017 15:00 #313145

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im in, I signed............. don't know how
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להטות לבבנו אליו ללכת בכל דרכיו ולשמר מצותיו וחקיו ומשפטיו אשר צוה את אבתינו
כי עיקר מציאות האדם בעה"ז הוא רק לקיים מצות ולעמד בניסיון,  והנאות העולם אין ראוי שיהו לו אלא לעזר ולסיוע בלבד לשיהיה לו נחת רוח ויישוב הדעת למען יוכל לפנות לבו אל העבודה הזאת מסילת ישרים

Re: PETITION AGAINST SPLITTING UP THE WEBSITE 15 May 2017 17:49 #313197

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Markz wrote on 15 May 2017 12:10:
Guys you're wasting your time

Please sign on the dotted lion below and move on

"I am powerful against lust (non addict)
I am powerless against stupid ideas

Signed
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Markz"

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Bigmoish
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Re: PETITION AGAINST SPLITTING UP THE WEBSITE 15 May 2017 18:00 #313201

Bigmoish wrote on 15 May 2017 17:49:

Markz wrote on 15 May 2017 12:10:
Guys you're wasting your time

Please sign on the dotted lion below and move on

"I am powerful against lust (non addict)
I am powerless against stupid ideas

Signed
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Markz"

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Bigmoish

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MayanHamisgaber

I posted somewhere else that they want to split the tools not the forums whatever that means...
Shlomo responded (I think) that pigeonholing oneself and not knowing what one is is not good....
my thread:guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/300426-I-will-make-it-bh" option="guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/300426-I-will-make-it-bh">I will make it b"h











very important thread: guardyoureyes.com/forum/20-Important-Threads/19180-FEEL-THE-HUGS%21%21%21" option="guardyoureyes.com/forum/20-Important-Threads/19180-FEEL-THE-HUGS%21%21%21">FEEL THE HUGS!!!

Re: PETITION AGAINST SPLITTING UP THE WEBSITE 15 May 2017 18:09 #313202

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Non Addict Forum Design Pending

My Draft version will iyH be posted here at 9pm EST. 

Keep working / golfing / submarining / waterboarding till then...
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Re: PETITION AGAINST SPLITTING UP THE WEBSITE 15 May 2017 21:14 #313222

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גם אני מצטרף להנ"ל
גבורה שביסוד
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!אנא עבדא דקודשא בריך הוא

וּבְיָדְךָ כֹּחַ וּגְבוּרָה וּבְיָדְךָ לְגַדֵּל וּלְחַזֵּק לַכֹּל

And every day that you want to waste, that you want to waste, you can
And every day that you want to wake up, that you want to wake, you can
And every day that you want to change, that you want to change, yeah
I'll help you see it through...

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Re: PETITION AGAINST SPLITTING UP THE WEBSITE 16 May 2017 01:54 #313244

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Before implementing the new 2nd website, we wanted to get some feedback on the new forum under consideration. If no one objects, this may be the final draft

Pending Separate Forum Design
Current GYENew Non Addict GYE
Introduce Yourself Welcome to our forum! Introduce yourself here (anonymously, of course) and get a warm welcome from the rest of the community!Interkarma Yourself Introduce and pat yourself on your back daily
Break Free A platform of recovery for Jews who find themselves struggling with addictions to pornography, masturbation or other sexual problems. Post anonymously about your struggles without fear of anyone finding out who you are. Ask questions, post answers and be inspired! Get tips and guidance from the experts who moderate this forum, as well as from fellow strugglers.Break Ur Devices ODAAT
On the Way to 90-Days A recent scientific study shows that it takes 90 days to break an addictive pattern in the mind.On The Way To 900 Days A pending scientific study shows that it takes 1000 days to break a non addictive pattern in the mind.
What Works for Me Post the tips and advice that worked best for you in your journey to sobrietyWhat Works For YOU Share recommendations you heard from others that work, the less tried and tested the better
Just Having Fun Getting out of Isolation and connecting with others is an important part of recovery. This board is for non-addiction related threads, where members exchange jokes, have fun - and drink Lechayim Together!Just Having Fun Remaining in isolation and disconnecting from others is an important part of recovery. This board is for addiction related threads, where members exchange fake phone numbers, have popcorn - and gasp for air separately!
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Re: PETITION AGAINST SPLITTING UP THE WEBSITE 16 May 2017 02:46 #313253

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Can we actually stop this splitting up thing? It would be so bad. Oy vey. I can't imagine the heartbreak and confusion this is going to cause. I emailed Guard. I really hope this doesn't happen.
What works for me: 1) Honesty 2) Meetings 3) 12-step 4) Listening to my Sponsor 5) Not doing what I want to do 6) Inviting the God of my understanding into my life

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