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Re: Boyfriend-girlfriend relationship 31 Dec 2020 06:48 #360242

Hey markZ, I’d rather get a male therapist if you can find me one that would be great if not then too bad cuz
I’m not talking to her 
“Distancing and removing triggers is only bringing the door closer..Changing the insides and our nature is the key to get in.” 

“Human connection can help every sort of struggle” 

If anyone would like to reach me I’d love to help out! 
anonymouslyhappy111@gmail.com

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Re: Boyfriend-girlfriend relationship 31 Dec 2020 07:03 #360244

2:01am update I MUST SLEEP!!!!!! Gnighty  sending this to my friend at heart Lolol!!!
:pinch: Warning: Spoiler!
“Distancing and removing triggers is only bringing the door closer..Changing the insides and our nature is the key to get in.” 

“Human connection can help every sort of struggle” 

If anyone would like to reach me I’d love to help out! 
anonymouslyhappy111@gmail.com

Break free the easy way using the self-talk method!
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/378128-Captain--Shtarkemotionals-Secret90Day-Challenge

Check out this thread with packed Insight for every person at every stage! 
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Re: Boyfriend-girlfriend relationship 31 Dec 2020 15:54 #360260

Day number 10!!!!!!!!!!! Woohoooo today I got up feeling tired but what can I do lol haha! I got up missing my friend so much! Was listening to everything she ever sent me etc! Not that that’s what’s recommended but you know anyway, I jumped in the shower and started my day:) missing my friend! Will get busy and get through this
“Distancing and removing triggers is only bringing the door closer..Changing the insides and our nature is the key to get in.” 

“Human connection can help every sort of struggle” 

If anyone would like to reach me I’d love to help out! 
anonymouslyhappy111@gmail.com

Break free the easy way using the self-talk method!
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/378128-Captain--Shtarkemotionals-Secret90Day-Challenge

Check out this thread with packed Insight for every person at every stage! 
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/1-Break-Free/376994-%E2%80%9CShtark%E2%80%9D-insight-that-may-make-you-%E2%80%9Cemotional%E2%80%9D-%29

Re: Boyfriend-girlfriend relationship 31 Dec 2020 16:00 #360262

Dreaming- Gorgeous, come hold my hand let’s laugh and smile together... let’s run across the green grass together laughing ! Trying to push all the mosquitos away but there’s too many lol  good memories!!! Let’s go out feeling so at peace feeling so content with each other feeling the click like lightning! Looking forward:) LOL I just woke up out of my dream now! Back to reality Lolol!  
“Distancing and removing triggers is only bringing the door closer..Changing the insides and our nature is the key to get in.” 

“Human connection can help every sort of struggle” 

If anyone would like to reach me I’d love to help out! 
anonymouslyhappy111@gmail.com

Break free the easy way using the self-talk method!
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/378128-Captain--Shtarkemotionals-Secret90Day-Challenge

Check out this thread with packed Insight for every person at every stage! 
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/1-Break-Free/376994-%E2%80%9CShtark%E2%80%9D-insight-that-may-make-you-%E2%80%9Cemotional%E2%80%9D-%29

Re: Boyfriend-girlfriend relationship 31 Dec 2020 16:01 #360263

Getting ready 1.2.3 for the most shtark day leaving phone at home let’s do this!!!!!!!! Let’s learn TONS accomplish miles let’s GO! 1.2.3 see you all
“Distancing and removing triggers is only bringing the door closer..Changing the insides and our nature is the key to get in.” 

“Human connection can help every sort of struggle” 

If anyone would like to reach me I’d love to help out! 
anonymouslyhappy111@gmail.com

Break free the easy way using the self-talk method!
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/378128-Captain--Shtarkemotionals-Secret90Day-Challenge

Check out this thread with packed Insight for every person at every stage! 
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/1-Break-Free/376994-%E2%80%9CShtark%E2%80%9D-insight-that-may-make-you-%E2%80%9Cemotional%E2%80%9D-%29

Re: Boyfriend-girlfriend relationship 31 Dec 2020 16:31 #360265

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Hi SAM,

Maybe you should stick to 'my friend;'  your latest name for her might trigger some of the guys here.

Re: Boyfriend-girlfriend relationship 31 Dec 2020 16:36 #360266

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Re: Boyfriend-girlfriend relationship 31 Dec 2020 20:30 #360277

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Thistimeillwin wrote on 31 Dec 2020 16:31:
Hi SAM,

Maybe you should stick to 'my friend;'  your latest name for her might trigger some of the guys here.

TTIW you know the 3 second rule?
It works on gye too. If there’s a thread you don’t want to snap, just move onto the next one. 

I believe SAM should express himself how he’s comfortable so long as there’s no explicit content such as her name “Chanie”...
I think it’s helpful for our bachur to be allowed to vent here.

First step in recovery is validation. For example to step in here and say “the relationship is fake”. Even if it would have been, which is debatable, that’s not gonna help anyone. 

Thistimeillwin I think you should join a meeting at our annual January 1st show headed by HHM and Grant where we will have fireworks chatting about good forum etiquette that may guide some light so Thistimewellwin
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Re: Boyfriend-girlfriend relationship 31 Dec 2020 23:03 #360287

the.guard wrote on 31 Dec 2020 16:36:
This thread made it onto today's chizuk email! bit.ly/3hxYQsM

Wow!!!! that feels good to hear
“Distancing and removing triggers is only bringing the door closer..Changing the insides and our nature is the key to get in.” 

“Human connection can help every sort of struggle” 

If anyone would like to reach me I’d love to help out! 
anonymouslyhappy111@gmail.com

Break free the easy way using the self-talk method!
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/378128-Captain--Shtarkemotionals-Secret90Day-Challenge

Check out this thread with packed Insight for every person at every stage! 
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/1-Break-Free/376994-%E2%80%9CShtark%E2%80%9D-insight-that-may-make-you-%E2%80%9Cemotional%E2%80%9D-%29

Re: Boyfriend-girlfriend relationship 31 Dec 2020 23:06 #360288

Markz wrote on 31 Dec 2020 20:30:

Thistimeillwin wrote on 31 Dec 2020 16:31:
Hi SAM,

Maybe you should stick to 'my friend;'  your latest name for her might trigger some of the guys here.

TTIW you know the 3 second rule?
It works on gye too. If there’s a thread you don’t want to snap, just move onto the next one. 

I believe SAM should express himself how he’s comfortable so long as there’s no explicit content such as her name “Chanie”...
I think it’s helpful for our bachur to be allowed to vent here.

First step in recovery is validation. For example to step in here and say “the relationship is fake”. Even if it would have been, which is debatable, that’s not gonna help anyone. 

Thistimeillwin I think you should join a meeting at our annual January 1st show headed by HHM and Grant where we will have fireworks chatting about good forum etiquette that may guide some light so Thistimewellwin

Markz your awesome 
I’m sorry tho if it triggered anyone ill try to be more careful!
“Distancing and removing triggers is only bringing the door closer..Changing the insides and our nature is the key to get in.” 

“Human connection can help every sort of struggle” 

If anyone would like to reach me I’d love to help out! 
anonymouslyhappy111@gmail.com

Break free the easy way using the self-talk method!
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/378128-Captain--Shtarkemotionals-Secret90Day-Challenge

Check out this thread with packed Insight for every person at every stage! 
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/1-Break-Free/376994-%E2%80%9CShtark%E2%80%9D-insight-that-may-make-you-%E2%80%9Cemotional%E2%80%9D-%29

Re: Boyfriend-girlfriend relationship 31 Dec 2020 23:07 #360289

Honestly I have a serious question lol! Does anyone find this thread interesting or is it boring for everyone and adding an additional headache lol?
“Distancing and removing triggers is only bringing the door closer..Changing the insides and our nature is the key to get in.” 

“Human connection can help every sort of struggle” 

If anyone would like to reach me I’d love to help out! 
anonymouslyhappy111@gmail.com

Break free the easy way using the self-talk method!
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/378128-Captain--Shtarkemotionals-Secret90Day-Challenge

Check out this thread with packed Insight for every person at every stage! 
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/1-Break-Free/376994-%E2%80%9CShtark%E2%80%9D-insight-that-may-make-you-%E2%80%9Cemotional%E2%80%9D-%29

Re: Boyfriend-girlfriend relationship 31 Dec 2020 23:14 #360291

I’m wishing to hear from my friend I will get through this!
“Distancing and removing triggers is only bringing the door closer..Changing the insides and our nature is the key to get in.” 

“Human connection can help every sort of struggle” 

If anyone would like to reach me I’d love to help out! 
anonymouslyhappy111@gmail.com

Break free the easy way using the self-talk method!
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/378128-Captain--Shtarkemotionals-Secret90Day-Challenge

Check out this thread with packed Insight for every person at every stage! 
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/1-Break-Free/376994-%E2%80%9CShtark%E2%80%9D-insight-that-may-make-you-%E2%80%9Cemotional%E2%80%9D-%29

Re: Boyfriend-girlfriend relationship 31 Dec 2020 23:28 #360294

Honey? Where are youuuuuuu?!?!?! Can I hear how your doing?!?!?! All the details?!?!?! I miss you hope you miss me too   lol I’m in such a mood just venting it all out!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
“Distancing and removing triggers is only bringing the door closer..Changing the insides and our nature is the key to get in.” 

“Human connection can help every sort of struggle” 

If anyone would like to reach me I’d love to help out! 
anonymouslyhappy111@gmail.com

Break free the easy way using the self-talk method!
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/378128-Captain--Shtarkemotionals-Secret90Day-Challenge

Check out this thread with packed Insight for every person at every stage! 
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/1-Break-Free/376994-%E2%80%9CShtark%E2%80%9D-insight-that-may-make-you-%E2%80%9Cemotional%E2%80%9D-%29

Re: Boyfriend-girlfriend relationship 01 Jan 2021 00:14 #360299

Feeling  I guess I must face the fact I can’t hear always from my friend when I want feeling so down! Gonna finish eating dinner and run to learn! Be in touch! I’ll hug myself hopefully nothing will fall outta my eyes cuz I’m in pain 
“Distancing and removing triggers is only bringing the door closer..Changing the insides and our nature is the key to get in.” 

“Human connection can help every sort of struggle” 

If anyone would like to reach me I’d love to help out! 
anonymouslyhappy111@gmail.com

Break free the easy way using the self-talk method!
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/378128-Captain--Shtarkemotionals-Secret90Day-Challenge

Check out this thread with packed Insight for every person at every stage! 
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/1-Break-Free/376994-%E2%80%9CShtark%E2%80%9D-insight-that-may-make-you-%E2%80%9Cemotional%E2%80%9D-%29

Re: Boyfriend-girlfriend relationship 01 Jan 2021 00:15 #360300

Will post later bezH I’ll try to distract myself now...
“Distancing and removing triggers is only bringing the door closer..Changing the insides and our nature is the key to get in.” 

“Human connection can help every sort of struggle” 

If anyone would like to reach me I’d love to help out! 
anonymouslyhappy111@gmail.com

Break free the easy way using the self-talk method!
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/378128-Captain--Shtarkemotionals-Secret90Day-Challenge

Check out this thread with packed Insight for every person at every stage! 
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/1-Break-Free/376994-%E2%80%9CShtark%E2%80%9D-insight-that-may-make-you-%E2%80%9Cemotional%E2%80%9D-%29
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