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Re: Yearning for Serenity 14 Dec 2020 18:37 #358688

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Re: Yearning for Serenity 14 Dec 2020 18:45 #358689

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Re: Yearning for Serenity 14 Dec 2020 21:59 #358702

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Rebuild613 wrote on 14 Dec 2020 18:37:

excellence wrote on 14 Dec 2020 18:10:
There is a special thread that deals with ssa. Have you checked there?

That thread went to sleep along time ago for some reason 

You can't revive it by posting there?!
guardyoureyes.com/forum/43-SSA-Forum

Re: Yearning for Serenity 15 Dec 2020 06:35 #358745

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Rebuild613 wrote on 14 Dec 2020 18:45:
I think it's how Grant explained, the way to deal with it is basically the same, some get triggered by this and some get triggered by something else.


Either way, keep us posted dear friend! We need you to help keep us going!

A Freilechen Chanuka Reb Yid!

Re: Yearning for Serenity 15 Dec 2020 09:55 #358757

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Re: Yearning for Serenity 17 Dec 2020 01:52 #358863

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Rebuild613 wrote on 29 Nov 2020 07:48:
I agree, Markz is the best!!

G-D bless you 
From the depth of my heart.

I also agree. You too!

Here’s PART 2.

Check out these guys / threads, so you can learn how to weave yourself a new coat!

Lomed    https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/309512 

Genug Gevein    https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/217795

Keep Climbing    https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/17-Balei-Battims-Forum/251414

Cryingforrecovery    https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/340963

Lomed is still around - you can connect with him - I’m not sure about the others.

Disclaimer. Trigger warning on those threads, although I believe they can be helpful for the pre-demolished among us. 

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Re: Yearning for Serenity 18 Dec 2020 04:48 #359041

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Feelin good?
A Gutten Zoys Chanuka!

Re: Yearning for Serenity 18 Dec 2020 05:42 #359051

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Rebuild613, you are my savior (assuming you are the former "demolished"),

​I am bli ayin hara the father of a large family and had a painful secret for many many years. But somehow on a particularly "down day" in October - I signed up on GYE....and I was "matched" with you! Such hashgacha!

You may recall that you gave me the first chizuk I ever recieved (I had never told a soul), you referred me to HHM...and I now BH have a completely new lease on life. And as a community leader, the influence that those initial 15 minutes now have on so many people (those that I can now truly help) is beyond my imagination.

Your story is indescribably painful and I cry in pain that you should only see sunny and beautiful days from here on.

You are mamash my hero.Thank you, thank you, thank you!

90dys

ה׳ עמך גבור החיל! [שופטים ו׳ יב׳]

 Perhaps you can find chizuk from my thread at guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/356161-Intro 

Feel free to reach out to me at
jackz90dys@gmail.com

Re: Yearning for Serenity 20 Dec 2020 21:00 #359216

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Re: Yearning for Serenity 20 Dec 2020 22:12 #359219

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Rebuild613 wrote on 20 Dec 2020 21:00:

היום יום א' לסדר:  מעט ורעים היו ימי שני חיי


Don't forget it was the heilige Yaakov avinu who said that. Look what you can become.... one of the avos hakdoshim....

Re: Yearning for Serenity 24 Dec 2020 22:27 #359671

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How are we doing?

Re: Yearning for Serenity 25 Dec 2020 01:29 #359691

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Yeah, Rebuild613 how are you doing? We are missing hearing from you.
In the place where ba’alei teshuva stand, even pure tzaddikim who never sinned cannot stand. (Rabbi Avohu, Brachos 34b)

Great free resources:
My favorite book for breaking free: The Battle of the Generation 
https://guardyoureyes.com/ebooks/item/the-battle-of-the-generation. Change your attitude and change your life!

Rabbi Shafier's incredible lectures on breaking free: The Fight. Download here: 
https://theshmuz.com/series/the-fight/

If you're only ready to try something small, check out an easier way to do self-talk here:
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/378128-Captain—Shtarkemotionals-Secret90Day-Challenge

Re: Yearning for Serenity 25 Dec 2020 01:43 #359693

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@captain you beat me to it!

@rebuild613, we feel your absence. Your presence is needed and is very much wanted!

One who has given up hope is without a G‑d.

One who sees hope in each day is already free

Re: Yearning for Serenity 25 Dec 2020 09:08 #359739

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Re: Yearning for Serenity 25 Dec 2020 14:30 #359743

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Surviving Boruch Hashem. 

Thanks for asking. 

 
Let's change surviving to Reviving 
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