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Re: Make it to Yeshiva 03 Feb 2021 17:21 #362634

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Dearest MGG,

My understanding is that YG needs BOTH types of posts:

1) "Cheerleading/fraternity/fuzzy/feel-good" posts
2) Macho "You got this under control" comments


HHM,
Your post is unbelievable.
​I would add that even sex with one's wife is pure cotton candy until it is preceded by intimacy. (You taught me that : )

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Last Edit: 03 Feb 2021 17:22 by Ish MiGrodno.

Re: Make it to Yeshiva 03 Feb 2021 17:59 #362636

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Markz wrote on 03 Feb 2021 16:18:

lionking wrote on 03 Feb 2021 05:02:
YG,
Let's make a deal. I'm tempted to masturbate tonight as well. I'll hold back as a zchus for you and you hold back for my zchus.

Time to play Devils Advocate 

And if YG fails, you get a free pass? 

Thanks for being my advocate. (Am I the Devil???)

Do you want I should pay you with all the free passes I collected over the years?

There was always some reason why I "deserved" a free pass.

But that free pass will get me nowhere in life.

p.s. It was intended to be a motivational tool to help us both out last night.
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Re: Make it to Yeshiva 03 Feb 2021 19:21 #362639

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Feels like I can’t get out of this mess, found podcasts in this Zach... Was up until 4am (after I posted that I’d go to sleep).
Im kinda sick of talkin bout all these ups and downs...
Prob goin back to Yeshiva tomorrow, so will put this in my friends room.
Im also gonna try getting a GPS from my dad so I won’t need this at all.

Meeting with my therapist hopefully next week
Last Edit: 03 Feb 2021 19:22 by YeshivaGuy.

Re: Make it to Yeshiva 03 Feb 2021 19:26 #362640

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And @Wilnevergiveup, I got the book u recommended. I’ll check it out, thanks

Re: Make it to Yeshiva 03 Feb 2021 21:25 #362646

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YeshivaGuy wrote on 03 Feb 2021 19:26:
And @Wilnevergiveup, I got the book u recommended. I’ll check it out, thanks

Awesome, let me know how it goes.
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Re: Make it to Yeshiva 03 Feb 2021 22:47 #362657

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YG, maybe before your next off Shabbos or trip home, a better plan should be developed. In yeshiva you seem to have the matzav under control, with the expected ups and downs. it's at home, with lack of structure and available devices that issues seem to arise. Just a suggestion.
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Re: Make it to Yeshiva 03 Feb 2021 23:02 #362660

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Hashem Help Me wrote on 03 Feb 2021 22:47:
YG, maybe before your next off Shabbos or trip home, a better plan should be developed. In yeshiva you seem to have the matzav under control, with the expected ups and downs. it's at home, with lack of structure and available devices that issues seem to arise. Just a suggestion.

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Re: Make it to Yeshiva 04 Feb 2021 00:21 #362667

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Actually, I just now got the vaccine, so coming back in 30 days for the 2nd shot

Re: Make it to Yeshiva 04 Feb 2021 02:53 #362688

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YeshivaGuy wrote on 04 Feb 2021 00:21:
Actually, I just now got the vaccine, so coming back in 30 days for the 2nd shot

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Re: Make it to Yeshiva 04 Feb 2021 03:07 #362690

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Ish MiGrodno wrote on 03 Feb 2021 17:21:
Dearest MGG,

My understanding is that YG needs BOTH types of posts:

1) "Cheerleading/fraternity/fuzzy/feel-good" posts
2) Macho "You got this under control" comments


HHM,
Your post is unbelievable.
​I would add that even sex with one's wife is pure cotton candy until it is preceded by intimacy. (You taught me that : )

With love from Grodno ~ IMG

I actually think that a 3rd option of some "tough love" might be beneficial as well.
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Re: Make it to Yeshiva 04 Feb 2021 03:47 #362693

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Markz wrote on 04 Feb 2021 02:53:

YeshivaGuy wrote on 04 Feb 2021 00:21:
Actually, I just now got the vaccine, so coming back in 30 days for the 2nd shot

What’s up? You have antibodies - didn’t you already...
























Pass 90 days?

I don’t have antibodies.
And unfortunately, I don’t chap the joke
Last Edit: 04 Feb 2021 04:07 by YeshivaGuy.

Re: Make it to Yeshiva 04 Feb 2021 03:58 #362694

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150 days clean Baruch HaShem.
Yes I’m not perfect, but I’m doing well.

Re: Make it to Yeshiva 04 Feb 2021 04:06 #362696

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cordnoy wrote on 04 Feb 2021 03:07:





I actually think that a 3rd option of some "tough love" might be beneficial as well.

“Might” is the key word. It would be best to not forget that. It also Might have a negative affect, when it’s done wrong. Especially to a person who’s already in emotional pain.
A thought.
Last Edit: 04 Feb 2021 04:15 by YeshivaGuy.

Re: Make it to Yeshiva 04 Feb 2021 04:51 #362700

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Lovely.

So someone please make a post that simultaneously cheerleads YG, helps him feel macho while also accomplishing the third heilige task of gently scolding him...This way we got all bases covered for our dear friend YG.

Best post gets a shkoyich.

With political correctness from Grodno ~ IMG

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Last Edit: 04 Feb 2021 04:51 by Ish MiGrodno.

Re: Make it to Yeshiva 04 Feb 2021 05:25 #362705

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Lol
Alls good guys, no worries. I’m really fine, no need to cover bases or anything.
I was just saying to be mindful to a person in a shtikl Depression. And if u never experienced real clinicial depression, then better not to risk it.

Anyway, I may take a miny break from here... Y’all are great. Hatzlocha and Shkoyach!
Last Edit: 04 Feb 2021 05:36 by YeshivaGuy.
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