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Re: looking for therapist 13 Dec 2017 08:47 #323685

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Re: looking for therapist 13 Dec 2017 09:39 #323686

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what is the point of psychoanalyzing posts especially if you don't know the fellow
if you got a question and you think it's important maybe ask it

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Re: looking for therapist 13 Dec 2017 09:49 #323687

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tzomah wrote on 13 Dec 2017 09:39:
what is the point of psychoanalyzing posts especially if you don't know the fellow
if you got a question and you think it's important maybe ask it

sorry , are you talking to me (:

לב  טהור   ברא   לי   אלקים , ורוח  נכון    חדש  בקרבי

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Re: looking for therapist 13 Dec 2017 11:27 #323691

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no 
i was saying in general about this thread

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Re: looking for therapist 13 Dec 2017 16:17 #323706

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ieeyc wrote on 13 Dec 2017 07:45:

Markz wrote on 11 Dec 2017 18:30:
Welcome back

Sorry to hear you didn't find any light since you joined gye 7 years ago

Have you checked the gye Therapist page
guardyoureyes.com/resources/therapists

Hmmm... i checked the post twice and i didnt see any mention of 7 years:surprised:

Looks like you don't know Mark yet, he knows everything about all of us (just from reading our posts!) & takes all that in consideration when replying...
If somebody says he was here before & came back a while later Mark will figure out how long the break was. He's amazing!

Re: looking for therapist 13 Dec 2017 16:28 #323707

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tzomah wrote on 13 Dec 2017 09:39:
what is the point of psychoanalyzing posts especially if you don't know the fellow
if you got a question and you think it's important maybe ask it

What I said was that "based on his post" "I don't know" why he needs a therapist, I didn't say for sure. My point was that sometimes I person is going through something & all he need is a close person to share the pain with, but if he don't get it he may feel stuck & think he needs a therapist. I just wanted our friend to hear that before he decides to go for therapy cuz no therapist will tell him this...

Re: looking for therapist 13 Dec 2017 16:32 #323708

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youcan wrote on 13 Dec 2017 16:17:

ieeyc wrote on 13 Dec 2017 07:45:

Markz wrote on 11 Dec 2017 18:30:
Welcome back

Sorry to hear you didn't find any light since you joined gye 7 years ago

Have you checked the gye Therapist page
guardyoureyes.com/resources/therapists

Hmmm... i checked the post twice and i didnt see any mention of 7 years:surprised:

Looks like you don't know Mark yet, he knows everything about all of us (just from reading our posts!) & takes all that in consideration when replying...
If somebody says he was here before & came back a while later Mark will figure out how long the break was. He's amazing!


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Re: looking for therapist 14 Dec 2017 11:25 #323757

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youcan wrote on 13 Dec 2017 16:28:

tzomah wrote on 13 Dec 2017 09:39:
what is the point of psychoanalyzing posts especially if you don't know the fellow
if you got a question and you think it's important maybe ask it

What I said was that "based on his post" "I don't know" why he needs a therapist, I didn't say for sure. My point was that sometimes I person is going through something & all he need is a close person to share the pain with, but if he don't get it he may feel stuck & think he needs a therapist. I just wanted our friend to hear that before he decides to go for therapy cuz no therapist will tell him this...

To me, if I understand you directly, it seems  that you see therapists as only being able to help "sick" people and if you're not sick, it's a waste of time.

Therapists (good therapists), teach people skills to succeed in life. You don't need to be schizophrenic in order to grow from different forms of therapy. 

Re: looking for therapist 14 Dec 2017 16:45 #323765

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bb0212 wrote on 14 Dec 2017 11:25:

youcan wrote on 13 Dec 2017 16:28:

tzomah wrote on 13 Dec 2017 09:39:
what is the point of psychoanalyzing posts especially if you don't know the fellow
if you got a question and you think it's important maybe ask it

What I said was that "based on his post" "I don't know" why he needs a therapist, I didn't say for sure. My point was that sometimes I person is going through something & all he need is a close person to share the pain with, but if he don't get it he may feel stuck & think he needs a therapist. I just wanted our friend to hear that before he decides to go for therapy cuz no therapist will tell him this...

To me, if I understand you directly, it seems  that you see therapists as only being able to help "sick" people and if you're not sick, it's a waste of time.

Therapists (good therapists), teach people skills to succeed in life. You don't need to be schizophrenic in order to grow from different forms of therapy. 

Of course therapists can help for healthy people, some therapists can be plumbers too. My point is that this guy here may be a healthy person & has naturally all the skills to succeed in life. And what he feels is just an urge to share what he's going through & maybe get some tips that any smart person without a licence can tell him. Of course a therapist can help him as well, but if it's not needed why should you do it? If you feel that you still need therapy go for it!

Re: looking for therapist 14 Dec 2017 20:52 #323782

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youcan wrote on 14 Dec 2017 16:45:

bb0212 wrote on 14 Dec 2017 11:25:

youcan wrote on 13 Dec 2017 16:28:

tzomah wrote on 13 Dec 2017 09:39:
what is the point of psychoanalyzing posts especially if you don't know the fellow
if you got a question and you think it's important maybe ask it

What I said was that "based on his post" "I don't know" why he needs a therapist, I didn't say for sure. My point was that sometimes I person is going through something & all he need is a close person to share the pain with, but if he don't get it he may feel stuck & think he needs a therapist. I just wanted our friend to hear that before he decides to go for therapy cuz no therapist will tell him this...

To me, if I understand you directly, it seems  that you see therapists as only being able to help "sick" people and if you're not sick, it's a waste of time.

Therapists (good therapists), teach people skills to succeed in life. You don't need to be schizophrenic in order to grow from different forms of therapy. 

Of course therapists can help for healthy people, some therapists can be plumbers too. My point is that this guy here may be a healthy person & has naturally all the skills to succeed in life. And what he feels is just an urge to share what he's going through & maybe get some tips that any smart person without a licence can tell him. Of course a therapist can help him as well, but if it's not needed why should you do it? If you feel that you still need therapy go for it!


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Re: looking for therapist 21 Dec 2017 04:29 #324052

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I am hopefully going to see a therapist next week! im so excited!
I feel uncomfortable writing my issues on posts.
But maybe its not so bad… 
Its hard for me to come back to this site. im always pulled away. I come than dont show up for 5 years than come again… :/
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Re: looking for therapist 21 Dec 2017 05:49 #324056

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I wish you a lot of success!
I had my first session today... I'm also excited about the fact that I'm finally doing something to help myself & that there is real hope that things will change to the good.
(what I'm not excited about is that it cost $200 for a session of 45 min...)
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