markz wrote:

Im taking your advice

markz wrote:

I will thanks for being the first one to jump in

BenTorah.BaalHabayis wrote:

I you know something else please tell me
Omein iy"h by you all of shimches
Sorry I wasn't able to reply I'm still learning the system I can't believe it when I was trying to break through my filter I always found a away here when I want to reply the y"h is working hard
Good night

How are you guys today.
I passed b"h day 1 I'm on the 90 days chart
my day was b"h busy until now from now until the end of the long weekend (monday) I will have to work harder to stay clean will have to find something to keep me busy.
I will not let you down.

Getting married wrote:

Great start. Why don't you come hang out on the forums over the weekend to keep yourself busy. In addition to adding to your own thread you can read other people's threads and add your comments. I learned a lot from reading the forums and it's also been a great way for me to relax and spend some down time. Just a thought.
Hatzlacha!

BenTorah.BaalHabayis wrote:

Thanks I will and I'm doing it I'm afraid GYE will have to open a new site for addicts to GYE I'm here every minute when I can

you are not the only one.
you can have a look guardyoureyes.com/forum/1-Break-Free/227769-GYE-Addiction
מזל טוב ושיהיה בשעה טובה

doingtshuva wrote:

I don't think its a problem I think its like news and thats our news to help another yid is my friend still clean or had fallin (in news the is both good in bad) its better then opening even the news
Omein iy"h by you of simches

Hi how are you guys
B"h I'm fine the y"h is not thinking to go in my mind he knows he will lose I told him I will be so ashamed to tell you guys that I had a fall so he gave me a break mean while going great
A good shabbos to everyone hope to hear from you

Getting married wrote:
"I will be so ashamed to tell you guys..."
In other words you're relying on other guys
Just don't rely on me, I have too much on my plate already taking care of my eigene boich

I do offer towing assistance however after 3 miles there's a $99/mile charge (to gye of course)

Have a great Shabbos!!

hi getting married
1st of all mazel tov!
quiet similar to baal habayis my lust also went away after my engagement and it came back about a year after i got married. After a while of acting out she basically worked out on her own what was going on she once even caught me watching porn (you said something like omg if she catches me) as you can imagine that was a real low point of my life i felt like i was was at the bottom of a deep pit filled with trash. b'h things have improved a lot since.
however i would like to drop a cautionary word about the 90 challenge while it is good it does not by itself get rid of lust issues that only comes with healing. you have to find a program (12 steps innate health or something from the GYE handbook ect) that addresses itself to your issue and allows you to heal from your lust problems. as you said in your intro that you realise that marriage doesn't cure lust (let me tell you from personal experience that it really really does not help one drop) nothing helps except for healing the 90 challenge in my opinion can only be used inn conjunction with a program that really heals you from the inside
wishing you much hatzlocha may you be zocha to build a real mishkan me'at

markz wrote:
"I will be so ashamed to tell you guys..."
In other words you're relying on other guys
Just don't rely on me, I have too much on my plate already taking care of my eigene boich

I do offer towing assistance however after 3 miles there's a $99/mile charge (to gye of course)

Have a great Shabbos!![/quote]
Good week first of all I'm happy to say that I have another clean day behind me so I'm up to day #3.
Now markz if #1 I understand good the point of the forums it is made to help and relay on one on the other to give chizuk and help if im right #1 fill up you gas tank and start trucking to me to the otehr side of the world hum maybe you are my neighbor #2 you said you have to take care of your "eigene boich" I think start going on a diet you cannot arrive on a call and not been able to take me out from the mud # 3 about the money please put it on my bill
#2 I don't rely on you just I will be so ashamed to fall whe there is guys here who was in the hole mush dipper then me and came out what will I say when I fall that the y"h is so big you will kill me

No one here is gonna kill you, sorry

I get your point, but again I don't think we're relying on each other.

Each guy has his own story (see many in "free towing assistance") and his own truck

Some trucks run on diesel some on beer - some are transporting beer, hence the boich...

We try to be mechazek each other, and you're part of the team!!!

abe2710 wrote:

Thanks for taking your time I really appreciate it I'm working now on reading to handbook and 90 is anythink else I need to know about except what I will see in the handbook if there please tell me thanks

markz wrote:

You are fully right