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Re: My story 10 May 2017 19:29 #312829

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Markz wrote on 10 May 2017 18:20:

Mesayin wrote on 10 May 2017 17:43:
Good to see you guys.

Markz, it seems that for every time I change my linen you change your avatar.

GS, it's almost your sefira day.

Cordnoy, the last time I messaged you was when I told you how the Cubs are not going to win the world series.

If your wife hasn't seen to the laundry for months, it can be very a depressing situation. Is that why you're back?

The real reason I'm back is because all of the sudden my K9 on my work computer isn't blocking GYE anymore.
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Re: My story 10 May 2017 19:43 #312831

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what else isn't it blocking?

....maybe better not to check
!אנא עבדא דקודשא בריך הוא

וּבְיָדְךָ כֹּחַ וּגְבוּרָה וּבְיָדְךָ לְגַדֵּל וּלְחַזֵּק לַכֹּל

And every day that you want to waste, that you want to waste, you can
And every day that you want to wake up, that you want to wake, you can
And every day that you want to change, that you want to change, yeah
I'll help you see it through...



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Re: My story 10 May 2017 19:48 #312832

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Mesayin wrote on 10 May 2017 19:29:

Markz wrote on 10 May 2017 18:20:

Mesayin wrote on 10 May 2017 17:43:
Good to see you guys.

Markz, it seems that for every time I change my linen you change your avatar.

GS, it's almost your sefira day.

Cordnoy, the last time I messaged you was when I told you how the Cubs are not going to win the world series.

If your wife hasn't seen to the laundry for months, it can be very a depressing situation. Is that why you're back?

The real reason I'm back is because all of the sudden my K9 on my work computer isn't blocking GYE anymore.

I may sure TAG can help you make sure K9 blocks gye

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Re: My story 10 May 2017 19:49 #312833

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Mesayin wrote on 10 May 2017 19:24:

Markz wrote on 10 May 2017 19:04:

Mesayin wrote on 10 May 2017 18:43:
I might have a never come back had I had a wife.

Why do you say that brother?

My issue is not as bad as most people here, I think if I had a wife I would be mostly fine.

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Re: My story 10 May 2017 19:55 #312834

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Aye aye aye.I said it was good to be back, now I'm remembering that if I said the wrong thing I get trucked over but truckers.
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Re: My story 10 May 2017 19:56 #312835

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להטות לבבנו אליו ללכת בכל דרכיו ולשמר מצותיו וחקיו ומשפטיו אשר צוה את אבתינו
כי עיקר מציאות האדם בעה"ז הוא רק לקיים מצות ולעמד בניסיון,  והנאות העולם אין ראוי שיהו לו אלא לעזר ולסיוע בלבד לשיהיה לו נחת רוח ויישוב הדעת למען יוכל לפנות לבו אל העבודה הזאת מסילת ישרים

Re: My story 10 May 2017 20:00 #312836

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And don't worry, I did not change an "f" for the "tr", I pride myself in speaking clean.
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Re: My story 10 May 2017 20:10 #312838

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But I'm still going to hold strong to my opinion and not back down.

I still think that I'm not going to come back here after marriage.
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Re: My story 10 May 2017 20:16 #312839

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Mesayin wrote on 10 May 2017 20:10:
But I'm still going to hold strong to my opinion and not back down.

I still think that I'm not going to come back here after marriage.

#1 Married guys here don't have anything specific against you so don't get upset with them please. 

They are all insane. Sorry I represent myself only. Can insane guy represent himself?? Oh well...

Now back to this marriage stuff
If you focus on today only and make it a great one, cool

Then
What do we know about tomorrow?
What do we know about 5 hours from now?
What do we know about married life?
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Re: My story 10 May 2017 20:20 #312840

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Markz wrote on 10 May 2017 20:16:

Mesayin wrote on 10 May 2017 20:10:
But I'm still going to hold strong to my opinion and not back down.

I still think that I'm not going to come back here after marriage.

#1 Married guys here don't have anything specific against you so don't get upset with them please. 

They are all insane. Sorry I represent myself only. Can insane guy represent himself?? Oh well...

Now back to this marriage stuff
If you focus on today only and make it a great one, cool

Then
What do we know about tomorrow?
What do we know about 5 hours from now?
What do we know about married life?

Agreed, thanks.
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Re: My story 10 May 2017 21:32 #312842

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I appreciate you reading this post.

Just to catch up.

A few months ago I had an emotional pitfall that has been getting worse since, at the time I was in such pain that I reverted to the thing I was used to dulling my pain and that is videogames.

It started with a gameboy in which seems innocent but some gameboy games today are more mature rated than some movies.

Sometime then (don't remember exactly) I fell with masterbation for the first time in almost tow years.

I then continued on to get myself a laptop because I was interested in learning programmiong, ket's just say I haven't used the laptop  for programming for a long time, I got myself a few games which are not so great for shmiras einayim and I have been on that for a few months now.

Masterbation is happening to me on a nightly basis.

The real issue for me is that I am in such a hole that I do not have the motivation to crawl out. I fear the pain of standing up against my issues. I am mostly sure that I have entered into a state of denial, in which I deny that what I am doing is problematic becuase it is just to painful to deal with it, so I just sugercoat the problem, telling myself that it is not so bad and that it will get resolved soon enough.

Right now I am unmotivated to even seek help, I am to afraid to seek help. I know in my intelect that I am in a bad place but I just can't get myself ot get up and fight.

I need to focus on taking care of my emotional issues and see what happens but meanwhile I ask of you for any tips on getting myself motivated, additioanlly, since I lack friends, just writing to guys that respond to me makes me feel better.

Thank you
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Relapses and falling are inevitable, the challenge is getting up.

Tzaddikim are the not the ones that don't fall, they are the ones that fall constantly and get up constantly.

Feel free to contact me anytime through private message or chat.

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Re: My story 10 May 2017 22:09 #312843

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Mesayin wrote on 10 May 2017 21:32:
I appreciate you reading this post.

Just to catch up.

A few months ago I had an emotional pitfall that has been getting worse since, at the time I was in such pain that I reverted to the thing I was used to dulling my pain and that is videogames.

It started with a gameboy in which seems innocent but some gameboy games today are more mature rated than some movies.

Sometime then (don't remember exactly) I fell with masterbation for the first time in almost tow years.

I then continued on to get myself a laptop because I was interested in learning programmiong, ket's just say I haven't used the laptop  for programming for a long time, I got myself a few games which are not so great for shmiras einayim and I have been on that for a few months now.

Masterbation is happening to me on a nightly basis.

The real issue for me is that I am in such a hole that I do not have the motivation to crawl out. I fear the pain of standing up against my issues. I am mostly sure that I have entered into a state of denial, in which I deny that what I am doing is problematic becuase it is just to painful to deal with it, so I just sugercoat the problem, telling myself that it is not so bad and that it will get resolved soon enough.

Right now I am unmotivated to even seek help, I am to afraid to seek help. I know in my intelect that I am in a bad place but I just can't get myself ot get up and fight.

I need to focus on taking care of my emotional issues and see what happens but meanwhile I ask of you for any tips on getting myself motivated, additioanlly, since I lack friends, just writing to guys that respond to me makes me feel better.

Thank you

Sorry to hear all that

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Re: My story 11 May 2017 00:06 #312845

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Sorry you're having a hard time. But you've already taken the first step by coming back here. The only way to go now is up!
!אנא עבדא דקודשא בריך הוא

וּבְיָדְךָ כֹּחַ וּגְבוּרָה וּבְיָדְךָ לְגַדֵּל וּלְחַזֵּק לַכֹּל

And every day that you want to waste, that you want to waste, you can
And every day that you want to wake up, that you want to wake, you can
And every day that you want to change, that you want to change, yeah
I'll help you see it through...



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Re: My story 11 May 2017 02:10 #312846

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Can I say something about marriage?
BIG SHOT!
Free Choice?!
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Re: My story 11 May 2017 02:12 #312847

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stillgoing wrote on 11 May 2017 02:10:
Can I say something about marriage?

If your wife is out of earshot, go ahead, you have 20 seconds
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