Is it necessary for recovery to keep talking about your wife, why not placate her. 
Sounds like she's ready to support you...

I'm sorry that I'm not following.  Did you just recently tell your wife?  Did she just find out?  Did she find out a while ago, but now she is mad because you cheated again?  What happened between February and now?  When did you have "full disclosure"?  How did you decide that it was a wise thing to do?
 

I haven't been on GYE since 2014. I felt trapped in a sense beacause I didn't want to disclose to my wife and she didn't think I need to work on anything in therapy. Therefore I was stuck... In February 2016 I cheated on my wife again... I felt so much pain that I didn't care what my wife would say about therapy I was going to get help. So I went to a therapist and a short time after that my wife confronted me about it and I admited to her that I had a lust addiction and that I've joined SA. She was quite and nice to me for several weeks after this, she even said That had she known in 2014 she would have agreed for me to go get help. But.... We still didn't have full disclosure. She asked me a few times what have I don... And I answered based in the advis from both therapist and SA fellows that I'm not in a healthy place to discuss it at the noment... I would need longer sobriety to give a disclosure. Around the time I had 90 days my wife kept pushing for disclosure and I said it can be done in the presence of my therapist. That offer angered her very much. She said its between me and her NOT a third party and she wants to hear it from me only and no moderator. I tried to explain with help from my therapist that it's really going to be a full disclosure but in presence of a professional it would be sure that the whole truth was said nothing omitted and afterward some direction on how to process and proceed. That didn't work too she just kept angry. A day or so later she calmed down from her anger and asked nicely and patiently to open up to her alone she was hurting and was really expecting me to disclose everything. Again I followed professional guidance and did not disclose. The next day she asked for divorce and for me to move out. I agreed to saparate because she was being hostile against me and I was reacting on a bad way to that. I came home to get my things and tell my kids and she called me to the side and said to stay and not leave in a shock to the kids but rather prep them before just leaving. That night we had a long discussion... I felt like she was really hurting so I gave her full disclosure... I'll continue next post

Our tefillos are with you.
It should all be with hatzlachah.

WOw LJ this is some rough story you have. Congratulations that you went for therapy. In the little that can be gleaned about the entire situation from your writing, it's clear you are both suffering. From the way it sounds, I get the impression that your wife also needs therapy to help her function in the marraige and that this is separate, although exasperated, by your addictive tendencies.
 I think you made the right decision to go for help on your own. Married or divorced, being an addict sucks as you know. While the bad marriage may be a trigger, it is something that is within your power to overcome. FIxing your marriage entirely, if indeed your wife has real problems on her side however, is NOT entirely in your control. It would require BOTH of you. If she is not there yet, then at least you can do your part. You will only gain by doing so and not lose. 

Thanks for all the wonderful support. I'm geting so much out of the responses and posts of others here on GYE. A great full mined dose not act out!