Guys, I want to share something that's been bothering me a bit.

I've been on this site for about 3 years. Although I've gone awol for quite some time throughout, for some legitimate reasons, I recently have returned daily for even more legitimate reasons.

Recently, it's been quieter than I've ever seen it, by quite a large margin. At the same time there are still so many new and old names lurking around on the forum, yet not participating. This platform can offer so much to so many that it's a pity and a shame to hide in the shadows out of fear.

I implore any of you who are suffering and struggling silently to please put your fears aside and post your first post. A real post. I know it's scary and intimidating. I've been there. I remember the fears of "Do I qualify?" , "Will anyone respond?" "Will someone know who I am?" etc. But I'm telling you it's worth all those (unfounded) risks.

Anyone who is ready to put in the work can really grow immensely and even (gasp) connect with live people via phone or in person - or not, but you don't have to suffer alone! Those helpless feelings can be educated away.

Now is the time!

Please, let's start to see some new posters ready to conquer their fears, desires and demons.