90 Day Journey

Hello, GYE! I'm so excited for having reached this point and experiencing the cleanest, most honest and most growing 3 months in my entire life, or whatever I called "life" before now. Death, perhaps. What helped me? The forum. The dedicated, constant posters, moderators and Dov, for always-ope...

Dear Guard Your Eyes Team, ; First of all, thank you very much for everything you do and did for me and for the whole of Klal Yisroel. ; Here's in short what helped me most: In the beginning, I used to update my Chart daily - that was basically the highlight of getting another day on the char...

A Freilichen Chanuka! How was the first Chanuka Light by you?By me, it was amazing, ;B''H, there was this clean feeling - sitting by the candles, connecting to myself and to Hashem, trying to keep my little boy occupied at the same time, wonderful family time and wonderful Hashem time!!!This Shab...

; I was matzliach on the 90 day journey and this is what I realized: 1) I must stay busy 2) I have to wholeheartedly want to complete the 90 day journey 3) I must learn every day I stick with the daf yomi in particular. ;It brings help from the shchinah, which is the key of fighting the yetz...

; Hi, I am clean now for over 90 days for the first time. On your congratulating email, it asked me to share what helped me get to 90 days. ; Before coming to GYE, I was blind to the extent and depth of my addiction. The word "addiction" never came to mind in all the years I was acting out. GY...

When I first joined GYE, I was clean for 90 days. I was thrilled... ; Then I got complacent. I kept reading the ;material, which eventually fizzled out, and then the chizuk emails began to seem unnecessary for "someone like me." So I canceled the emails with the excuse "what if someone would find...

I was struggling since age 15. Never made it past 20 days on a good cycle. I found GYE by doing a search in Google. Originally, I thought that if I joined the 90 day challenge, things would be fine. It wasn't. I was too scared to join a meeting. I searched on your site to see if there were record...

1. It´s my second time reaching 90. I fell pretty hard about a month after reaching my first 90 days. I learned that I ;can't ;let my guard down. I must watch for the ¨I´ll never fall ;again¨ thoughts. ; ; 2. Although it´s a huge milestone, it´s really only a number. Nothing magical happens onc...

I had been falling at least three times a week, so it was surely a struggle. I took the 90 days in steps, committing to what I thought I could manage - 10 days at a time. Clicking "still clean" gave me a small feeling of control that I relished, so regularly updating my chart helped me stay motiv...

I've just completed my journey of 90 days and I feel exhilarated! I've been on the chart in the past and had 3-4 falls. But 90 days ago, I knew that if I don't kick this thing NOW, I'll never get there. I'll be a slave to lust forever, chas v'shalom. One of my biggest fears was becoming old and ...