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First and foremost, I realize it was through a Power Greater than myself. Secondly, this time was different as there was absolute and complete openness and honesty with my wife. I also had the complete commitment not to take the first drink. The slightest amount of l...

I have special news to share. Today is day 90 for me! I've made it 90 Days clean for the first time since I've signed up!! I know that I don't really take part in the forum chats (I've found other GYE tools to be more helpful for me, and I've drastically cut down the time...

Many times in my life I have lasted long times without any falls. The issue was that they were always post-fall and then I'd feel guilty and say "never again!" It would last a while but then I'd have another fall. I always looked at it as "forever." This time, I took it l...

I've just reached 90 days for the second time, only the last time I acted out on day 91! There is a great difference between now and then, as then I was--as they call it-- a "dry drunk," without doing much to stay clean. But this time it's with 3 times per week live me...

What has helped me stay clean, b”H, the past 90 days? Firstly, all the incredible support of GYE and its members. There is no doubt that this is the strongest point. Also, seeing the fantasy thoughts as the nisayon they are, clarified it as something outside of me and not...

Dear GYE, Today is 90 days I’m tasting the sweet sound of it Savouring its warmth What a magnificent gift My gratitude is immeasurable For not only has lust been subdued My essence has changed, improved Working on this struggle Has affected deep inside I’m a new person ...

First and foremost the first step in the right direction for me was clarity. Clarity, sincerity, and honesty with myself. The breaking point of rock bottom. The looking in the mirror with shame, disgust, yet daring to search for my soul and beg for it to fight. Even that ...

I started to count the days a few months ago, but then my sponsor said that for me, the counting is too much of a pressure and I should take it just "one day at a time". So for a long time, it just said "Day 1" under my name on the 90-day chart. And I loved it that way. L...

I started on Recovery when I was busted by my wife. I had been acting out for more than 30 years. That first night after I was busted, I went to sleep and I knew I was in big trouble with my wife. While lying in bed, I imagined myself in Beit Din Shel Mala at the end of m...

Wow, I did it! 90 days! I would first like to thank you guys for your special work. You guys are really saving klal yisroel. I just wanted to share a couple of ideas that helped me make it this far in my journey. The fist thing I did was take it one day a time. I read thi...

I am, B'H, now 28 days on the TaPHSiC program. I cannot begin to tell you how good I feel, B'H. No more ups and downs, no more depression. My business grew a lot. I'm guilt free. I became so much closer to my wife and kids. Would not have been able to do it without you...

Today is rosh chodesh Sivan and today is my 90th day of my journey. I can't believe this.I am sitting here by my computer in a trance.Wow! Did I really accomplish 90 days! Yup, I DID! With thanks to H' and too many other ppl to mention who all helped me pull thru. No, it ...

"Pe Re" writes: I live in Argentina, I'm not really Jewish, but appreciate this network which helps fight what all religions deem a sin. I want to tell, now I started study in a mixed college, it's full of young ladies who are very much uncovered. Same in the streets, ...

Thank you for setting up this program. BH, I just hit 90 days; something I wouldn't have dared to dream about in the past. But you did so much more for me for which I will be eternally grateful. I thought I joined GYE to stop sinning. I found out I joined GYE to begin liv...

I want to share with you that one of my clients was expelled from his yeshiva for inappropriate advances to bochurim, and he came to see me. I did some work with him around SSA and boundary setting, and directed him to GYE. GYE has changed his life! He has adopted th...

Hello, GYE! I'm so excited for having reached this point and experiencing the cleanest, most honest and most growing 3 months in my entire life, or whatever I called "life" before now. Death, perhaps. What helped me? The forum. The dedicated, constant posters, moderator...

Dear Guard Your Eyes Team, First of all, thank you very much for everything you do and did for me and for the whole of Klal Yisroel. Here's in short what helped me most: In the beginning, I used to update my Chart daily - that was basically the highlight of getting ...

A Freilichen Chanuka! How was the first Chanuka Light by you?By me, it was amazing, B''H, there was this clean feeling - sitting by the candles, connecting to myself and to Hashem, trying to keep my little boy occupied at the same time, wonderful family time and wonderful...