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When is enough enough?

When is enough enough?

By obormottel
Many people tell me that I am not an addict. After all, has my addictive behaviors caused terrible harm and consequences? Have I lost my whole family?  Have I contracted AIDS? Have I given someone else a sexually transmitted disease?
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The First Step Inventory

By obormottel
I want to thank Hashem for extending His Hand and showing me the GYE website. I am addicted to Lust. I am totally powerless, and it is only by the grace of G-d that I can begin to change my life. I’m 36 years old and have been struggling with this problem for two dec...
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Cry for Help

By obormottel
I first began stimulating myself long before my bar mitzvah, and certainly before I knew and understood what I was really doing. Forgetting about the aveira involved in it, when I was first motzi zera levatala, I was shocked and scared because I didn't know what my body w...
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I learned the hard way

By GYE Corp.
From the Forum at www.jewishsexuality.com I learned the hard way! I have just finished a painful bout of prostate inflammation in my bris that was the most painful experience of my life. Urinating was a nightmare and sex was out of the question. The catheter they inser...
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That very day

By GYE Corp.
If there is any time of the year to get help from Hashem to break free it is Purim, when all who ask are given. One case in point is our Feature Story where the writer writes as follows: One Purim, some eight years into our marriage, I got drunk. I was reading Psalms and ...
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Dov's beginning on GYE

By GYE Corp.
We would like to welcome a true soldier and hero to our community today. He calls himself "Dov" and one of his first post's on our forum where he shares his own personal story spanning 25 years, is one of the most "eye-opening" stories I have ever read. I really must shar...
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Where It All Leads

By GYE Corp.
Dear Rav Lazer,I have no one else to turn to regarding my present situation. I am in a lot of trouble and am contemplating suicide as a way out. I write to you from a position of disgust with myself and potential humiliation for my lovely wife and three daughters.I was a ...
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DOOMED

By GYE Corp.
Just change the words "Gambling" and "GA" in this article to "Lust" and "SA". I write to you in shame and humiliation. You don't know me but I know you. For now, it will have to remain this way. I hope you understand. I am writing because I am in a state of desperation....
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Lost My Wife

By GYE Corp.
Hello to all the heroes on this forum! I call all of you heroes - because it takes a lot of courage to admit of sexuality addiction! Well, at least in my case. Unfortunately, it took a separation from my wife to come to realize this! I was so lost - and had no clue what I...
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Lost My Job

By GYE Corp.
I am introducing myself as a way of forcing myself to face my own problem honestly. I am well passed adolescence (>50), yet I feel I never really grew up in the area of porn.I had to finally face reality when I was asked to leave my job for viewing Porn. Through counse...
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Where this Addiction Can Lead

Where this Addiction Can Lead

By the.guard
A famous serial killer, Ted Bundy, blames addiction to inappropriate material on his actions: In the Dobson interview before his execution, Bundy said that violent inappropriate material played a major role in his immoral crimes. According to Bundy, as a young boy he f...
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The Typical Suffering of the Wife of an Addict

By the.guard
Dear Guard your Eyes, My husband is 30 years old and we've been married for 8 years. For the last 7 years (perhaps even longer, I don’t know) he's been a Lust addict. I've caught him with newspapers, with a magazine, on the internet, acting out, etc. There have been ma...
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Where It All Leads

By the.guard
I have no one else to turn to regarding my present situation. I am in a lot of trouble and am contemplating suicide as a way out. I write to you from a position of disgust with myself and potential humiliation for my lovely wife and three daughters. I was a successful CP...
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