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Don't Go It Alone!

Don't Go It Alone!

By the.guard
I've been struggling for a while with this stuff (I was exposed to it preteen age). It's only very recently that I've actually started making real change and getting better (curiously coinciding with finding this website: wink :) Starting out was a real struggle, even tho...
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The original GYE apps are back online!

The original GYE apps are back online!

By the.guard
B"H the original GYE apps are available again at the app stores: Click here for the Android app. Click here for the iPhone app.
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Weekly newsletter #11 - Korach 5780

Weekly newsletter #11 - Korach 5780

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Shabbos Parshas Korach 5780 To help us keep inspired through Shabbos, GuardYourEyes is proud to present Weekly Newsletter #11, designed to be printed out and read over Shabbos. The pamphlet contains stories, divrei Torah, practical advice, humor and chizuk, all relating t...
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Korach and Air Force One

Korach and Air Force One

By GYE Corp.
The Rebbe Avrohom of Slonim zy"a, the Yesod Ha'avoda, in Toras Avos writes that the primary shortcoming of Korach was that he sought great levels in avodas Hashem, which is why he desired to be the Kohen Gadol. A person should feel that the even the seemingly minor avoda ...
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Tearing in Anger

Tearing in Anger

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We learned recently in the daf yomi (Shabbos 105b - see below) that if someone tears a garment on Shabbos in anger he is Patur because he is not doing a constructive act but only an act of destruction. So at first the Gemara asks that it is somewhat constructive, since it...
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Unavoidable Mistakes

Unavoidable Mistakes

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And they cried that night… Bit of a depressing story really. We were within a hop skip & jump away from getting into Eretz Yisroel- then boom! Everyone has to die in the wilderness; weeping for one night means the destruction of both temples; exiles, holocausts, battl...
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Weekly newsletter #10 - Bahaloscha 5780

Weekly newsletter #10 - Bahaloscha 5780

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Shabbos Parshas Bahaloscha 5780 To help us keep inspired through Shabbos, GuardYourEyes is proud to present Weekly Newsletter #10, designed to be printed out and read over Shabbos. The pamphlet contains stories, divrei Torah, practical advice, humor and chizuk, all relati...
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SMART Recovery Meetings in Lakewood

SMART Recovery Meetings in Lakewood

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SMART Recovery Meetings in Lakewood GuardYourEyes is looking to set up live recovery meetings in Lakewood New Jersey for people who are serious about stopping, based on SMART Recovery. SMART Recovery provides assistance to individuals seeking abstinence from unwanted beha...
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How to View Women

How to View Women

By the.guard
In response to the article called "Sister-In-Laws", a member sent in the following: Thank you for a wonderful publication that is a lifeline for so many. I wanted to comment on the issue of how best to deal with an attractive sister-in-law, and in particular to the P.S....
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What's Permitted

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Guardyoureyes often receives questions regarding the limits of what's permitted in the bedroom. Although there are many levels of holiness that a person should strive for, we live today in a very open world full of big nisyonos. Most Chosson and Kalla teachers do not leav...
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Sisters in Law

Sisters in Law

By the.guard
Question: "Hi, I find myself lusting over my sister-in-law (wife’s younger sister). B”h this is not my main struggle, however it does come and go occasionally. I think it’s because she looks more feminine than my wife. She got married recently and she is very attractive a...
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The First Step - I Am Powerless

The First Step - I Am Powerless

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Transcript of GYE Boost #164 If you get a chance to read Alcoholics Anonymous big book, you'll find the first of the 12 steps clearly described there to recognize that I am powerless to give myself over to my higher power because I am powerless to stop this behavior. I'd ...
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Weekly newsletter #9 - Naso 5780

Weekly newsletter #9 - Naso 5780

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Shabbos Parshas Naso 5780 To help us keep inspired through Shabbos, GuardYourEyes is proud to present Weekly Newsletter #9, designed to be printed out and read over Shabbos. The pamphlet contains stories, divrei Torah, practical advice, humor and chizuk, all relating to t...
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Weekly newsletter #8 - Shavuos 5780

Weekly newsletter #8 - Shavuos 5780

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Shavuos 5780 To help us keep inspired through Shavuos, GuardYourEyes is proud to present Weekly Newsletter #8, designed to be printed out and read over Yom-Tov. The pamphlet contains stories, divrei Torah, practical advice, humor and chizuk, all relating to the struggle o...
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Torah in the Desert

Torah in the Desert

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The Ropshitzer Rav explains that Hashem gave us the Torah in a desert which is desolate from all good things to teach us that the Torah was given and is available for every yid, no matter what level he is on. One must not feel too distant for Torah study rather Hashem ask...
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The Intimacy Compartment

The Intimacy Compartment

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Every human being has a compartment in their brain for the area of intimacy. As long as this so-called "box" hasn't been opened yet, it remains only in potential and does not take up much bandwidth in the mind, if any at all. This is the normal case with pre-adolescent ...
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Rabbi Avigdor Miller on Abstinence

Rabbi Avigdor Miller on Abstinence

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Q: How should a person know when to enjoy this world and on the other hand when to be a porush, an abstainer, from this world? A: And the answer is, whatever is good for your health you should use and enjoy in this world. If you like to eat bread and butter and it’s also ...
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