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just want to get over with it 11 Jun 2018 16:02 #332012

poland OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 8 Karma: 0	trying to stop the problem and to stay pure would love to here from others how to get out of it thanks mitsapim leyosua

Re: just want to get over with it 11 Jun 2018 16:13 #332014

mzl Current streak: 28 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 996	Here I am. I can say in all honesty that I am a nobody here! But I read your post and your action of typing and submitting something is a clear sign of change to come.
	This works for me: https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/2-What-Works-for-Me/336801-the-poof-method I moved to a blog: https://wordpress.com/post/mzl0.home.blog/11

Re: just want to get over with it 12 Jun 2018 06:08 #332055

Hashem Help Me Current streak: 2888 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 4042	Welcome. It should be with hatzlocha. What are the struggles? How often? the more you write, the more we can respond.
	Feel free to contact me at michelgelner@gmail.com My threads: Lessons Learned: guardyoureyes.com/forum/20-Important-Threads/335248-Lessons-Learned My Story and G-d Bless GYE: guardyoureyes.com/forum/17-Balei-Battims-Forum/303036-My-story-and-G-d-bless-GYE

Re: just want to get over with it 12 Jun 2018 18:39 #332114

poland OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 8 Karma: 0	masterbate when bored or depressed or go to places like areas where there are club to see unappropiate things i just want to get out of this habit and be a good jew

Re: just want to get over with it 13 Jun 2018 11:20 #332152

Hashem Help Me Current streak: 2888 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 4042	Are you single? married? Did you ever speak to anyone about this? A rebbi/therapist?
	Feel free to contact me at michelgelner@gmail.com My threads: Lessons Learned: guardyoureyes.com/forum/20-Important-Threads/335248-Lessons-Learned My Story and G-d Bless GYE: guardyoureyes.com/forum/17-Balei-Battims-Forum/303036-My-story-and-G-d-bless-GYE

Re: just want to get over with it 13 Jun 2018 14:30 #332158

poland OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 8 Karma: 0	single never spoke to anyone about it

Re: just want to get over with it 13 Jun 2018 14:43 #332160

mzl Current streak: 28 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 996	You don't seem to like to write much. Maybe you need to speak to someone on the phone?
	This works for me: https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/2-What-Works-for-Me/336801-the-poof-method I moved to a blog: https://wordpress.com/post/mzl0.home.blog/11

Re: just want to get over with it 13 Jun 2018 14:44 #332161

poland OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 8 Karma: 0	i dont feel comfortable talking on the phone i rather chat or by email

Re: just want to get over with it 13 Jun 2018 15:07 #332163

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poland wrote on 13 Jun 2018 14:44:

i dont feel comfortable talking on the phone i rather chat or by email

Welcome!
I doubt there are many who felt comfortable when they made their first phone call. I know I wasn't, I was literally shaking.
It took me a long time to get used to the idea but it really made a difference. (I don't suggest you wait as long as I did...) Keep staying connected via chat and email, but you might want to keep the idea in the back of your mind to eventually pick up the phone and take that step.
Good luck!

My story so far

Re: just want to get over with it 13 Jun 2018 15:17 #332165

mzl Current streak: 28 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 996	If it's a language barrier sometimes talking is harder than writing. If it's shame, that goes away as you talk.
	This works for me: https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/2-What-Works-for-Me/336801-the-poof-method I moved to a blog: https://wordpress.com/post/mzl0.home.blog/11

Re: just want to get over with it 13 Jun 2018 20:12 #332179

Hashem Help Me Current streak: 2888 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 4042	Meanwhile, keep posting. The more you share, the more we can respond.
	Feel free to contact me at michelgelner@gmail.com My threads: Lessons Learned: guardyoureyes.com/forum/20-Important-Threads/335248-Lessons-Learned My Story and G-d Bless GYE: guardyoureyes.com/forum/17-Balei-Battims-Forum/303036-My-story-and-G-d-bless-GYE

Re: just want to get over with it 05 Jul 2018 20:13 #333012

poland OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 8 Karma: 0	hi i had a fall on tuesday after 22 days bh i learnt the rule of one day at a time and it helped me start fresh on wednsday praying for all of u may we stay pure have a great shabos

Re: just want to get over with it 05 Jul 2018 22:01 #333014

Markz OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 8258 Karma: 428	poland wrote on 05 Jul 2018 20:13: hi i had a fall on tuesday after 22 days bh i learnt the rule of one day at a time and it helped me start fresh on wednsday praying for all of u may we stay pure have a great shabos Good to hear you're back on track I think ODAAT is not about fresh startups so as not to look back, rather it's about not counting days for tomorrow, if you get my drift
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