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Re: Here we go 08 Apr 2016 17:33 #284042

Aryeh821 Current streak: 591 days OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 289 Karma: 8	Also the website has me as an "expert boarder" which is weird because the only thing I feel like an expert in is not being and expert
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Re: Here we go 08 Apr 2016 18:37 #284049

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OK so I had a major slip a few minutes ago
I went on to a website on my moms iPad (still not filtered gonna work on that today) that I knew sometimes popped up a link to bad sites and I clicked on it and got a bit carried away but I managed to re-gain my balance and not fall
from now on if I go on to a site that I know has links like that or even worse go on Any site with the intention of finding links I'm gonna consider that a fall- thoughts ?

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Re: Here we go 08 Apr 2016 18:51 #284050

Markz OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 8258 Karma: 428	Have you read up about the good night device calendar in my signature?
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Re: Here we go 08 Apr 2016 19:01 #284051

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Aryeh821 wrote on 08 Apr 2016 17:33:

Also the website has me as an "expert boarder" which is weird because the only thing I feel like an expert in is not being and expert

Best is not to let ourselves get bogged down by our "post counts", and "boarder status" (I hope that goes without saying...). But if you're having trouble we could bring your Karma down a few points to even things out if that would help

Re: Here we go 08 Apr 2016 19:12 #284055

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You have a payphone in the shower?

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Re: Here we go 08 Apr 2016 19:19 #284057

Markz OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 8258 Karma: 428	Aryeh - Have you read up about the good night device calendar in my signature? Let me know, cos I have a similar idea
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Re: Here we go 08 Apr 2016 20:22 #284064

Aryeh821 Current streak: 591 days OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 289 Karma: 8	Markz I read up what have you got in mind cord -not yet something about a fire hazard which is wierd seeing as I'm in a shower which generally is full of water I meant more for during the day maybe before I get in the shower
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Re: Here we go 08 Apr 2016 20:24 #284065

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Well, you gotta decide which hazard you worried about.

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Re: Here we go 08 Apr 2016 20:29 #284066

Markz OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 8258 Karma: 428	My idea - only if it excites you until your mothers device is filtered, install the "goodbye device calendar" app; meaning accept to pay GYE $2 each time you logon the device, any time of the day (unless you come first and discuss it with your friends right here) What do you think
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Re: Here we go 08 Apr 2016 20:35 #284067

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markz wrote:

My idea - only if it excites you

until your mothers device is filtered, install the "goodbye device calendar" app; meaning accept to pay GYE $2 each time you logon the device, any time of the day (unless you come first and discuss it with your friends right here)

What do you think

I like it lets do that thanks for the idea
cord- please explain (unless. It was a joke because a joke explained isn't much of a joke anymore

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Re: Here we go 08 Apr 2016 20:46 #284069

Markz OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 8258 Karma: 428	Great Trucker! Put cords joke after these words of yours "had a major slip a few minutes ago... got a bit carried away but I managed to re-gain my balance and not fall" Btw singing ~~in the shower~~ helps alot too - to keep your balance Have a gut Shabbos
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Re: Here we go 10 Apr 2016 02:33 #284113

Aryeh821 Current streak: 591 days OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 289 Karma: 8	Day 13 had a great "safer" shabbos phone Numbers anyone - I'd really appreciate being able to phone some on the hard days (even the not hard days ) who can relate to me seeing as I'm in yeshivah and can't post
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Re: Here we go 10 Apr 2016 04:04 #284132

Markz OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 8258 Karma: 428	I don't feel I'm suitable, also I'm often not reachable by phone eg at work, else I'd offer for SURE!!! i hope someone else does, else try call Cordnoy or Dov... KOT
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Re: Here we go 10 Apr 2016 13:06 #284152

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Day 1 so I had a fall last night
buut I'm NOT back down to day one because I am not back where I was never before did I have 13 days of soberity behind me (if it sounds like I'm trying to convince myself it's because I am i find it really hard to keep a positive mindset after a fall)
anyways there was a loophole in my filter that i will fix ASAP
I haven't had a conversation with myself for a while but last night Oh boy there were a thousand voices in my head telling me "nah you didn't really have a fall you're going to be so embarrassed if you tell everyone you had a fall ETC...."
but I ignored them brewed some honestea and here I am
thoughts?
markz I really appreciate the thought but I think I'd be to intimidated to speak to cordnoy or dov

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Re: Here we go 10 Apr 2016 14:28 #284155

Markz OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 8258 Karma: 428	Is there anyone you feel safe to talk to in your neighborhood that could serve as a coach for you? Or a local softspoken kindhearted rebbi that can be a shoulder for you, even only once a month Im not asking if you're comfortable doing this.
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