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Here we go 16 Mar 2016 18:51 #281508

Aryeh821 Current streak: 591 days OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 289 Karma: 8	Day 1 all right here i begin
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Re: Here we go 17 Mar 2016 22:56 #281663

pischoshelmachat OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 492 Karma: 42	Welcome Aryeh, I wish you a peaceful journey filled with a great sense of fulfillment. We are all rooting for you!

Re: Here we go 18 Mar 2016 00:45 #281669

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Re: Here we go 18 Mar 2016 16:36 #281737

Aryeh821 Current streak: 591 days OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 289 Karma: 8	Not sure how to say it is this day three or two and a half Any ways doing good so far just checking in
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Re: Here we go 20 Mar 2016 03:49 #281810

Aryeh821 Current streak: 591 days OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 289 Karma: 8	Day 4 hi all I had a major slip today went to shul right after lunch but I wasn't thinking and it was three hours before mincha and the place was empty my main lifeline that stopped me from actually falling was probably the fact that I knew I'd have to start again on the 90 day count
	Soberity is a journey NOT a destination

Re: Here we go 20 Mar 2016 05:12 #281826

BenTorah.BaalHabayis OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 321 Karma: 12	Glad to hear you didn't fall. Do you have any tools you're working with or are you simply going to "hold your breath" for 90 days?
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Re: Here we go 20 Mar 2016 05:49 #281831

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Aryeh821 wrote on 20 Mar 2016 03:49:

Day 4
hi all I had a major slip today
went to shul right after lunch but I wasn't thinking and it was three hours before mincha and the place was empty
my main lifeline that stopped me from actually falling was probably the fact that I knew I'd have to start again on the 90 day count

You were gonna fall in shul?
I understand the possibility, just wanted to make sure I followed the post.

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Re: Here we go 20 Mar 2016 13:11 #281863

Aryeh821 Current streak: 591 days OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 289 Karma: 8	Well actually in the washroom of shul and I'm doing the taphsich method plus chizuk emails posting and going through the handbook
	Soberity is a journey NOT a destination

Re: Here we go 20 Mar 2016 18:10 #281894

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Aryeh,
Good for you! Do you feel at ease and relaxed in your new found purity or do you feel a constant strain and battle to stay clean?
If the latter, how long do you think you can keep it up? There are things you can do that will relieve you of what we call here "white knuckling" and make your life serene and peaceful without feeling the constant struggle.
Just ask and we will all be happy to share with you.

Re: Here we go 20 Mar 2016 22:05 #281909

realsimcha Current streak: 1 day OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 425 Karma: 22	Aryeh, Wishing you hatzlacha! Keep at it! We are here! I can identify all to well with the falling in a shul washroom situation. All the time saying to myself "I can believe I am doing this in a shul. whats wrong with me?!!" Well, I dont ask myself whats wrong with me. I know whats wrong with me. Just trying to stay "right" for today. I wish you strength & clarity.

Re: Here we go 23 Mar 2016 19:18 #282339

Aryeh821 Current streak: 591 days OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 289 Karma: 8	Hey all I had a fall yesterday will update soon really crazy day so if nut today tommorow
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Re: Here we go 23 Mar 2016 20:06 #282351

Sasha 2 Current streak: 19 days OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 199 Karma: 10	Sorry to hear that... We are here for you!
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Re: Here we go 25 Mar 2016 19:55 #282518

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day 2
so here's the promised update although it's a day late as taanis Esther and Purim were crazy
so after my longest streak of 6 days I had a fall
i had a major stomach ache and went to the washroom probably 20 times that day
altgough i was sorely tempted I held my self back until the last time I couldn't anymore and fell
my main problem/obstacle right now seems to be the washroom I'm not going there to act out but once I'm there...... It's not really a situation I can avoid any ideas/thoughts?

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Re: Here we go 25 Mar 2016 21:02 #282532

realsimcha Current streak: 1 day OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 425 Karma: 22	Dont bring your phone in with you. Would that help?

Re: Here we go 25 Mar 2016 21:36 #282534

Aryeh821 Current streak: 591 days OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 289 Karma: 8	Not really I'm in yeshivah most the time (that's when the fall happened) I dorm there and no phones allowed the fall Was masturbation not porn
	Soberity is a journey NOT a destination