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wow! I didn't realize it's been so long! 23 Nov 2015 22:06 #269440

rabbiyoel
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I just checked in and realized that its been 20 days so far! Since I joined this group it has been like Hashem took over and did all the hard work for me. Granted there have still been tests and 20 days have been hard, but I it's like a miracle. This is an open miracle for I didn't even realize I deserved. It's like Hashem just wanted me to make this first move of joining GYE and then he did the heavy lifting. In these 20 days, I have also seen a major improvement in my shalom bayis. It's amazing what 20 days have brought me and I am really excited for the next 20 days and beyond!

Re: wow! I didn't realize it's been so long! 23 Nov 2015 22:13 #269441

lomed OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 307 Karma: 47	Welcome! congratulation on your 20 days!!! keep up your good work. What have you been struggling with? It is for most of us helpful to write about our struggles. Hatzlacha
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Re: wow! I didn't realize it's been so long! 23 Nov 2015 22:36 #269442

skeptical OFFLINE Moderator Posts: 1118 Karma: 78	Welcome to GYE - the place where we can all relate to you because we all are/have been there! We're looking forward to getting to know you better!
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Re: wow! I didn't realize it's been so long! 23 Nov 2015 23:20 #269448

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Welcome,

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Re: wow! I didn't realize it's been so long! 23 Nov 2015 23:53 #269450

Markz OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 8285 Karma: 427	lomed wrote: Welcome! congratulation on your 20 days!!! keep up your good work. What have you been struggling with? It is for most of us helpful to write about our struggles. Hatzlacha Welcome R Yoel
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Re: wow! I didn't realize it's been so long! 24 Nov 2015 03:40 #269475

eny Current streak: 91 days OFFLINE Senior Boarder Posts: 66 Karma: 1	b'hatzlacha! wishing you a great one-day-at-a-time

Re: wow! I didn't realize it's been so long! 24 Nov 2015 19:56 #269540

shlomo24 Current streak: 1 day OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 2213 Karma: 135	welcome! kutgw!
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Re: wow! I didn't realize it's been so long! 25 Nov 2015 22:16 #269683

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I have been struggling with porn addiction for awhile since I was single. I am not sure to be honest what triggered it but I know it started around the same time that I was going through typical male development when all boys start to get into girls. I was around 18 years old. It really started with "innocent" browsing online and then it spiraled deeper and deeper. I began to buy inappropriate magazines, and then I began to go to strip clubs. Thank G-d that is as far as it went. I haven't been to the clubs in almost 5 years. But the real problem is pornography. I can't seem to stop the browsing. This is a problem that I know will always exist as with any addiction problem. I hope that through this amazing GYE program that I will always be able to keep a lock on the problem. And I look forward to interacting with as many of you as possible. This is actually the first time that I shared this in such a public way but I feel good! And I really believe that we are actually the fortunate ones in klal yisroel. This challenge is a way of Hashem directly communicating with each of us face to face.How fortunate are we!

Re: wow! I didn't realize it's been so long! 26 Nov 2015 00:31 #269691

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Welcome!

Much Hatzlacha!

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--"ולא המדרש עיקר, אלא המעשה"
--"To promise not to do a thing is the surest way in the world to make a body want to go and do that very thing." Mark Twain
--"If, when you honestly want to, you find you cannot quit entirely, or if when drinking (or lusting), you have little control over the amount you take, you are probably alcoholic (or sexaholic)." AA Big Book P. 45. Parenthesis added.
--You hit rock bottom when you decide to stop digging.

Re: wow! I didn't realize it's been so long! 01 Dec 2015 13:51 #270005

eny Current streak: 91 days OFFLINE Senior Boarder Posts: 66 Karma: 1	Want to wish you daily success - I saw that we're neighbors on the 90 day chart now איש את רעהו יעזרו ולאחיו יאמר חזק (that verse in Yishaya seems to be about ovdei avodah zarah strengthening each other to make idols, but I'm taking poetic license - someone made a song out of it. Plus, if they can be mechazek each other certainly we should)