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Re: MY STORY... 25 Apr 2016 18:38 #285812

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Wow, I honestly can't believe I really pulled it off! (90)
Feel free to email me anytime sanonym380380@gmail.com
Last Edit: 25 Apr 2016 18:39 by Sasha 2.

Re: MY STORY... 25 Apr 2016 18:40 #285813

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I will post my thoughts and feelings a little later...
Feel free to email me anytime sanonym380380@gmail.com

Re: MY STORY... 25 Apr 2016 19:38 #285817

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Mazel Tov!!!!



May Hashem grant you a full lifetime of being clean. One day at a time.

Keep posting here.


 
Last Edit: 26 Apr 2016 01:02 by inastruggle.

Re: MY STORY... 25 Apr 2016 19:54 #285819

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Re: MY STORY... 25 Apr 2016 20:44 #285822

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Markz was busy fiddling with the confetti thingamajig apparently  Mazel Tov Sasha! And many more..

Re: MY STORY... 25 Apr 2016 21:17 #285824

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Shasha I'm happy for you and I'm sure that it will also add to your simches yom tuv.
From my own experience you should be extra careful after breaching 90.
I call it "the post 90 syndrome"
All the best
 
 *  NO, It's not all or nothing, just every bit counts!
 *  I failed yesterday, and I might fail tomorrow. But just for today I'm going to give it a try.
 *  Being curios made me lust and get into trouble.

אָמַר רבי יוחנן: אֵבֶר קָטָן יֵשׁ לוֹ לָאָדָם, מַרְעִיבוֹ = שָׂבֵעַ, מַשְׂבִּיעוֹ = רָעֵב

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Re: MY STORY... 26 Apr 2016 01:21 #285839

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MAZAL TOV! B'HATZLACHA!

And during b"h also, pshhhh. Kol hakavod.
If you're an LGBTQ or LGBTQ-questioning person and looking for someone who can understand you, feel free to reach out. I promise no judgement and to try and listen the best I can. 

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Re: MY STORY... 26 Apr 2016 02:40 #285847

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Mazel Tov!!!!!!!! Thanks for the inspiration. We all gain from your accomplishments!!!

Re: MY STORY... 26 Apr 2016 02:44 #285848

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Mazel Tov Sasha!!! 

KUTGW & KOMT!!
!אנא עבדא דקודשא בריך הוא

וּבְיָדְךָ כֹּחַ וּגְבוּרָה וּבְיָדְךָ לְגַדֵּל וּלְחַזֵּק לַכֹּל


"If it would be so easy there wouldn't be a GYE, but if it would be impossible there also wouldn't be a GYE."
"Sometimes a hard decision leads to an easier outcome."
- General Grant


My story: guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/111583-hello-my-friends

Re: MY STORY... 02 May 2016 17:16 #286336

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Ok I'm back, just wasn't able to post last week.

Boruch Hashem I reached my first goal of hitting 90 day's and I hope to continue staying clean...

I noticed that what significantly changed is my day to day lusting, which is great because it made me crazy &  I couldn't be myself anymore. Everything that triggered me still triggers me and I agree with what was posted that it didn't get too much easier.

I know it's an ongoing battle I just really hope that it does get easier though.

I also MUST add that it was only possible to get to this point with everyone's help here on GYE!!!!
Ive tried so many times before and never made it too far...
Feel free to email me anytime sanonym380380@gmail.com

Re: MY STORY... 03 May 2016 03:02 #286425

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Amazing! KOT!

Re: MY STORY... 05 May 2016 17:51 #286799

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Now that im past 90 day, I'm finding that its getting harder for me (somewhat).
I find that I'm forgetting how it killed my life and destroyed me!

In a way i feel i can view something and it wont hurt me because I am already immune!!!!

any advice?
Feel free to email me anytime sanonym380380@gmail.com

Re: MY STORY... 05 May 2016 18:32 #286807

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Keep taking those booster shots.
!אנא עבדא דקודשא בריך הוא

וּבְיָדְךָ כֹּחַ וּגְבוּרָה וּבְיָדְךָ לְגַדֵּל וּלְחַזֵּק לַכֹּל


"If it would be so easy there wouldn't be a GYE, but if it would be impossible there also wouldn't be a GYE."
"Sometimes a hard decision leads to an easier outcome."
- General Grant


My story: guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/111583-hello-my-friends

Re: MY STORY... 06 May 2016 00:25 #286857

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Don't get over confident. Look at the 90 day chart and see how many people there are who's longest streak is way longer than yours and are now clean for less time than you. I fell after being clean for over 400 days.

Think about the amount of time you've been falling (over 6 years) and think about how many 90 days that was (over 24 times). a three digit number sounds like a lot of days but its a little over a measly three months. You don't get immune in three months (or ever but that's beside the point).

If you think it wise then try focusing a bit more on other pursuits and keep being clean as more of a background thing. I don't think you should until at least six month or so but you know yourself better.

Keep up the great work!

Re: MY STORY... 06 May 2016 05:30 #286909

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Sasha 2 wrote on 05 May 2016 17:51:
Now that im past 90 day, I'm finding that its getting harder for me (somewhat).
I find that I'm forgetting how it killed my life and destroyed me!

In a way i feel i can view something and it wont hurt me because I am already immune!!!!

any advice?

Read your thread. Hatzlacha!
 
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