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On the road 23 Dec 2014 04:41 #245531

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I am very excited to begin the 90 day program I believe that I did my first day but just to make sure what is considered a clean day

Re: On the road 23 Dec 2014 08:48 #245542

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WELCOME!

Check out the GYE Handbook and Skep's tips

Make sure to take it one day at a time!
I am happy to speak on the phone. Please email me at dms1234ongye@gmail.com

My name is Daniel, I go to face to face meetings and I work the 12 steps with a sponsor. 

Re: On the road 23 Dec 2014 09:38 #245554

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Glad to hear you are taking that step! The definition for clean days is under the "how it works" tab above the 90 day chart. Here is the link guardyoureyes.com/90-days-chart/rules

Hatzlacha!
Much Hatzlacha!

My Threads:
Glad to be here
Don't slip it hurts
Lions & Tigers & Internet, Oh My!

--"ולא המדרש עיקר, אלא המעשה"
--"To promise not to do a thing is the surest way in the world to make a body want to go and do that very thing." Mark Twain
--"If, when you honestly want to, you find you cannot quit entirely, or if when drinking (or lusting), you have little control over the amount you take, you are probably alcoholic (or sexaholic)." AA Big Book P. 45. Parenthesis added.
--You hit rock bottom when you decide to stop digging.

Re: On the road 24 Dec 2014 12:31 #245645

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Thanks for the answer serenity, another quick question i was approved for chat yesterday but although on my phone there is a chat tab when i press on it it just gives me instructions on how to chat but no where to chat, on my computer it does give me a place to chat are you able to chat on a mobile device?

Re: On the road 24 Dec 2014 18:46 #245656

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Currently, GYE does not work well on a mobile device.

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Re: On the road 24 Dec 2014 19:08 #245661

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Shalom aleichem, Gimpel!

A not too great workaround is to click 'desktop view' in your mobile browser.

Hatzlacha on your journey!

Re: On the road 24 Dec 2014 19:29 #245664

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if you go to the gye in the center of the main screen then click on chatrooms it works halfway decent
Hashem these lustful thoughts are not mine I don't need them or want them please take them from me so I can live a happy and healthy life

Gotta roll with the punches or the punches will roll all over you

yesterday was
tomorrow will be
the only thing you can change is the moment you see

keep smiling and keep busy

"lust is fire to dynamite don't get close" from someone don't remember who

The worst thing i did to myself was lie to myself for 2 whole years

I try not to hate it takes way to much energy

Re: On the road 25 Dec 2014 02:44 #245706

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Unless I am mistaken, I don't see people using the chat rooms. I see people communicating in the forums and in private messages.
Much Hatzlacha!

My Threads:
Glad to be here
Don't slip it hurts
Lions & Tigers & Internet, Oh My!

--"ולא המדרש עיקר, אלא המעשה"
--"To promise not to do a thing is the surest way in the world to make a body want to go and do that very thing." Mark Twain
--"If, when you honestly want to, you find you cannot quit entirely, or if when drinking (or lusting), you have little control over the amount you take, you are probably alcoholic (or sexaholic)." AA Big Book P. 45. Parenthesis added.
--You hit rock bottom when you decide to stop digging.

Re: On the road 25 Dec 2014 09:57 #245742

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Have you reached out to anyone? I think most people chat one on one instead of in chat rooms. Sometimes you want to be a little more open with someone, but you don't necessarily want it broadcasted to the general public. Hatzlocha
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My threads:
www.guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/236327-Bigmoish-tries-to-be-good
www.guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/236329-Bigmoishs-path-to-tahara

"We have met the enemy and he is us" - Pogo
"Expectation is the mother of frustration" - gibbor120
"Today, damn it! Today!" - cordnoy
"Desiring is not a sin at all, but just a sign that you are not dead yet" - Dov
"We are our own worst observer" - eslaasos's therapist
WDHW!!!

Re: On the road 25 Dec 2014 19:13 #245752

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Thanks for clarifying that point for Gimpel. When I first came here, I kept checking the chat rooms and nothing was going on. I thought something was wrong on my end. Eventually I realized people were chatting one on one, as you say, by clicking on the "who's Online" button. The one on one chatting is different from private messaging that I mentioned in error.
Much Hatzlacha!

My Threads:
Glad to be here
Don't slip it hurts
Lions & Tigers & Internet, Oh My!

--"ולא המדרש עיקר, אלא המעשה"
--"To promise not to do a thing is the surest way in the world to make a body want to go and do that very thing." Mark Twain
--"If, when you honestly want to, you find you cannot quit entirely, or if when drinking (or lusting), you have little control over the amount you take, you are probably alcoholic (or sexaholic)." AA Big Book P. 45. Parenthesis added.
--You hit rock bottom when you decide to stop digging.

Re: On the road 27 Dec 2014 05:12 #245891

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Just want to know what is the karma thing under everyone's names on the forums and how do you get it.

Re: On the road 28 Dec 2014 05:18 #245901

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The amount of pushups and squats you need to do for every slip.
My email: thenewme613@hotmail.com
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https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/1-Break-Free/210029-Tryin
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Re: On the road 29 Dec 2014 05:06 #246011

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It's given to you by others who appreciate you.
You can give it to others that you appreciate (like, say, Cordnoy) by clicking the plus next to their karma.

Re: On the road 29 Dec 2014 05:18 #246014

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What makes it different from the thank you option? Aside from the bragging rights of having a high carma

Re: On the road 29 Dec 2014 05:24 #246016

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ineedchizuk wrote:
It's given to you by others who appreciate you.
You can give it to others that you appreciate (like, say, Cordnoy) by clicking the plus next to their karma.


Oish!
I'm still on the floor pantin' from the last set of sit-ups.
My email: thenewme613@hotmail.com
My threads: Mikvah Night - Page 1, Page 2, Page 3, Last Page

https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/1-Break-Free/210029-Tryin
:pinch: Warning: Spoiler!
My job: Punchin' bag of GYE - "NeshamaInCharge"
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