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Re: My 90-Day Journey 20 Oct 2015 18:35 #266449

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9494 yes that works for SA (addicts). They have a monster in their life.

For NA (non addicts) if they come across a monster they need to escape. They (myself included) work very hard to create a lifestyle so as not to be confronted with monsters, and that's sufficient in my opinion
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Re: My 90-Day Journey 20 Oct 2015 18:38 #266451

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TalmidChaim wrote:
idle time contributes to my addiction


My experience is that the addiction is there.
Idle time allows me to make use of it.
Once I learn how to live life, i can live godly - even in the idle time.

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Re: My 90-Day Journey 20 Oct 2015 19:00 #266460

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TalmidChaim wrote:

This might be a "No Duh" post, so I apologize if the obviousness of it borders on obnoxious. I also don't want to downplay the pull of my addiction, or try to weasel out of the serious work that needs to be done to achieve sobriety. This is just something practical that I need to work on.


it's amazing how as an addict i can forget the most simple, basic things so quickly. no need to apologize. (even if it was "no duh" still no need to apologize, this is a non-judgemental environment)
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Re: My 90-Day Journey 21 Oct 2015 00:06 #266498

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Thanks for all the responses! Excellent insight, as usual. Keeping busy, for me, is far from a fix. But it is solving at least one problem, procrastination, and taking the edge off of another, lust addiction.
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Re: My 90-Day Journey 08 Nov 2015 17:52 #268085

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My discipline with staying active on the forums might be at an all-time low. I'm sorry!

I'm still religiously using other tools, like the 90 Day calendar, here on GYE. So I'm around, just lurking.

I'll make an effort (B"N) to keep up with the forums.
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Re: My 90-Day Journey 09 Nov 2015 01:25 #268117

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if doing what ur doing is working then why beat urself up abt not being active on the forums? the forums are a tool that can be helpful for some and not helpful for others
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Re: My 90-Day Journey 19 Nov 2015 15:45 #269075

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Thanks, Shlomo24. It never ceases to amaze me how genuinely nice, caring and thoughtful the guys are here

Things could be working a lot better, whatever improvement I've seen notwithstanding. I need to stay tuned in here more!
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