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Safe spot for the non SA folk over here
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Safe spot for the non SA folk over here 07 Feb 2018 18:50 #326618

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Just realized this:

This board is for non-addiction related threads



That means that us non addicts can be free here!  The addicts can't tell us we're addicted - at least not on this board. 

This is so exciting! 
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My road to 90 days, all with God's help.             What brought me here.90 days with Areivim

Made it 259 days from 01/28/17-10/15/17 without mz"l. At day 90, I started to go for all aspects of שמירת עניים\הברית. At day 168 I fell with שמירת עניים & restarted the count. On approximately November 4 2017, with the support of a fellow GYE brother (daily text messages/phone calls), I restarted. This round I'm working on שמירת הברית as well as שמירת עניים.

Re: Safe spot for the non SA folk over here 07 Feb 2018 19:18 #326621

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I don't believe I belong here, but for you guys that are still sane odaat - here's your 12 STEPS

1. We admitted we were powerless over nothing- that we could manage our lives perfectly and those of anyone else who would allow us.

2. Came to believe there was no power greater than ourselves and the rest of the world was insane.

3. Made a decision to have our loved ones and friends turn their wills and lives over to our care even though they couldn't understand us at all.

4. Made a searching and fearless moral and immoral inventory of everyone we knew.

5. Admitted to the whole world at large the exact nature of everyone else's wrongs.

6. Were entirely ready to make others straighten up and do right.

7. Demanded others to either "shape up or ship out."

8. Made a list of all persons who had harmed us and became willing to go to any lengths to get even with them all.

9. Got direct revenge wherever possible. Except when to do so would cost us our own lives or at least a stiff jail sentence.

10. Continued to take the inventory of others and when they were wrong promptly and repeatedly told them about it.

11. Sought through bitching, complaining, and nagging to improve our relations with others as we couldn't understand them at all, asking only that they knuckle under and do things our way.

12. Having had a complete physical, emotional and spiritual breakdown as a result of these steps, we tried to blame others and to get sympathy and pity in all our affairs.
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Re: Safe spot for the non SA folk over here 07 Feb 2018 19:41 #326622

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bb0212 wrote:
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לב  טהור   ברא   לי   אלקים , ורוח  נכון    חדש  בקרבי

  to all my friends who heeded my request  to be so generous and give me a negative karma  for the sake of me acquiring       
                                                . humility ,i humbly  thank you                                                                                                 

Last Edit: 07 Feb 2018 19:57 by ieeyc.

Re: Safe spot for the non SA folk over here 07 Feb 2018 22:02 #326634

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Re: Safe spot for the non SA folk over here 07 Feb 2018 22:27 #326636

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looks like the non-addicts might just be addicted to 
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Re: Safe spot for the non SA folk over here 08 Feb 2018 00:01 #326639

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 cant be! look - Safe spot for the non SA(non spoiler addict) folk over here

לב  טהור   ברא   לי   אלקים , ורוח  נכון    חדש  בקרבי

  to all my friends who heeded my request  to be so generous and give me a negative karma  for the sake of me acquiring       
                                                . humility ,i humbly  thank you                                                                                                 

Last Edit: 08 Feb 2018 00:02 by ieeyc.

Re: Safe spot for the non SA folk over here 08 Feb 2018 07:10 #326665

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 Hi everybody,  my name is bb0212 and I'm not addicted to GYE. 
My road to 90 days, all with God's help.             What brought me here.90 days with Areivim

Made it 259 days from 01/28/17-10/15/17 without mz"l. At day 90, I started to go for all aspects of שמירת עניים\הברית. At day 168 I fell with שמירת עניים & restarted the count. On approximately November 4 2017, with the support of a fellow GYE brother (daily text messages/phone calls), I restarted. This round I'm working on שמירת הברית as well as שמירת עניים.

Re: Safe spot for the non SA folk over here 08 Feb 2018 12:18 #326673

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welcome bb0212 many of us realized we weren't addicted to gye although we had very strong urges but odaat we did all kinds of things like watching porn and other things to distract us from guarding your eyes 
but many of us got addicted to gye odaat and really started recovery 
look around get to know the chevrah discovery should be with hatzlocho
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Re: Safe spot for the non SA folk over here 08 Feb 2018 16:15 #326685

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WOW THIS THREAD SOUNDS LIKE FUN IS COULD I JOIN????
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Important quote from Cordnoy
"The need is a perceived one. There has not been one reported case on these pages of a death occurrin' on account of not fulfillin' that need

“I avoid looking forward or backward, and try to keep looking upward.” 

"My recovery must come first so that everything I love in life doesn’t have to come last."

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Re: Safe spot for the non SA folk over here 08 Feb 2018 17:15 #326687

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bb0212 wrote on 08 Feb 2018 07:10:
 Hi everybody,  my name is bb0212 and I'm not addicted to GYE. 

if you will try it enough you will be

Re: Safe spot for the non SA folk over here 09 Feb 2018 05:27 #326719

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Ok great, now I looked at all the spoilers. But I wanted to. I can stop whenever I want, as a matter of fact,
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My road to 90 days, all with God's help.             What brought me here.90 days with Areivim

Made it 259 days from 01/28/17-10/15/17 without mz"l. At day 90, I started to go for all aspects of שמירת עניים\הברית. At day 168 I fell with שמירת עניים & restarted the count. On approximately November 4 2017, with the support of a fellow GYE brother (daily text messages/phone calls), I restarted. This round I'm working on שמירת הברית as well as שמירת עניים.

Re: Safe spot for the non SA folk over here 09 Feb 2018 06:40 #326722

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i didnt open up any  of them to prove to myself whos in control......i think ill treat myself  as a reward to see whats in only  one of them

לב  טהור   ברא   לי   אלקים , ורוח  נכון    חדש  בקרבי

  to all my friends who heeded my request  to be so generous and give me a negative karma  for the sake of me acquiring       
                                                . humility ,i humbly  thank you                                                                                                 

Last Edit: 09 Feb 2018 12:19 by ieeyc.

Re: Safe spot for the non SA folk over here 09 Feb 2018 06:44 #326723

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hey at least i controlled myself from opening the fifth one!

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  to all my friends who heeded my request  to be so generous and give me a negative karma  for the sake of me acquiring       
                                                . humility ,i humbly  thank you                                                                                                 

Re: Safe spot for the non SA folk over here 09 Feb 2018 09:05 #326725

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bb0212 wrote on 07 Feb 2018 18:50:
Just realized this:

This board is for non-addiction related threads



That means that us non addicts can be free here!  The addicts can't tell us we're addicted - at least not on this board. 

This is so exciting!

can it be we are addicted to saying we are not addicted
Last Edit: 09 Feb 2018 09:06 by ayidel.

Re: Safe spot for the non SA folk over here 09 Feb 2018 11:42 #326735

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