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Re: Thought I wouldn't need to ask for help 10 Aug 2023 12:04 #399684

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chaimoigen wrote on 10 Aug 2023 11:52:

Thursday August 10. 2023

So we were walking outside and my four year old daughter mentioned she doesn’t like the sidewalk, because it’s all broken and bumpy. “And why, Totty?” “How did the sidewalk break, Totty?”

I explained : “The tree right nearby used to be much littler. Just like you, Raizy! And it grows very slowly, but a little bit at a time, maybe every day. The little teeny roots go into the ground, to drink the water that helps the tree grow strong. And the roots grew. They got thicker and stronger, they grew and they grew! And even though the sidewalk is made out of strong, thick, cold cement- the roots were strong enough to pick up the cement, to crack it open and break it. Could you believe it?! Such strong cement - so cold and hard! Little roots can smash it! Can you believe it!!?”

OY! Gevalt! Roots! As they nestle, burrowing deeper into the sweet, deep places in the ground where there is water and nutrients for life; they have grown stronger and thicker, verdant and coursing with heady, rich Chaim…

They’re gonna have to build a whole new sidewalk, maybe in a different direction entirely.
אם אבן הוא נימוח דכתיב הוי כל צמא לכו למים וכתיב אבנים שחקו מים

I have tears in my eyes.

I would like to invite you, my close, close friends
to a Seudas Hoda'ah in honor of my achieving 90 days of Tahara, בעזה"י.
In honor of 3 Chodoshim Retzufun, in honor of establishing a Chazaka; of becoming a Misulekes Damim.
הַצִּילֵנִי מִדָּמִים אֶלֹקים אֱלֹקי תְשׁוּעָתִי תְּרַנֵּן לְשׁוֹנִי צִדְקָתֶךָ:

The Seuda will take place Bshaa Tova U'Mutzlachas on this coming Sunday night פ' שופטים, in the hours before midnight.
You may join wherever you are. You may wear pajamas

The program is as follows:
Appetizer: A L'Chaim of your choice.
First Course: 10 Kappitlach Tehillim of your choice.For you. For me. For all Yiddishe Kinder on and off GYE. For the Rebono Shel Olam who is suffering seeing his precious children struggling in the mud. And with heartfelt thanks to Him for the Heilige Torah, for holy Chaveirim, and for Rabbeim.
With Hodaah Al Haavar and Bakasha Al Ha’asid.
Please try to season your Tehillim with tears. I’ll have enough to go around.
Second Course: A Blatt Gemora. Ah Mechaya!
Dessert: Another Lichaim. (Woodford, wine, or even tequila, as long as its obscenely expensive)

Please RSVP here. Cordnoy, Eerie, Richtig, Grant, IMG, Captain, Vehkam, Benny, Heeling, Redfaced, Shmira, Jewish and so many sweet and holy others:
Please let me know if you can make it. It would mean a lot to me. I have been too lonely for far longer than I care to think about.

And finally: To the one who reached out on that very first day: "give me a call tzaddik"....
שלוחא דרחמנא
משביר, מכלכל, מחנך, מחייב, מרומם, מגביה שפלים ומתיר אסורים ,
כאשר ישא האומן את היונק
You are the one in whose eyes I saw reflected something I still can't put into words
and that has made all the difference...
נפשי אני חייב לך….

I feel like you're being stingy on the L"chaim, But hey I'm In . Wouldn't miss it for anything

May you slide down the banister of happiness and get many splinters of success up your career

Feel free to send me an owl, a howler, or even a Crumple-Horned Snorkack to Iamredfaced@gmail.com

The Red Face

Re: Thought I wouldn't need to ask for help 10 Aug 2023 14:07 #399687

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I'm in!

In the place where ba’alei teshuva stand, even pure tzaddikim who never sinned cannot stand. (Rabbi Avohu, Brachos 34b)

Great free resources:
My favorite book for breaking free: The Battle of the Generation https://guardyoureyes.com/ebooks/item/the-battle-of-the-generation. Change your attitude and change your life!

Rabbi Shafier's incredible lectures on breaking free: The Fight. Download here: https://theshmuz.com/series/the-fight/

If you're only ready to try something small, check out an easier way to do self-talk here:
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/378128-Captain—Shtarkemotionals-Secret90Day-Challenge

Re: Thought I wouldn't need to ask for help 13 Aug 2023 13:44 #399773

chaimoigen Current streak: 556 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1346 Karma: 134	Meeting a few more holy brothers made me feel so good. Loneliness may perhaps be the feeling when one’s internal landscape can’t be shared and appreciated. Meeting those with whom I have shared the texture of my Neshoma, and feeling theirs, all with a warm hug, understanding in the eyes, and a hearzige smile: it’s a mechaya mamash. Looking forward to tonight.
	Please feel free to reach out anytime at chaim.oigen@gmail.com

Re: Thought I wouldn't need to ask for help 13 Aug 2023 13:56 #399780

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chaimoigen wrote on 13 Aug 2023 13:44:

Meeting a few more holy brothers made me feel so good.
Loneliness may perhaps be the feeling when one’s internal landscape can’t be shared and appreciated. Meeting those with whom I have shared the texture of my Neshoma, and feeling theirs, all with a warm hug, understanding in the eyes, and a hearzige smile: it’s a mechaya mamash.

Looking forward to tonight.

I felt that bear hug all shabbos.

I woke up in the middle of the night on friday night to feed my baby , & all I could think of Was my meeting with the Helige R Chaim .

Something that I strongly encourage all those that are holding back on to experience.

Re: Thought I wouldn't need to ask for help 13 Aug 2023 18:24 #399807

eerie Current streak: 822 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1569	Reb Chaim, I'm afraid I will not be able to drive home, but I'll be there. Can you arrange a FRUBER? Keep trucking, my holy friend, and keep inspiring us all. You are Hashem's gift to us all!
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Re: Thought I wouldn't need to ask for help 14 Aug 2023 04:12 #399823

chaimoigen Current streak: 556 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1346 Karma: 134	Lichayim, tayereh Chaveirim. Such Hakaras Hatov to you all, and to Hakadosh Baruch Hu. Hodah Al Ha’avar and Bakasha Al Ha’asid. let’s keep going onwards, higher and higher - TOGETHER. מאן דבעי חיים
	Please feel free to reach out anytime at chaim.oigen@gmail.com

Re: Thought I wouldn't need to ask for help 14 Aug 2023 04:15 #399824

chaimoigen Current streak: 556 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1346 Karma: 134	Eerie wrote on 13 Aug 2023 18:24: Reb Chaim, I'm afraid I will not be able to drive home, but I'll be there. Can you arrange a FRUBER? Keep trucking, my holy friend, and keep inspiring us all. You are Hashem's gift to us all! I’m wondering if anyone (maybe Markz?) can arrange for you a Fruber TOWTRUCK
	Please feel free to reach out anytime at chaim.oigen@gmail.com

Re: Thought I wouldn't need to ask for help 14 Aug 2023 14:23 #399831

richtig OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 558 Karma: 29	chaimoigen wrote on 14 Aug 2023 04:12: Lichayim, tayereh Chaveirim. Such Hakaras Hatov to you all, and to Hakadosh Baruch Hu. Hodah Al Ha’avar and Bakasha Al Ha’asid. let’s keep going onwards, higher and higher - TOGETHER. מאן דבעי חיים Mazel tov Reb Chaim! May you continue to inspire and be mechazek yourself and others!
	"It is not our abilities that show who we truly are, it is our choices.” ---- Albus Dumbeldore (as per Chris Columbus)

Re: Thought I wouldn't need to ask for help 14 Aug 2023 15:10 #399834

lionking OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 966 Karma: 102	chaimoigen wrote on 14 Aug 2023 04:15: Eerie wrote on 13 Aug 2023 18:24: Reb Chaim, I'm afraid I will not be able to drive home, but I'll be there. Can you arrange a FRUBER? Keep trucking, my holy friend, and keep inspiring us all. You are Hashem's gift to us all! I’m wondering if anyone (maybe Markz?) can arrange for you a Fruber TOWTRUCK I can use a tow truck. Any units available?
	My email address is: growinghigher613@gmail.com

Re: Thought I wouldn't need to ask for help 14 Aug 2023 15:19 #399835

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lionking wrote on 14 Aug 2023 15:10:

chaimoigen wrote on 14 Aug 2023 04:15:

Eerie wrote on 13 Aug 2023 18:24:

Reb Chaim, I'm afraid I will not be able to drive home, but I'll be there. Can you arrange a FRUBER?

Keep trucking, my holy friend, and keep inspiring us all. You are Hashem's gift to us all!

I’m wondering if anyone (maybe Markz?) can arrange for you a Fruber TOWTRUCK

I can use a tow truck. Any units available?

We have an entire fleet out 24/7.

There’s a weight limit restriction applied.
If you come with too much baggage, you won’t be able to jump on.

There’s no place for any emotional baggage that meet these dimensions;

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Your Inner Critic
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Re: Thought I wouldn't need to ask for help 14 Aug 2023 22:15 #399851

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lionking wrote on 14 Aug 2023 15:10:

chaimoigen wrote on 14 Aug 2023 04:15:

Eerie wrote on 13 Aug 2023 18:24:

Reb Chaim, I'm afraid I will not be able to drive home, but I'll be there. Can you arrange a FRUBER?

Keep trucking, my holy friend, and keep inspiring us all. You are Hashem's gift to us all!

I’m wondering if anyone (maybe Markz?) can arrange for you a Fruber TOWTRUCK

I can use a tow truck. Any units available?

I can help you with a flat tire if you need

Re: Thought I wouldn't need to ask for help 15 Aug 2023 00:25 #399855

grant400 Current streak: 47 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1490 Karma: 173	Reb Chaim, My friend, Mazal tov on 90!!! 90 days of kedusha! 90 days of sharing that kedusha and your very impressive self with the oilam here! Thank you!
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Re: Thought I wouldn't need to ask for help 24 Aug 2023 13:32 #400372

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It has been 100, blessed days, with Hashem's help. Days of clarity and hope.

In honor of you, my friends, I wrote you this Ode (started it on Shmira's thread last night.)

I know a whole lot of people
Befriended a whole lot of friends
But for you special guys -
                  on Guard Your Eyes
I would go to all the worlds-ends.

For you've known the shapes of my struggles
Understand the true shape of my fears
I have showed you the landscape
                            of shadowy places
Together we've shed some few tears.

And this wholeness I've found in this hallowed space
Has lifted me forever free
With my new friends here on - and off - GYE
I have come now to know the real me
                 I am coming to BECOMING real me.

Please stay close.......

Please feel free to reach out anytime at chaim.oigen@gmail.com

Last Edit: 24 Aug 2023 13:40 by chaimoigen.

Re: Thought I wouldn't need to ask for help 24 Aug 2023 13:49 #400373

Heeling Current streak: 130 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 889 Karma: 38	Mazel Tov! R' Chaim! What an inspiration! While your becoming your real you...you are helping all of us becoming the real me. We are very privileged to have you here. Your posts are very insightful and are filled with Torah, chizuk, and positivity Keep it up,
	You can win the fight, but I'll have to live with the loser. Any excuse you use for yourself, you must be willing to use for your wife. Not Always can I understand others, but I can always respect their wishes. You're human, it's okay. One half of the world cannot understand the pleasures of the other. Last Edit: 24 Aug 2023 15:44 by Heeling.

Re: Thought I wouldn't need to ask for help 24 Aug 2023 14:05 #400374

Hashem Help Me Current streak: 2888 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 4042	Beautiful! May Hashem shower you with hatzlocha!
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