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Re: Introducing Myself - "Nerdy" 24 Jan 2018 20:26 #325936

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Markz wrote on 24 Jan 2018 18:36:

ieeyc wrote on 24 Jan 2018 18:07:

tzomah wrote on 23 Jan 2018 10:53:
was there sa in the times of the gemaroh

i think so but i think it was called someone who was caught  "  be`yad    yitzro" hes in the hands of his yetzer hara , i can quote such a lashon,if anyone wants,

nowadays theripists wont mention yetzer hara  since they deny that there is such a thing as yetzer hara


Hi ieeyc

We are here to support each other and need to be extra careful with what we write.

Negativity is not appreciated. This last post and some other recent ones have not been nice. Deleting them doesn't do anything. I'm subscribed to all posts.

If your perception of therapists and other people is negative, you gotta look within

There are a lot of suffering people here on gye that need help and want help and do not need to hear negative comments about therapist which they may be considering, moreover the comment was totally baseless

It's hard for me to share my personal story here, but I do it and wouldn't be where I am today with such great support without it

I realize it maybe hard for you to share your story, but until then I think you should take a brake from the forum.

When you create a new thread with your story and people get to know you better, hopefully your participation here will be different and much improved.

With my love

Mark

hi ,i want you to know i just got through deleting a 30 minute response( including thinking over if my words are too negative), and it is not the first time(maybe the other times not 20 minutes).i did it because i feel although my words were true( according to my understanding) and i brought valid examples to what i wrote ,i deleted it because im not interested in a heated  debate on this peace loving forum and website,although im very covinced  some of these things are very true ,and i have even been in contact with others in a private  way seconding what was written.
im not a  Talmud Chacham unfortunately, never finished a mesechta of Gemara, therefore my words negative  or .even positive should be taken with a grain of salt !
i have seen things that had a negative leaning (and ive  read  alot  of posts,bezras Hashem )and have not seen any protests  assueming it was  in your favor, although definitly negative ,i  dont want to to bring them up .
 just one thing i will say ,there have been things said here that smells along the lines of bullying,maybe even gang bullying and i dont feel i have to back out saying things that i hold will be encouraging to others who feel  the same .

what i said about theripists was not including frum therepists at all, a question was asked and i answered ,what i thought was a proper answer and true and necessary .im assuming non frum theripists dont read this forum.
again dont want a debate and family responsibilities are upon me now and cant continue. 

i love you all,we all are going through a hard time and for such a large membership here what works for some ,might not be the best for others. Hatzlacha.

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Re: Introducing Myself - "Nerdy" 24 Jan 2018 21:25 #325937

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I know that peace is not my middle name, but any chance of starting all over perhaps?

Or, should the issues be tackled one by one?
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Re: Introducing Myself - "Nerdy" 24 Jan 2018 22:37 #325939

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Trouble wrote on 24 Jan 2018 21:25:
I know that peace is not my middle name, but any chance of starting all over perhaps?

Or, should the issues be tackled one by one?

Thank you Mr. Trouble Peace (it is your last name ).
I personally vote for the one issue at a time, I think both of you Markz and ieeyc are raising numerous points and in keeping with the spirit of this wonderful site the issues should be addressed oiaat (one issue at a time).

Re: Introducing Myself - "Nerdy" 25 Jan 2018 00:18 #325941

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heemircha wrote on 24 Jan 2018 22:37:

Trouble wrote on 24 Jan 2018 21:25:
I know that peace is not my middle name, but any chance of starting all over perhaps?

Or, should the issues be tackled one by one?

Thank you Mr. Trouble Peace (it is your last name ).
I personally vote for the one issue at a time, I think both of you Markz and ieeyc are raising numerous points and in keeping with the spirit of this wonderful site the issues should be addressed oiaat (one issue at a time).

I can't decide that for them. If they do decide to go that route, I'd be more than happy to help list some of the issues.

There probably should be some ground rules, but that's also for a later time.
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Re: Introducing Myself - "Nerdy" 25 Jan 2018 01:06 #325942

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Markz wrote on 24 Jan 2018 18:36:

ieeyc wrote on 24 Jan 2018 18:07:

tzomah wrote on 23 Jan 2018 10:53:
was there sa in the times of the gemaroh

i think so but i think it was called someone who was caught  "  be`yad    yitzro" hes in the hands of his yetzer hara , i can quote such a lashon,if anyone wants,

nowadays theripists wont mention yetzer hara  since they deny that there is such a thing as yetzer hara


Hi ieeyc

We are here to support each other and need to be extra careful with what we write.

Negativity is not appreciated. This last post and some other recent ones have not been nice. Deleting them doesn't do anything. I'm subscribed to all posts.

If your perception of therapists and other people is negative, you gotta look within

There are a lot of suffering people here on gye that need help and want help and do not need to hear negative comments about therapist which they may be considering, moreover the comment was totally baseless

It's hard for me to share my personal story here, but I do it and wouldn't be where I am today with such great support without it

I realize it maybe hard for you to share your story, but until then I think you should take a brake from the forum.

When you create a new thread with your story and people get to know you better, hopefully your participation here will be different and much improved.

With my love

Mark

thank you trouble and heemircha ,i dont think there is any problem here, i respect markz and hes certainly entitled to his opinion,BUT,so am i ,and time will calm any friction if theres any, it happens to be before i started writing my opinions that may be different than those posted here , i wrote something up which i thought was strongly written and took councel with someone here on gye whose name shows up in different colors than mine( im being vague on purpose , i respect him and dont want his name belittled)and asked him if i can post something like this or is it too controversal, after i think a day, i got the ok,i still havent posted it yet,but im just saying i dont feel that im just shooting off my mouth without responsibility,and to stress the point , that person did not give me an ok for everything i write, just on that piece(im not saying he agreed ,) and on that piece im not saying it holds true for everyone,i dont think anything written  on this forum is for everyone,its not my way or the highway.anyway, if anyone else has an issue with what was written please feel free to pm  me .Hatzlacha to all.

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  to all my friends who heeded my request  to be so generous and give me a negative karma  for the sake of me acquiring       
                                                . humility ,i humbly  thank you                                                                                                 

Last Edit: 25 Jan 2018 03:29 by ieeyc.

Re: Introducing Myself - "Nerdy" 25 Jan 2018 03:33 #325948

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ieeyc wrote on 25 Jan 2018 01:06:

Markz wrote on 24 Jan 2018 18:36:

ieeyc wrote on 24 Jan 2018 18:07:

tzomah wrote on 23 Jan 2018 10:53:
was there sa in the times of the gemaroh

i think so but i think it was called someone who was caught  "  be`yad    yitzro" hes in the hands of his yetzer hara , i can quote such a lashon,if anyone wants,

nowadays theripists wont mention yetzer hara  since they deny that there is such a thing as yetzer hara


Hi ieeyc

We are here to support each other and need to be extra careful with what we write.

Negativity is not appreciated. This last post and some other recent ones have not been nice. Deleting them doesn't do anything. I'm subscribed to all posts.

If your perception of therapists and other people is negative, you gotta look within

There are a lot of suffering people here on gye that need help and want help and do not need to hear negative comments about therapist which they may be considering, moreover the comment was totally baseless

It's hard for me to share my personal story here, but I do it and wouldn't be where I am today with such great support without it

I realize it maybe hard for you to share your story, but until then I think you should take a brake from the forum.

When you create a new thread with your story and people get to know you better, hopefully your participation here will be different and much improved.

With my love

Mark

thank you trouble and heemircha ,i dont think there is any problem here, i respect markz and hes certainly entitled to his opinion,BUT,so am i ,and time will calm any friction if theres any, it happens to be before i started writing my opinions that may be different than those posted here , i wrote something up which i thought was strongly written and took councel with someone here on gye whose name shows up in different colors than mine( im being vague on purpose , i respect him and dont want his name belittled)and asked him if i can post something like this or is it too controversal, after i think a day, i got the ok,i still havent posted it yet,but im just saying i dont feel that im just shooting off my mouth without responsibility,and to stress the point , that person did not give me an ok for everything i write, just on that piece(im not saying he agreed ,) and on that piece im not saying it holds true for everyone,i dont think anything written  on this forum is for everyone,its not my way or the highway.anyway, if anyone else has an issue with what was written please feel free to pm  me .Hatzlacha to all.

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Re: Introducing Myself - "Nerdy" 25 Jan 2018 04:01 #325950

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markz wrote:
If you write your comment in PMs you'll get pm's and if you write on the forum you accept to get a response on the forum
i was  just offering if anyone was intimidated by a rumor that im a nasty and theyre nervous who knows what this guy will answer if they mention anything (there ARE some people who scare people off from commenting,im not saying names  if people could figure out  who im talking about, well those people who answer nasty have themselves to blame)please be my guest and pm  me , in my krumer kop it sounded like a friendlyoffer.

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  to all my friends who heeded my request  to be so generous and give me a negative karma  for the sake of me acquiring       
                                                . humility ,i humbly  thank you                                                                                                 

Re: Introducing Myself - "Nerdy" 25 Jan 2018 04:37 #325951

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ineedanewheart wrote on 25 Jan 2018 03:39:
another gye  rule?

So I got this post in email a few minutes ago which seems to have been deleted.

Ieeyc and absent I wonder why

Also I was wondering how Reb Avrom Cordnoys karma dropped 15 points, 3 in one hour. It's a good thing you didn't have a 4th username or Cordnoy would be back to a regular guy

He's not. He's helped countless people here guys and gals achieve sexual sobriety, me too. If you don't like him it's fine to minus 1 point, but non stop?

However you miss the whole point of Guard Your Eyes. What are you doing here?
Do you struggle with **** or ******** or plain old ****

C'mon ieeyc PLEASE join the chevra and stop sulking on the sidelines
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Re: Introducing Myself - "Nerdy" 25 Jan 2018 06:07 #325955

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{this post was being written as some one was doing some smart detective work , i submitted it under the name of ineedanewheart and realized my blunder (Hashems way of telling me to stop it)after i deleted it, i saw markz s discovery, and felt hyprocital to post my story,the only reaon why i am posting is because markz would probably post it anyway with my username ineed etc,and be made like a bigger fool in public,the exposure  could have been done in a nicer , private way , an apology could have been made behind the scenes and hush hush , but Hashem  planned otherwise so ill complain about my misbehavior instead of other peoples lack of tact, so i decided to post it myself , after this scandel i dont think there is anything to learn from my story.} 
(sorry everybody)

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  to all my friends who heeded my request  to be so generous and give me a negative karma  for the sake of me acquiring       
                                                . humility ,i humbly  thank you                                                                                                 

Last Edit: 26 Jan 2018 02:07 by ieeyc.

Re: Introducing Myself - "Nerdy" 25 Jan 2018 06:35 #325956

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Markz wrote on 25 Jan 2018 04:37:
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ineedanewheart wrote on 25 Jan 2018 03:39:
another gye  rule?

So I got this post in email a few minutes ago which seems to have been deleted.

Ieeyc and absent I wonder why

Also I was wondering how Reb Avrom Cordnoys karma dropped 15 points, 3 in one hour. It's a good thing you didn't have a 4th username or Cordnoy would be back to a regular guy

He's not. He's helped countless people here guys and gals achieve sexual sobriety, me too. If you don't like him it's fine to minus 1 point, but non stop?

However you miss the whole point of Guard Your Eyes. What are you doing here?
Do you struggle with **** or ******** or plain old ****

C'mon ieeyc PLEASE join the chevra and stop sulking on the sidelines

ok guys the jig is up ,caught red handed, i was just giving someone what i thought they deserved,i felt cordnoy wasnt speaking  nice at all many times,intimidating etc. but i guess that Hashem was not happy with what i was doing the way it was done, and blew my cover.i regret the way i went about it although i learnt from someone ,wont mention his name.giving like 10 karmas to someone one after the other,ill have to look it up.my user names   are ieeyc,absent,and ineedanewheart, when i made these names it was not with the intention of dekarmanizing  anyone , but once i had them it was too tempting to fight .ill speak to the administrator to remove the other two names and remain with ieeyc,i apologize to you cordony  for this underhanded trick ,i should have came out with my dissatifaction with you openly.i hope this will be behind us  and go foward with recovery.ieeyc.

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  to all my friends who heeded my request  to be so generous and give me a negative karma  for the sake of me acquiring       
                                                . humility ,i humbly  thank you                                                                                                 

Re: Introducing Myself - "Nerdy" 25 Jan 2018 07:39 #325957

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ieeyc or ineedanewheart wrote (im not sure myself):
thank you trouble and heemircha ,i dont think there is any problem here, i respect markz and hes certainly entitled to his opinion,BUT,so am i ,and time will calm any friction if theres any, it happens to be before i started writing my opinions that may be different than those posted here , i wrote something up which i thought was strongly written and took councel with someone here on gye whose name shows up in different colors than mine( im being vague on purpose , i respect him and dont want his name belittled)and asked him if i can post something like this or is it too controversal, after i think a day, i got the ok,i still havent posted it yet,but im just saying i dont feel that im just shooting off my mouth without responsibility,and to stress the point , that person did not give me an ok for everything i write, just on that piece(im not saying he agreed ,) and on that piece im not saying it holds true for everyone,i dont think anything written  on this forum is for everyone,its not my way or the highway.anyway, if anyone else has an issue with what was written please feel free to pm  me .Hatzlacha to all.

markz wrote:
If you write your comment in PMs you'll get pm's and if you write on the forum you accept to get a response on the forum

ineedanewusername wrote:another gye  rule?

ieeyc wrote--
markz wrote:
If you write your comment in PMs you'll get pm's and if you write on the forum you accept to get a response on the forum
i was  just offering if anyone was intimidated by a rumor that im a nasty and theyre nervous who knows what this guy will answer if they mention anything (there ARE some people who scare people off from commenting,im not saying names  if people could figure out  who im talking about, well those people who answer nasty have themselves to blame)please be my guest and pm  me , in my krumer kop it sounded like a friendlyoffer.



(just for the record , as you can see ,someone else was acting a little nasty)

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  to all my friends who heeded my request  to be so generous and give me a negative karma  for the sake of me acquiring       
                                                . humility ,i humbly  thank you                                                                                                 

Last Edit: 25 Jan 2018 07:50 by ieeyc.

Re: Introducing Myself - "Nerdy" 25 Jan 2018 08:38 #325959

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Re: Introducing Myself - "Nerdy" 25 Jan 2018 12:05 #325963

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thank you markz for keeping this place safe and happy
thank you cordnoy for many of us owe lots of our recovery to you myself incl.
many of us wait with bated breath for your posts sometimes i can't stop myself from chuckling 
your honesty is mechayev us all
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Re: Introducing Myself - "Nerdy" 25 Jan 2018 13:09 #325967

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one thing i take out of this is what chazal say,whoever sins in private,his sins will be made public ):

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  to all my friends who heeded my request  to be so generous and give me a negative karma  for the sake of me acquiring       
                                                . humility ,i humbly  thank you                                                                                                 

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And what i take out of it is even the people who were "attacked" are welcoming you with open arms and making themselves available to assist you in breaking free. I think that is incredible. My advice - take advantage of their offer to put the past behind you and pick up the phone and call the chevra here - iyh you will join them in recovery.
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