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Hi - Unsure of Everything 24 Aug 2016 07:51 #294304

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This is very new to me. I am not sure what is expected of me. I think the 'Covenant Eyes' accountability plan has helped. My wife is a great support to me, but I know she is struggling to come to terms with the fact that I have this problem.

Re: Hi - Unsure of Everything 24 Aug 2016 11:11 #294305

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Welcome,
Nothing is expected of you from us.
Question is: what do you want?
If it's recovery, then peruse the site, see what speaks to you.

B'hatzlachah on your journey of life.
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Re: Hi - Unsure of Everything 24 Aug 2016 12:26 #294309

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What is "this" problem? 

I think for me I had to decide what I expected from myself. A life of being defined by other people's expectations just wasn't working for me. Actually I think that may be one of my biggest problems. By defining myself by other people's expectations I had to hide from them when I felt I wasn't living up to those expectations.  Hiding is definitely not a good thing for my sobriety. So I need to thank you for helping me see that. Yasher Koach. 
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Re: Hi - Unsure of Everything 24 Aug 2016 12:41 #294311

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TonyE wrote on 24 Aug 2016 07:51:
This is very new to me. I am not sure what is expected of me. I think the 'Covenant Eyes' accountability plan has helped. My wife is a great support to me, but I know she is struggling to come to terms with the fact that I have this problem.

I have 'Covenant Eyes' reporting system in place since February 2007 and it has helped me partially
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