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many years of suffering! 24 Jan 2016 22:23 #275354

gyen2015 OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 1 Karma: 1	I'm 30 years old with a family. Used the taphsik method and it helped for almost 2 month... and then I had no choice and brook the shvoa. It's uncomfortable what do I do next??

Re: many years of suffering! 24 Jan 2016 22:31 #275355

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Re: many years of suffering! 24 Jan 2016 22:47 #275357

Markz OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 8292 Karma: 427	Check cordnoys signature, and try join his daily call I feel for you, I'm also afraid myself of relying solely on the Taphsic idea for 2 reasons Can I trust myself? No It means I'm assuming I'll be meeting be YH in the ring, and I'd rather not, so... Krank on the Truck!
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Re: many years of suffering! 24 Jan 2016 23:04 #275359

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gyen2015 wrote:

I'm 30 years old with a family. Used the taphsik method and it helped for almost 2 month... and then I had no choice and brook the shvoa.

It's uncomfortable what do I do next??

Share a little more about your story in general and people may be able to relate to your story with advice and what worked for them.

Also see cordnoy and markz's signatures, advice, input and posts. They have a wealth of wisdom and experience.

Re: many years of suffering! 24 Jan 2016 23:14 #275360

shteeble OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 2024 Karma: 30	Welcome to GYE. The GYE Handbook is a great place to start. The link is below. Hatzlocha!
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Re: many years of suffering! 25 Jan 2016 01:10 #275370

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gyen2015 wrote:

I'm 30 years old with a family. Used the taphsik method and it helped for almost 2 month... and then I had no choice and brook the shvoa.

It's uncomfortable what do I do next??

Welcome.
The expression "no choice" is a bit confusing to me. Do you mind explaining what you mean by that?

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Re: many years of suffering! 25 Jan 2016 02:21 #275374

shlomo24 Current streak: 2 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 2213 Karma: 135	I would like to chime in on the no choice thing also. I know that for me I have no choice, I am powerless over lust. It's not a decision on my part.
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Re: many years of suffering! 25 Jan 2016 05:13 #275388

BenTorah.BaalHabayis OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 321 Karma: 12	Welcome to GYE! You've come to the right place as many people have been helped here. A good place to start is the GYE Handbook as well as become an active participant in the forums. Breaking out of isolation and expressing yourself is a huge step towards recovery! Hatzlacha!
	Feel free to email me at BenTorah.BaalHabayis@gmail.com 1 day may be too long for me, but I take it OWAAT = One wave at a time, cause the lust comes and goes like a wave which rises and crashes.

Re: many years of suffering! 27 Jan 2016 20:41 #275668

gibbor120 OFFLINE Platinum Boarder NEVER EVER GIVE UP! Posts: 5251 Karma: 166	Welcome! Read the handbook. Keep posting. Taphsic is only one tool. Maybe it's time to try something else.
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