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new member 17 Jan 2016 16:17 #274555

jeffreal OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 13 Karma: 3	Hi I just joined. I'm not sure where to start Cld anyone help??

Re: new member 17 Jan 2016 16:26 #274557

shteeble OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 2024 Karma: 30	Hi! Welcome to GYE! You can start by reading the GYE Handbook. You can download it here: handbook Also, post a little bit about your situation here, so people can start relating and helping. Just keep out info that might put your anonymity at risk. Good luck!
	some of my threads

Re: new member 17 Jan 2016 16:26 #274558

BenTorah.BaalHabayis
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Welcome to GYE. You may want to share your story so people here can point you in the right direction. Don't be ashamed to share your struggles - you joined a wonderful chevra of non judgemental people who can all relate to your struggle from their own experiences.
A good place to start is reading the GYE Handbook and participating in the forum discussions.
I'm hoping we can get to know you better (anonymously of course).
Hatzlacha!

Feel free to email me at BenTorah.BaalHabayis@gmail.com

1 day may be too long for me, but I take it OWAAT = One wave at a time, cause the lust comes and goes like a wave which rises and crashes.

Re: new member 17 Jan 2016 16:36 #274561

Markz OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 8292 Karma: 427	Welcome! Fill up your truck, and let the wheels spin!
	My Story---------Dov Quotes *FREE LUST TRUCK TOWING* *Click HERE to checkout;* • 100 Day Success Stories: cordnoy, Dov, Gevura and more... • Awesome Threads Saved for You • Cast Your Vote ➣ GYE Plenty Solutions ➣ The Mark of Torah - Lust Chizuk ➣ Nice Trucking Story

Re: new member 17 Jan 2016 17:42 #274566

cordnoy
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Welcome,

Lookin' forward......

B'hatzlachah

My email: thenewme613@hotmail.com
My threads: Mikvah Night - Page 1, Page 2, Page 3, Last Page

https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/1-Break-Free/210029-Tryin

Warning: Spoiler!

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Re: new member 17 Jan 2016 18:45 #274584

jeffreal
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Thnx for the support!!!
My story goes as follows.
I've been watching porn and mastrobating for at least 6 and a half years I've tried to break out of it on my own at least a dozen times but kept on falling in to the cycle again and again

It got to a point that my social life is getting ruined. I'm taken over by feelings of guilt
That's why I decided to come here and hopefully start climbing out of the mess I'm in!!

Re: new member 17 Jan 2016 18:46 #274585

cordnoy
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What have you done to try to stop?

My email: thenewme613@hotmail.com
My threads: Mikvah Night - Page 1, Page 2, Page 3, Last Page

https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/1-Break-Free/210029-Tryin

Warning: Spoiler!

Re: new member 17 Jan 2016 18:50 #274586

jeffreal OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 13 Karma: 3	Nothing professional just on my own But that didn't rearly last...

Re: new member 17 Jan 2016 18:57 #274590

shlomo24 Current streak: 2 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 2213 Karma: 135	What did you do by yourself to try to stop? What are some examples of things that didn't work?
	If you're an LGBTQ or LGBTQ-questioning person and looking for someone who can understand you, feel free to reach out. I promise no judgement and to try and listen the best I can. Email: iam24zman@gmail.com

Re: new member 17 Jan 2016 19:19 #274596

jeffreal OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 13 Karma: 3	What I mean when I write "on my own" it means stopping out of guilt That I know I'm going against hashems will. Especially after I saw what some seforim write about masturbation. and it was eating me up inside. But after a few days at most my temptation overcame me and I just did it

Re: new member 17 Jan 2016 19:22 #274597

shlomo24
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jeffreal wrote:

What I mean when I write "on my own"
it means stopping out of guilt That I know I'm going against hashems will. Especially after I saw what some seforim write about masturbation.
and it was eating me up inside. But after a few days at most my temptation overcame me and I just did it

I feel for you. I have definitely been there. But I promise you that there's a light at the end of the tunnel.

If you're an LGBTQ or LGBTQ-questioning person and looking for someone who can understand you, feel free to reach out. I promise no judgement and to try and listen the best I can.

Email: iam24zman@gmail.com

Re: new member 17 Jan 2016 19:24 #274599

Markz OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 8292 Karma: 427	Welcome to the club, i was in the same boat
	My Story---------Dov Quotes *FREE LUST TRUCK TOWING* *Click HERE to checkout;* • 100 Day Success Stories: cordnoy, Dov, Gevura and more... • Awesome Threads Saved for You • Cast Your Vote ➣ GYE Plenty Solutions ➣ The Mark of Torah - Lust Chizuk ➣ Nice Trucking Story

Re: new member 17 Jan 2016 19:35 #274603

jeffreal OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 13 Karma: 3	Cld u help me How do I take the first step to a healthy recovery?!

Re: new member 17 Jan 2016 19:43 #274608

Markz OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 8292 Karma: 427	Step one - install a GPS in your truck If you get stuck, give a honk!!!
	My Story---------Dov Quotes *FREE LUST TRUCK TOWING* *Click HERE to checkout;* • 100 Day Success Stories: cordnoy, Dov, Gevura and more... • Awesome Threads Saved for You • Cast Your Vote ➣ GYE Plenty Solutions ➣ The Mark of Torah - Lust Chizuk ➣ Nice Trucking Story Last Edit: 17 Jan 2016 19:52 by Markz. Reason: beep nisht

Re: new member 17 Jan 2016 19:52 #274609

wantoimprove Current streak: 8 days OFFLINE Senior Boarder Posts: 61 Karma: 4	Jeffreal, it seems you've taken the first step: you're here! I agree, start with the GYE Handbook. Keep us posted. B'hatzlacha.