Where did he go?

The forum is a great place, but make sure it's helping you out of the deep.



So grab onto the ropes that will get you real sober and keep on touch. Deal?

I will, except I'm on my working PC and I gotta make sure I do my work and not spend too much time here.

​I indeed need an accountability partner. Ein apitrupis l'arayis.

​And I'm not familiar with the smurfs. 

And your previous image didn't seem to come up right.

I had an interesting thought (well, interesting to me at least).

In the olden days we needed mussar sfarim and sifrei chassidus to tell us why ta'avos is bad and it is not good for us.

However, today's days we need no explanation, it is pretty clear to everyone, especially people on this site, that it is destructive and devastating to go after ta'avos. What we need is chizzuk and ideas on how to avoid it and fight it.

Mesayin wrote on 01 Sep 2017 16:33:

tis inerestin, but I wonder if it's really so clear to us............

Had two falls yesterday after 6 days clean. I feel like I am progressing though.

I got a number of someone who can help me with this issue and be an accountability partner, I'm just to embarrassed to talk to people about this and I keep on pushing off calling him.

The first phone call may be rough to initiate but after that you probably wont hesitate when you see how helpful a phone call is. Put aside your shame, pick up the phone and call.

Phone calls have helped me considerably from getting out of my head and into the light. Sometimes when i cant really think straight i call a friend and it helps me to clear my head into deciding what i should do. 

If you want to add more people to your list of people you arent calling  you can email me: dms1234ongye@gmail.com

Thanks for all the responses but but when I think about calling someone I start to go like this: 

I hear. 

My sponsor told me to "ask God for the willingness to" Anything i dont want to do like God, please give me the willingness to call my partner" 

Also sometimes, you just have to pick up the phone and dial. Even if you dont want to. 

Or send me or anyone else your; # and we'll call you  

i hear how hard it is to make that phone call ive had similar instances
remember this might be the hishtadlus hashem wants from you
when you make that phone call you can be mechaven to do a mitzvah

Mesayin wrote on 12 May 2017 17:17:

see, that joke is deeper then you thought. It wasn't a mistake!

stillgoing wrote on 15 Mar 2018 22:00:

Proof that some spoilers should be clicked on.

Mesayin wrote on 24 Aug 2017 14:58:

This is a thought provoking post.

Wow.

I haven't been to this site in a couple of years.

I've been struggling with Z"L since I last came here and I even fell for some real bad shmutz within the last couple of years (I don't think I'm addicted though)

I just went through my posts and I was on fire! I wish I had the same fire today as I appeared to have back then. I was so full of Chizzuk and motivation (although, it might have just been my good days).

Being back on the site for a couple of days has really got me thinking of how much I should get back in my truck, I should view my struggles as an opportunity to get closer to Hashem.

Baruch Hashem I am in contact with Hashem Help Me. I believe one of the main reasons I struggle is because I have had no one to talk to about it (The person I spoke to a few years ago passed away r"l). Hopefully speaking with Hashem Help Me will help me further.

Markz, Cordnoy, the rest of you. It looked like I enjoyed conversing with you back then. Hopefully we can converse further