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hello 21 Sep 2015 04:32 #264252

goodchange613 Current streak: 16 days OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 98 Karma: 9	hello everybody and a gmar chasimah toivah to all. iv'e been clean for a full week and it feels so good! just the way i wanted to start the new year. just hoping and davening that with the resources and support from gye it will last.

Re: hello 21 Sep 2015 04:36 #264253

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Congrats on a great week!

With Yom Kippur this week, and Sukkos next, your schedule will likely be different than usual (and the Yetzer Hora loves to attack after Yom Kippur when we are feeling nice and clean).

Maybe take a few minutes to think back to previous years and strategize how to handle the change so you are prepared (and as I type that, I'm making a mental note to do the same... it's one of the reasons posting here is so valuable. We are all better at giving advice to others than to ourselves, but sometimes once it's typed, we end up reading it and realize we should probably do so outselves

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Re: hello 21 Sep 2015 04:43 #264255

goodchange613 Current streak: 16 days OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 98 Karma: 9	wow thanks for the reply, really makes me feel connected. yeah i just started the 90 days seeing how people have gone for YEARS without a fall is so inspiring. hoping that will be me in good time!!

Re: hello 21 Sep 2015 04:54 #264256

goodchange613 Current streak: 16 days OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 98 Karma: 9	a bit of history: -23 married for 3 years with a beautiful 2 year old daughter -saw porn for the first time at 20 ( amazing how i've never forgotten that first time) -was pretty good up till this past year when i started masturbating and really looking at lots of filth that's basically it, b'h i discovered this site so quickly and I'm hoping to turn things around You guys are amazing

Re: hello 21 Sep 2015 10:37 #264283

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Welcome
Great news!
Keep it up!

B'hatzlachah

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Re: hello 21 Sep 2015 17:38 #264340

AlexEliezer OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1933 Karma: 55	That's kinda a unique story, starting at age 20. Baruch Hashem you now have the tools at your disposal to release yourself from this prison. I find it helpful to look at each nisayon, each temptation, as the only thing I have to deal with. I just have to get through this. It happens to be the truth. Much hatzlocha!

Re: hello 21 Sep 2015 17:58 #264342

abd297 OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 282 Karma: 12	Welcome. You show great strength by seeking out help from others. It took me years to finally convince myself to get help. Immerse yourself in all the resources you can. Find what works for you. Good luck! Keep us posted.
	Let Hashem Do His Job! We need to jump off the conveyor belt of life and walk on our own. You cannot make yourself feel something you do not feel, but you can make yourself do right in spite of your feelings. Life begins at the end of your comfort zone.

Re: hello 21 Sep 2015 18:13 #264348

goodchange613 Current streak: 16 days OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 98 Karma: 9	thank you all so much for the kind words! I can't tell you all how much this support here has boosted my feeling as being part of a community all working to the same goal. It's amazing how a few words from you guys really strengthens my resolve not to slip, it's like they say how the bad thrives in the dark, well these forums are an amazing light for me.

Re: hello 25 Sep 2015 19:51 #264700

goodchange613 Current streak: 16 days OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 98 Karma: 9	made it 10 days!

Re: hello 25 Sep 2015 19:57 #264701

AlexEliezer OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1933 Karma: 55	too awesome!

Re: hello 25 Sep 2015 20:00 #264703

abd297 OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 282 Karma: 12	Mazel Tov! Just keep pushing one day at a time.
	Let Hashem Do His Job! We need to jump off the conveyor belt of life and walk on our own. You cannot make yourself feel something you do not feel, but you can make yourself do right in spite of your feelings. Life begins at the end of your comfort zone.

Re: hello 27 Sep 2015 03:45 #264748

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Welcome and hatzlacha!

Much Hatzlacha!

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--"If, when you honestly want to, you find you cannot quit entirely, or if when drinking (or lusting), you have little control over the amount you take, you are probably alcoholic (or sexaholic)." AA Big Book P. 45. Parenthesis added.
--You hit rock bottom when you decide to stop digging.

Re: hello 27 Sep 2015 05:36 #264765

goodchange613 Current streak: 16 days OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 98 Karma: 9	Thanks for the support! I wanted to wish a chag kasher vsameach, a beautiful, clean and spiritually uplifting yom tov to everyone! You guys are the best

Re: hello 27 Sep 2015 18:05 #264814

Markz NOW ONLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 8259 Karma: 428	GC613 You're trucking great vrrrrrooooom! Can you share what tools you are finding are most beneficial to your 'healing'. What cranks your big rig? GYT!!
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Re: hello 27 Sep 2015 19:09 #264818

goodchange613 Current streak: 16 days OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 98 Karma: 9	thanks markz could be it's just being new here, but for me just hanging around on the forums and feeling connected has been the biggest help. Im also doing the 90 days which is a great motivator. On to day 13!