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TOPIC: Big Steps 149676 Views
Re: Big Steps 03 May 2016 18:07 #286498
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cordnoy wrote on 03 May 2016 18:02:
Great stuff Shlomo. I wasn't completely sure about the last paragraph though, but that's fine as well. You have one heck of a healthy attitude. Thanks. I'm not sure either. 
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Re: Big Steps 03 May 2016 18:52 #286505
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Shlomo24 wrote on 03 May 2016 18:07:
cordnoy wrote on 03 May 2016 18:02: Great stuff Shlomo. I wasn't completely sure about the last paragraph though, but that's fine as well. You have one heck of a healthy attitude. Thanks. I'm not sure either. Do i need to quote the exact email? I still have it. |
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BIG SHOT!
Free Choice?! Yirai's Memories STORY TIME :) Dr. Seuss - You have brains in your head. You have feet in your shoes. You can steer yourself in any direction you choose. You're on your own, and you know what you know. And you are the guy who'll decide where to go. FSKOT! (Fell Shmell--Keep on Trucking) (The Rebba R' Bards) 613stillgoing@gmail.com |
Re: Big Steps 03 May 2016 19:13 #286509
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Shlomo24 wrote on 03 May 2016 17:02:
3) SSA isn't my problem because God has decided that I should gain attraction for women. My attraction is steadily growing and believe me I am not trying to facilitate that. I may even be actively NOT letting it facilitate. I'm quite comfortable with my attractions, we are old buddies. I am used to this and I like it, it's a homey place for me. I do find that the more I distance from SSA the stronger my sexual attractions to women are. I was in a point where I didn't lust after women at all, I just had the attraction, but now I need to be a little bit more careful. I am still grossed out by the prospect of watching heterosexual porn, I don't think women should be portrayed that way and I don't believe that any woman REALLY want to be a pornstar, as much as the liberal media will say otherwise. I am not, however, grossed out about sex with a woman, which I used to be. (And that is also for a slew of reasons). A woman in a gorgeous dress may be triggering, although for the most part they are not. I do objectify woman a lot though, probably the same I do with everybody. On the weekly ssa calls with jonathen, he explains (in his understanding) ssa is attraction (a longing to have somthing from the other person, non-sexual) combined with lust. If one would lessen that need to get something, one would still be left with the plain regular lust issue that so many on gye have. If you're now dealing with women issues, it sounds like you're doing good work in the ssa department, but watch out, most people here will tell that lusting (even for women) aint no picnic. 
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BIG SHOT!
Free Choice?! Yirai's Memories STORY TIME :) Dr. Seuss - You have brains in your head. You have feet in your shoes. You can steer yourself in any direction you choose. You're on your own, and you know what you know. And you are the guy who'll decide where to go. FSKOT! (Fell Shmell--Keep on Trucking) (The Rebba R' Bards) 613stillgoing@gmail.com |
Re: Big Steps 04 May 2016 02:36 #286580
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Re: Big Steps 04 May 2016 02:53 #286587
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BIG SHOT!
Free Choice?! Yirai's Memories STORY TIME :) Dr. Seuss - You have brains in your head. You have feet in your shoes. You can steer yourself in any direction you choose. You're on your own, and you know what you know. And you are the guy who'll decide where to go. FSKOT! (Fell Shmell--Keep on Trucking) (The Rebba R' Bards) 613stillgoing@gmail.com |
Re: Big Steps 04 May 2016 02:54 #286588
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English is not my native language (Hebrew is)
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Re: Big Steps 04 May 2016 02:56 #286590
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My Story---------Dov Quotes
➣ The Mark of Torah - Lust Chizuk ➣ Nice Trucking Story |
Re: Big Steps 04 May 2016 03:48 #286591
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Re: Big Steps 04 May 2016 04:07 #286592
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If you're an LGBTQ or LGBTQ-questioning person and looking for someone who can understand you, feel free to reach out. I promise no judgement and to try and listen the best I can.
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Re: Big Steps 04 May 2016 04:12 #286593
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Re: Big Steps 04 May 2016 04:31 #286594
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Yesod wrote on 04 May 2016 03:48:
stillgoing wrote on 04 May 2016 02:53: Yesod wrote on 04 May 2016 02:36: Uhuh, you'd better bet You see men walking around in mini skirts? The men walk around topless. It's alot worse. Hehe That was a setup  |
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BIG SHOT!
Free Choice?! Yirai's Memories STORY TIME :) Dr. Seuss - You have brains in your head. You have feet in your shoes. You can steer yourself in any direction you choose. You're on your own, and you know what you know. And you are the guy who'll decide where to go. FSKOT! (Fell Shmell--Keep on Trucking) (The Rebba R' Bards) 613stillgoing@gmail.com |
Re: Big Steps 04 May 2016 04:34 #286595
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BIG SHOT!
Free Choice?! Yirai's Memories STORY TIME :) Dr. Seuss - You have brains in your head. You have feet in your shoes. You can steer yourself in any direction you choose. You're on your own, and you know what you know. And you are the guy who'll decide where to go. FSKOT! (Fell Shmell--Keep on Trucking) (The Rebba R' Bards) 613stillgoing@gmail.com |
Re: Big Steps 05 May 2016 06:30 #286722
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If you're an LGBTQ or LGBTQ-questioning person and looking for someone who can understand you, feel free to reach out. I promise no judgement and to try and listen the best I can.
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Re: Big Steps 05 May 2016 19:42 #286811
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-"Все наши слова - пустой звук, если наше сердце не с нами"
-"есть око видят и ухо слышащее и все твои дела записываются в книгу |
Re: Big Steps 05 May 2016 20:42 #286817
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