Welcome - I hope you can find the package

sorry i seem to have introduced myself in the wrong forum i'm not yet an expert in figuring this out so here goes i'm married nearly 10 years have a few children i don't consider myself an addict as i wold have a couple of falls in sight only and even that at very spread out intervals so it really took me a while to realize i needed help i'm realy gratefull to hashem for sending me to this site and realy plan to hunker down full force thank you all you guys are realy great and supportive

Welcome to a great place. You will iyh get better here. Keep posting. Utilize all GYE has to offer and get to know the chevra here by reading the forums and interacting by responding. Hatzlocha.

Welcome!  Check out the handbook.  Keep posting.

Hi I think it's about time I reached out to do some thing like this and try to work on a problem that I have and that is watching porn and then to masturbate  thank you

its great to have you on board! keep on posting,there are lots of guys  here with lots of heart and ears and lots of great tried and proven ideas!

Yosef Dovid, welcome. It should be with hatzlocha. Keep posting. staying in touch is a major key to success b'ezras Hashem.

Yosef Dovid wrote on 09 Apr 2018 00:44:

Welcome! Looking forward to sharing in your journey of recovery.
Hatzlacha rabba!

grateful4life wrote on 11 Apr 2018 13:26:

I always put my days a few less than I have conquered, so that I have to reach for those days all ready earned, in of course the Almighty, for me it is 855+ days, never leave a moment without the Almighty, the days temptations can be so great, that only with the Almighty there this moment can we see what answers solve this moments time. I have visited these rooms often when I needed refreshment, and I do not leave until refreshed.

Thank you 

I unfortunately also have this problem and I’m lost what to do I’m scared when I get married it’s going to mess up my marriage please help me get trough this

Welcome. Stay connected and iyh the oilam here will help. Many guys join, pot, and vanish..... Maybe share a little what the challenges are

Hello.

I am in such a quandary. Indeed.

Is is such a sin to look at beautiful people doing beautiful activities?

Compared to the abusive, nasty, hateful things people do to each other!

I do go to a group of other men, and in this group, I hear them tell, in one case, a man, Tom (not really)
read the Sports Illustrated swimsuit magazine. He may have had some guilt, but whatever, call it a mild relapse!

OK, his wife of many years, Sandy, finds this magazine or finds him reading it, whatever....
Sandy has a tantrum, starting with (as Tom relates the story) 1- Sandy says how she will never be as attractive as them (of course, they are world class models, she is a 60 year old, attractive (in an age appropriate way)  ) and Sandy feels bad and insecure. But then it seems to get darker, as Sandy , with her insecurities, starts insulting Tom, that he is insensitive, and immoral, and insulting and more and more!

Before Sandy is done, she is on the verge of telling him, that if he finds them so attractive, he should go to the local strip club, and go rape pillage and plunder. She is just about to ask him to leave, and even call the cops on him, because maybe he is a pedophile or who knows what !!!!

Now, not to espouse any virtue to Tom for reading the Sports Illustrated magazine, but , seriously, who has the mental problem here?

Lord, save us!

Chaz

Chaz0matic wrote on 29 Jul 2018 19:05:

Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.

Chaz0matic wrote on 29 Jul 2018 19:05:

Hi Welcome,

Please start your own thread in order to help the conversation flow. Pick a topic, click on new thread and join us for the ride.

While you are at, I agree that Sandy's reaction might have been over the edge, however do you mind sharing Sandy's version of the story to explain what let her to the edge in the first place?