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TOPIC: Linkedin 5713 Views

Linkedin 15 Jan 2018 21:58 #325539

Hi everyone baruch hashem I'm 21 days clean. i have installed filters been posting a lot on GYE and have made a few friends who i keep in touch with. One of the tools i use a lot is Linkedin to be honest i don't think so far it really makes a difference in my job right now it's just a way for me to waste time and maybe in the future it might be helpful. but while browsing the feed i do sometimes take a double look at girls profile pictures baruch hashem just that but i will like to stop even that. How have fellow GYE members dealt with Linkedin? If i delete my profile i will lose all my endorsment's ETC? 
I Baruch Hashem got rid of Whatsapp right when i started my current streak and i also was pretty scared but baruch hashem i've had 0 regrets since then to be honest it's been quite liberating not getting tonz of trash so maybe i should do the same with Linkedin? Looking for some thoughts on the topic! 

Love Yankel
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Re: Linkedin 16 Jan 2018 02:16 #325546

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I prefer we stick to 1 thread, and discuss this in your thread...
In meanwhile...

I have linkedin which can be a good thing, and I check it on rare occasion (maybe I don't update it enough...). But why would you need to be on it regularly?
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Re: Linkedin 16 Jan 2018 02:59 #325547

You are 100% right i don't need to check it regularly, it's just by work I'm in front of a computer the entire day and since a lot of days i find myself pretty bored i end up going on LinkedIn to waste some time. So what ends up happening is either i'm logged into the GYE forum or LinkedIn it's one of the problems with my job that i have a lot of free time  
Important quote from Cordnoy
"The need is a perceived one. There has not been one reported case on these pages of a death occurrin' on account of not fulfillin' that need

“I avoid looking forward or backward, and try to keep looking upward.” 

"My recovery must come first so that everything I love in life doesn’t have to come last."

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Re: Linkedin 16 Jan 2018 03:03 #325548

@markz you are right next time i'll put it on my thread but for this time i already opened up a new thread......... i'm sorry for cluttering the threads.

:peace:Yankel
Important quote from Cordnoy
"The need is a perceived one. There has not been one reported case on these pages of a death occurrin' on account of not fulfillin' that need

“I avoid looking forward or backward, and try to keep looking upward.” 

"My recovery must come first so that everything I love in life doesn’t have to come last."

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Re: Linkedin 16 Jan 2018 03:24 #325550

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iampowerless wrote on 16 Jan 2018 02:59:
You are 100% right i don't need to check it regularly, it's just by work I'm in front of a computer the entire day and since a lot of days i find myself pretty bored i end up going on LinkedIn to waste some time. So what ends up happening is either i'm logged into the GYE forum or LinkedIn it's one of the problems with my job that i have a lot of free time  

Many of us have this problem... Our bosses need to stop wasting their time, get their act together, and press the overload button
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Re: Linkedin 16 Jan 2018 03:28 #325551

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By the way - have you started listening to record songs of Dov calls?

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You're not gonna be bored any longer ;-)
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Re: Linkedin 16 Jan 2018 03:44 #325552

I actually have been listening to them, i've been gaining a lot from them!
Important quote from Cordnoy
"The need is a perceived one. There has not been one reported case on these pages of a death occurrin' on account of not fulfillin' that need

“I avoid looking forward or backward, and try to keep looking upward.” 

"My recovery must come first so that everything I love in life doesn’t have to come last."

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Re: Linkedin 16 Jan 2018 07:38 #325562

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iampowerless wrote on 16 Jan 2018 02:59:
You are 100% right i don't need to check it regularly, it's just by work I'm in front of a computer the entire day and since a lot of days i find myself pretty bored i end up going on LinkedIn to waste some time. So what ends up happening is either i'm logged into the GYE forum or LinkedIn it's one of the problems with my job that i have a lot of free time  

I suspect the current work system is going to fail. Let's push a GYE initiative and implement
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Re: Linkedin 16 Jan 2018 16:40 #325576

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@yankel, why would have to delete your profile? Since you're going to LinkedIn when you're bored I assume you have a filter on your computer... Maybe check if you can block LinkedIn in & open it when you really need it?
i don't know what type of work you're doing & which filter you have but if you have tag & it's possible for you to block images with skin color I think it will be helpful.

Re: Linkedin 16 Jan 2018 16:44 #325577

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Markz wrote on 16 Jan 2018 02:16:
I prefer we stick to 1 thread, and discuss this in your thread...
In meanwhile...

I have linkedin which can be a good thing, and I check it on rare occasion (maybe I don't update it enough...). But why would you need to be on it regularly?

Markz, is it wrong to open a new thread once you're finished introducing yourself? Or open I thread about a general question not related to your specific struggle?

Re: Linkedin 16 Jan 2018 16:51 #325579

@youcan the problem i have with filters on my work computer is my work put their own filter on the computer which only blocks pornography, dating sites,Booking flights and news. I spoke to Tag and the problem is Tag's filters can't work together with my works filter. And my boss won't let me delete their filter and put Tag's instead (i already spoke to him about this) so therefore i installed KBA and webshadow (these are not filters just they see the websites i went on and give me a KNAS if i tried looking for something inappropriate just as an extra layer of shmira) so your solution won't really work! 
Important quote from Cordnoy
"The need is a perceived one. There has not been one reported case on these pages of a death occurrin' on account of not fulfillin' that need

“I avoid looking forward or backward, and try to keep looking upward.” 

"My recovery must come first so that everything I love in life doesn’t have to come last."

Feel free to reach out yd@guardyoureyes.org
732-646-5774

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Re: Linkedin 16 Jan 2018 16:52 #325580

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Re: Linkedin 16 Jan 2018 16:55 #325582

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iampowerless wrote on 16 Jan 2018 16:51:
@youcan the problem i have with filters on my work computer is my work put their own filter on the computer which only blocks pornography, dating sites,Booking flights and news. I spoke to Tag and the problem is Tag's filters can't work together with my works filter. And my boss won't let me delete their filter and put Tag's instead (i already spoke to him about this) so therefore i installed KBA and webshadow (these are not filters just they see the websites i went on and give me a KNAS if i tried looking for something inappropriate just as an extra layer of shmira) so your solution won't really work! 

Can you ask your work to add Social Media to the list of categories they block? A lot of companies already block that because it's a huge time-waster.
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"If it would be so easy there wouldn't be a GYE, but if it would be impossible there also wouldn't be a GYE."
"Sometimes a hard decision leads to an easier outcome."
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Re: Linkedin 16 Jan 2018 16:59 #325584

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iampowerless wrote on 16 Jan 2018 16:51:
@youcan the problem i have with filters on my work computer is my work put their own filter on the computer which only blocks pornography, dating sites,Booking flights and news. I spoke to Tag and the problem is Tag's filters can't work together with my works filter. And my boss won't let me delete their filter and put Tag's instead (i already spoke to him about this) so therefore i installed KBA and webshadow (these are not filters just they see the websites i went on and give me a KNAS if i tried looking for something inappropriate just as an extra layer of shmira) so your solution won't really work! 

Can you add LinkedIn to your webshadow or KBA list?

Re: Linkedin 16 Jan 2018 17:37 #325589

Nope, but i just downloaded a google chrome extension that hides skin so that helps this problem!

I'm glad g-d created solutions for all problems 
Important quote from Cordnoy
"The need is a perceived one. There has not been one reported case on these pages of a death occurrin' on account of not fulfillin' that need

“I avoid looking forward or backward, and try to keep looking upward.” 

"My recovery must come first so that everything I love in life doesn’t have to come last."

Feel free to reach out yd@guardyoureyes.org
732-646-5774

My Story
                   
Yankel's Daily Inspirational Quotes
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