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The SAFE NET Device Calendar 11 Apr 2016 22:25 #284326

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Thanks to stillgoing, here goes!!!

The "Safe Net" Device Calendar

This is a stress free knas based prevention idea (unlike Taphsic which only serves for emergency lust attacks)

It's open to be customized to your specific needs

Here's the guidelines which you can log on this thread

1- Determine your specific restriction, timing etc, and knas $Amt to pay to gye if you over-ride the device lock time

2- If you post to us here before surfing on your device during its restricted time, you can pre-determine a lower / minimal charge

I set this as a calendar because IMHO a dated plan is a practical commitment

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Last Edit: 12 Apr 2016 13:19 by Markz.

Re: The SAFE NET Device Calendar 11 Apr 2016 22:28 #284329

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Our first candidate!

Curtains!!!!

Aryeh821 wrote on 08 Apr 2016 20:35:

markz wrote:

My idea - only if it excites you

until your mothers device is filtered, install the "goodbye device calendar" app; meaning accept to pay GYE $2 each time you logon the device, any time of the day (unless you come first and discuss it with your friends right here)

What do you think

I like it lets do that thanks for the idea

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Re: The SAFE NET Device Calendar 11 Apr 2016 22:52 #284332

Markz OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 8259 Karma: 428	Can I join too? bln Until Pesach (outside of work) no random searching google images, not even to search for chametz, at the price of $5 to gye If I really need to e.g. for gye, I will mention it here for the discounted cost of $1
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Re: The SAFE NET Device Calendar 13 Apr 2016 04:39 #284451

Aryeh821 Current streak: 591 days OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 289 Karma: 8	Bln revised edition - Anytime I access a un-filtered device that is not on view of someone else without clearing it with the chevra 2$ given to tzedakah/GYE if emergency and the chevra is maskim post-fact that it was cdai only .50$ And it's running until May 1
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Re: The SAFE NET Device Calendar 15 Apr 2016 02:03 #284652

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markz wrote on 11 Apr 2016 22:52:

Can I join too?

bln Until Pesach (outside of work) no random searching google images, not even to search for chametz, at the price of $5 to gye

If I really need to e.g. for gye, I will mention it here for the discounted cost of $1

Alright Mark Zu, you inspire me. i too "bln Until Pesach (outside of work) no random searching google images, not even to search for chametz, at the price of $5 to gye" except that i'm including work in the issur, amd it goes untill AFTER pesach for me. Btw, whats concidered a 'random' search to you?

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Re: The SAFE NET Device Calendar 15 Apr 2016 02:17 #284653

Markz OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 8259 Karma: 428	Hey thanks for your inspiration!! Random search = eagle crash landed (someones avatar) And since I don't wish it upon you, the SAFE NET is a good idea, don't you think? btw I need to put overtime before passover, past the goodnight device time till 11sharp, which I'm updating my calendar to allow such extensions if I post (here or) on the good night blog Keep On Sky Divin'!!
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Re: The SAFE NET Device Calendar 15 Apr 2016 18:00 #284724

Markz OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 8259 Karma: 428	Since this thread is for broader ideas, here's another which I need for the good of myself and others There are some things I read online that are triggering, and I will try for the next week to totally ignore the impulse to be involved in those
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Re: The SAFE NET Device Calendar 17 Apr 2016 16:43 #284855

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markz wrote on 15 Apr 2016 18:00:

Since this thread is for broader ideas, here's another which I need for the good of myself and others

There are some things I read online that are triggering, and I will try for the next week to totally ignore the impulse to be involved in those

Mark, although I appreciate that you are keeping this thread active (who else would do it) what does your last post mean? ''will try for the next week to totally ignore the impulse to be involved in those''. Don't we all 'try' all the time. What are the parameters of 'breaking it'? Sounds vague.

Re: The SAFE NET Device Calendar 17 Apr 2016 16:46 #284857

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markz wrote on 15 Apr 2016 02:17:

Hey thanks for your inspiration!!

Random search = eagle crash landed (someones avatar)

And since I don't wish it upon you, the SAFE NET is a good idea, don't you think?

Keep On Sky Divin'!!

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Re: The SAFE NET Device Calendar 08 May 2016 23:00 #287197

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stillgoing wrote on 15 Apr 2016 02:03:

markz wrote on 11 Apr 2016 22:52:

Ok, so that commitment is up and I wish I had renewed it earlier, but better later then never.
Bl'N continuing it until lag b'omer, for the price of $10 each sitting.

Re: The SAFE NET Device Calendar 08 May 2016 23:02 #287199

stillgoing OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1700 Karma: 157	Aryeh821 wrote on 13 Apr 2016 04:39: Bln revised edition - Anytime I access a un-filtered device that is not on view of someone else without clearing it with the chevra 2$ given to tzedakah/GYE if emergency and the chevra is maskim post-fact that it was cdai only .50$ And it's running until May 1 Aryeh, it's 8 days into May. How are you doing? Any renewals?
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Re: The SAFE NET Device Calendar 10 May 2016 16:53 #287390

stillgoing OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1700 Karma: 157	My two most annoying things are seat belts and this "safe net calender" they won't let me move around where i want to. Grrr.
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Re: The SAFE NET Device Calendar 11 May 2016 02:47 #287428

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stillgoing wrote:

Aryeh821 wrote:

Bln revised edition - Anytime I access a un-filtered device that is not on view of someone else without clearing it with the chevra 2$ given to tzedakah/GYE
if emergency and the chevra is maskim post-fact that it was cdai only .50$
And it's running until May 1

Aryeh, it's 8 days into May. How are you doing? Any renewals?

Funnily enough AKA hashgacha pratis I wanted to check something up on my moms phone which would have ended badly but I'm like I can cause I got this but then I thought hey it's over and then I saw the post
so ya it's renewed until June 10 but knas is upped to 4$
Thanks for the reminder still

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Re: The SAFE NET Device Calendar 11 May 2016 12:51 #287472

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markz wrote on 11 Apr 2016 22:52:

This is an ongoing challenge

I don't goggle looking for Google images as an outlet. Rather there's an inspirational image I'm searching for, and all related images are shown

Why does google think that Porn is related to even the most innocent search???

So this is a more delicate challenge
I can't say Google Imaging is always bad

Which is why it's hard for me to say no forever

Therefore Im planning to take the mentioned commitment in small bites

The commitment restarts bln Today untill לג בעומר

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Re: The SAFE NET Device Calendar 11 May 2016 13:59 #287483

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Most filters have a setting to enforce strict safe search on Google Images (and other image search sites as well, depending on the filter). That should block out most of the bad stuff, but it's not perfect. There's a big gap between what "the world" considers inappropriate and what we need to avoid.

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