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Not sure where to start... 22 Dec 2015 14:33 #272045

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I'm new on this forum and have been struggling with porn addiction for a long time 9 yrs. every time I stay sober for a month I feel great but then fall in to a rut and can't seem to get out of it. I feel worthless and feel like sh*t any advice on where to start?!?
I'm married and have kid and worried this is affecting relationship and feeling really depressed I'm worried...

Re: Not sure where to start... 22 Dec 2015 14:50 #272046

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Re: Not sure where to start... 22 Dec 2015 14:56 #272047

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Welcome.
Many of us found that sharing our experiences and hearing those of others proved to be beneficial.
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Re: Not sure where to start... 22 Dec 2015 16:55 #272055

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How do I get up and start my day?? Zzzzzz

Re: Not sure where to start... 22 Dec 2015 16:57 #272056

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Welcome,

good start for today.
there is a wealth of information here.

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Re: Not sure where to start... 22 Dec 2015 17:01 #272058

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I know, a lot to read...

Re: Not sure where to start... 22 Dec 2015 17:02 #272059

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Oftentimes, writing is better than reading...
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My threads:
www.guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/236327-Bigmoish-tries-to-be-good
www.guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/236329-Bigmoishs-path-to-tahara

"We have met the enemy and he is us" - Pogo
"Expectation is the mother of frustration" - gibbor120
"Today, damn it! Today!" - cordnoy
"Desiring is not a sin at all, but just a sign that you are not dead yet" - Dov
"We are our own worst observer" - eslaasos's therapist
WDHW!!!

Re: Not sure where to start... 22 Dec 2015 19:09 #272078

Chazg wrote:
How do I get up and start my day?? Zzzzzz

Welcome! I can relate to this very much. I'm feeling so tired cause I haven't had my coffee today...
On a more serious note, you are really not alone with this struggle and you have joined a great chevra here. You'll receive lots of warmth and encouragement if you take time to write and share your feelings. Hatzlacha!
Feel free to email me at BenTorah.BaalHabayis@gmail.com

1 day may be too long for me, but I take it OWAAT = One wave at a time, cause the lust comes and goes like a wave which rises and crashes.

Re: Not sure where to start... 22 Dec 2015 19:52 #272083

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Read the handbook. Check out some links in my signature. Dov quotes is good. Dr sorotzkin is good. keep posting.

Re: Not sure where to start... 22 Dec 2015 21:25 #272095

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WELCOME!
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