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Filtered Device - Blog. See 1st post 19 Aug 2015 20:09 #262276

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Here's the plan
In this group, logging on any filtered device that has 1% possible access to inappropriate websites / apps, late at night is not practiced.

  • Choose 10, 10:30 or 11pm. Any important use can usually be done after 5am when we are in a clearer frame of mind.
  • Any device that is 100% foolproof internet safe e.g. with white lists to exclusive kosher sites (unlike regular filters) is not a problem.


How To Join The Group?
Please go to the
LOG Calendar found on this link HERE, and post only:
  • How long you want to join for
  • Your 'good night' time
  • Periodically update your calendar if you want to extend, quit / take a break (cos the knas's are getting too expensive), or are jumping back on.


Write a reason on this Post
If you decide to login after your 'goodnight time' you must first write a valid reason / excuse here on this blog why you feel exception should be granted to logon.

  • Only extraordinary or emergency situations can be approved - no working overtime / browsing / shopping etc.
  • If your friend / wife is with you, that can be a valid situation.
  • If the reason is rejected by the forum group or administrator, we commit to pay $5 knas to GYE.


And if I forget?
  • If we logon and didn't 'Write a reason', there's a $15 knas to GYE the following day, regardless of whether we slipped to sin in the clutches of the web or not.


Please post ALL other questions and comments regarding the LOG calendar, in this Blog post.

Maybe try it for 7 days...
KOT!!
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Last Edit: 26 Jun 2016 16:33 by Markz.

Re: THE GOOD NIGHT BLOG 19 Aug 2015 20:14 #262278

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Most filters should allow for time settings on the internet, and shut it down completely between specific hours.
FAQ's (Great for newcomers!!!)
Handbook | Skep's Tips
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Re: THE GOOD NIGHT BLOG 19 Aug 2015 20:21 #262287

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K9 does it but I've had a hard time with it getting confused when Daylight Savings Time goes in and out and it's often an hour off.
!אנא עבדא דקודשא בריך הוא

וּבְיָדְךָ כֹּחַ וּגְבוּרָה וּבְיָדְךָ לְגַדֵּל וּלְחַזֵּק לַכֹּל

And every day that you want to waste, that you want to waste, you can
And every day that you want to wake up, that you want to wake, you can
And every day that you want to change, that you want to change, yeah
I'll help you see it through...





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Re: THE GOOD NIGHT BLOG 19 Aug 2015 20:27 #262288

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Guys this blog is for people that aint got filters like myself... I know how to override most filters

Please lets keep to the topic You wanna say 'good night'? lets do it
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Last Edit: 18 Feb 2016 01:37 by Markz.

Re: THE GOOD NIGHT BLOG 19 Aug 2015 20:47 #262298

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markz wrote:
Guys this blog is for people that aint got filters like myself - my wife refuses to have 1 (and I know how to override most filters). Please lets keep to the topic You wanna say 'good night'? lets do it


I'd say "good night," but it's still afternoon in anchorage.
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"Tryin' and doin' are two different thin's - tryin' is hopin'; doin' is succeedin'.
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Re: THE GOOD NIGHT BLOG 19 Aug 2015 23:35 #262330

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Cordnoy, are you sure you want your location posted online here?
Guys I have problem. I also want to join the log, and be moderated by someone else. Can we have an administrator take over the job? Any other ideas?
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Re: THE GOOD NIGHT BLOG 20 Aug 2015 00:21 #262339

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markz wrote:
Cordnoy, are you sure you want your location posted online here?
Guys I have problem. I also want to join the log, and be moderated by someone else. Can we have an administrator take over the job? Any other ideas?


oops!
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GYE Handbook | Gibbor's Insights | GYE FAQ - Thanks Skep and DMS123456789 White Book | Big Book (Alcoholics Anonymous)

If one gives up at the first sign of a struggle, he is really not ready to be successful."
"Tryin' and doin' are two different thin's - tryin' is hopin'; doin' is succeedin'.
"The right thin' to do and the hard thin' to do are usually the same."


Disclaimer: I am not a cheerleader; B"H, there are many on the site. I am here to change myself, and with God's help, by some mistake, I might even help change others.

MY POSTS ARE NOT WRITTEN AS A MODERATOR UNLESS EXPLICITLY STATED.

Re: THE GOOD NIGHT BLOG 09 Oct 2015 03:02 #265434

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Yay!!!!
B"H almost 2 months successful.
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Re: THE GOOD NIGHT BLOG 09 Oct 2015 03:33 #265442

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markz wrote:
Yay!!!!
B"H almost 2 months successful.


wow, that's a pipe dream for me

Re: THE GOOD NIGHT BLOG 09 Oct 2015 03:39 #265444

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Yesod wrote:
markz wrote:
Yay!!!!
B"H almost 2 months successful.


wow, that's a pipe dream for me


Try this pipe for 3 days or a week, and see how your dreams do
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The 'Good Night Device' Discussion Blog 15 Oct 2015 23:38 #266078

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Yesod wrote:
I have a problem, fell asleep after mariv for 3 hrs after putting my kids to sleep, got up at 11 and had dinner. not the slightest bit tired noe and its 1 am


Hey Yesod this isn't a nanny service.
Perhaps you misunderstood what we're trying to do here

You can go to sleep as late as you want or not at all

The issue is not to go onto devices that possibly have inappropriate stuff as explained in the beginning of this post

Are you saying you awoke after 3hr and logged onto devices although it was after your time of 1130?
In my opinion that's an exceptional scenario that doesn't require a knas. Guys what do you say?
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Last Edit: 15 Oct 2015 23:39 by Markz.

Re: The 'Good Night Device' Blog 16 Oct 2015 15:15 #266154

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Sorry. My bad,
I didn't read carefully when i first joined, i was under the impression that it was a commitment to actually go to sleep:side:

At any rate, i need to renew so I'll be posting on the calendar.

I accept whatever verdict regarding this last week.

Re: The 'Good Night Device' Blog 16 Oct 2015 15:46 #266155

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Exceptional circumstances are not taxable.
You misunderstood the rules of the game so no knas's to you my brother. Seems I'm the moderator on this Blog until other guys or someone with a bigger truck than me steps in. And Yesod you'll be my moderator so I'm in good hands.
I also need your help this coming Sunday night late home arrival. I'll PM you if I start sliding if you're reachable then.
Shabat Shalom
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Re: The 'Good Night Device' Blog 16 Oct 2015 17:25 #266166

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Anytime. Good shabbas

Re: The 'Good Night Device' Blog 16 Oct 2015 19:00 #266174

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markz wrote:
Exceptional circumstances are not taxable.
You misunderstood the rules of the game so no knas's to you my brother. Seems I'm the moderator on this Blog until other guys or someone with a bigger truck than me steps in. And Yesod you'll be my moderator so I'm in good hands.
I also need your help this coming Sunday night late home arrival. I'll PM you if I start sliding if you're reachable then.
Shabat Shalom


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If one gives up at the first sign of a struggle, he is really not ready to be successful."
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"The right thin' to do and the hard thin' to do are usually the same."


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