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Re: Tryin' 30 Dec 2015 01:08 #272766

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Cordnoy - a hibernatin' creature was chattin' for your daily call info

You know - you're famous!
Would you be so kind and add it to your signature, for others

I have it on my phone already, and on rare occasion that my work allows, I mute the sound and hitch to your Monstah Towtruck

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Re: Tryin' 30 Dec 2015 01:35 #272769

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markz wrote:
Cordnoy - a hibernatin' creature was chattin' for your daily call info

You know - you're famous!
Would you be so kind and add it to your signature, for others

I have it on my phone already, and on rare occasion that my work allows, I mute the sound and hitch to your Monstah Towtruck

KOMT!!


Dats a good idea, but I'm not so adept at these things.
There is also a way to access the recordings of the call.
I'll see if I can figure out.

No way can I have it laid out as nice as yours.
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Re: Tryin' 30 Dec 2015 01:37 #272770

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cordnoy wrote:
markz wrote:
Cordnoy - a hibernatin' creature was chattin' for your daily call info

You know - you're famous!
Would you be so kind and add it to your signature, for others

I have it on my phone already, and on rare occasion that my work allows, I mute the sound and hitch to your Monstah Towtruck

KOMT!!


Dats a good idea, but I'm not so adept at these things.
There is also a way to access the recordings of the call.
I'll see if I can figure out.

No way can I have it laid out as nice as yours.
yes you can
Email me and I'll be glad to do it for you, my hero
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Re: Tryin' 05 Jan 2016 17:36 #273429

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Call will be at 1243 est today....open conversation, as we will be drivin'.......a car.
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Re: Tryin' 11 Jan 2016 21:46 #274012

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Re: Tryin' 26 Jan 2016 22:45 #275550

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So, we finished the books (white, big and some action) and steps for the third time on the afternoon cords call. We have about 8 to 10 regulars, plus sporadic others. There are several email groups connected to the call as well.
The last two days we have been discussin' the followin':
Humility
Productivity
Gettin' out of one self
חשבון הנפש
Surrender
Recognizin' our defects
Other stuff (Vegas line, falafel munchin')

Any suggestions for tomorrow and Thursday?

Iy"h we will start fourth time around on Monday.
Any suggestions?

B'hatzlachah and thanks
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Re: Tryin' 27 Jan 2016 16:27 #275646

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cordnoy wrote:
So, we finished the books (white, big and some action) and steps for the third time on the afternoon cords call. We have about 8 to 10 regulars, plus sporadic others. There are several email groups connected to the call as well.
The last two days we have been discussin' the followin':
Humility
Productivity
Gettin' out of one self
חשבון הנפש
Surrender
Recognizin' our defects
Other stuff (Vegas line, falafel munchin')

Any suggestions for tomorrow and Thursday?

Iy"h we will start fourth time around on Monday.
Any suggestions?

B'hatzlachah and thanks


Head achin' today (which is why I'm gettin' no work done).
Might not be able to do lots of talkin' (or at least anythin' worthwhile).
See ideas above.
Lassos wrote a post yesterday, which can also be discussed.
He wrote (someplace) that "escapism" and "lustin'" are two different things, and in fact, they may be contradictory diagnoses. While I may not be able to explain it, i do not believe that to be the case. I think one leads to the other - either way.

Thoughts? (either here, or on the call.)
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Re: Tryin' 27 Jan 2016 16:34 #275647

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cordnoy wrote:
So, we finished the books (white, big and some action) and steps for the third time on the afternoon cords call.

So, am I cured yet?
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Re: Tryin' 27 Jan 2016 16:50 #275650

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Bigmoish wrote:
cordnoy wrote:
So, we finished the books (white, big and some action) and steps for the third time on the afternoon cords call.

So, am I cured yet?


I don't know about you, but I'm not.
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Re: Tryin' 28 Jan 2016 04:07 #275762

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cordnoy wrote:
cordnoy wrote:
So, we finished the books (white, big and some action) and steps for the third time on the afternoon cords call. We have about 8 to 10 regulars, plus sporadic others. There are several email groups connected to the call as well.
The last two days we have been discussin' the followin':
Humility
Productivity
Gettin' out of one self
חשבון הנפש
Surrender
Recognizin' our defects
Other stuff (Vegas line, falafel munchin')

Any suggestions for tomorrow and Thursday?

Iy"h we will start fourth time around on Monday.
Any suggestions?

B'hatzlachah and thanks


Head achin' today (which is why I'm gettin' no work done).
Might not be able to do lots of talkin' (or at least anythin' worthwhile).
See ideas above.
Lassos wrote a post yesterday, which can also be discussed.
He wrote (someplace) that "escapism" and "lustin'" are two different things, and in fact, they may be contradictory diagnoses. While I may not be able to explain it, i do not believe that to be the case. I think one leads to the other - either way.

Thoughts? (either here, or on the call.)


The way Bigmoish explained this concept today was an eye opener for me. I haven't realized how much I've been escaping all my life much before acting out came into the picture. It's just that acting out has become the prime way of escaping. In one of the stories in the big book a woman describes how she tried all kind of hobbies to get her out of addiction, and they worked, some for even a few years, but ultimately she was still addicted.
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Re: Tryin' 31 Jan 2016 19:39 #276081

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There is a beast inside of me and he's a really good guy. He's so much fun. You'd like him. But I do not let him out. Ever. Not when I dream or fantasize. Not when I sleep. Not when I hurt. Not when the goin' is rough. Because he's not allowed out to play. He's not invited. He's behind lock and key. You have to keep your guy in. You have to lock him in all the time. Otherwise one day he will be strong enough to lock you in and you'll never get out. It's gotta be from you; you gotta learn to do it on your own.
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Re: Tryin' 31 Jan 2016 21:46 #276088

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Our 1:20 EST call begins its fourth cycle tomorrow iy"h.
We read from white book, big book, action book and more. We move thru the steps in a fairly brisk pace....sometimes. Time is provided for sharing, questions and comments. We are encouraged to fill out fourth step inventory sheets, and we give time (we try) throughout the day and night to work thru those sheets. They truly make a helluva of a difference in our lives. Just ask anyone who has tried.

B'hatzlachah to all.
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Re: Tryin' 01 Feb 2016 16:47 #276187

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cordnoy wrote on 31 Jan 2016 21:46:
Our 1:20 EST call begins its fourth cycle tomorrow iy"h.
We read from white book, big book, action book and more. We move thru the steps in a fairly brisk pace....sometimes. Time is provided for sharing, questions and comments. We are encouraged to fill out fourth step inventory sheets, and we give time (we try) throughout the day and night to work thru those sheets. They truly make a helluva of a difference in our lives. Just ask anyone who has tried.

B'hatzlachah to all.


We begin today iy"H.
Lookin' forward....

b'hatzlachah
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Re: Tryin' 02 Feb 2016 17:03 #276336

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I saw around 2PM EST yesterday that there was a new cycle, and I'd been planning on joining a call for a while. While I missed it by a day, I'll try to jump on the bandwagon today (I have a meeting at 1, so I might be a couple minutes late).

Re: Tryin' 02 Feb 2016 19:18 #276340

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My apologies,

T'was my intention to be on; God had other plans.
Doesn't He always?
The question is: Do we understand that He is always in charge, with all the controls?
It is our responsibility to make the right decisions.....regardless.

b'hatzlachah
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