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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 25 Mar 2016 20:58 #282530

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Refuah sheleimah.

Perhaps hold out as a zechus for her.

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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 25 Mar 2016 21:38 #282535

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Refua shalaimah
please don't act out imagine the zchus for your mother and if that doesn't help realize you will get no lasting comfort from acting out DONT DO IT
Soberity is a journey NOT a destination 
 

Re: I'm about to FALL!! 25 Mar 2016 22:17 #282539

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good news Aryeh, The doctors office called, and the results were mixed up with another lady. My imma doesn't have cancer. Baruch HaShem.
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 27 Mar 2016 01:28 #282560

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Baruch HaShem great news 
quite a mix up did you end up falling 
Soberity is a journey NOT a destination 
 
Last Edit: 27 Mar 2016 01:28 by Aryeh821.

Re: I'm about to FALL!! 27 Mar 2016 02:13 #282569

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no I did not fall. Baruch HaShem.
I am not a therapist offering advice. I am merely a concerned poster and Friend.. You can do it. KOT. 

Please chat me anytime. I'm all ears. Thank You
Thank you... Shmuly

Re: I'm about to FALL!! 31 Mar 2016 03:20 #283047

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Somebody else's Ima has cancer and is going to die, I guess.
 
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 31 Mar 2016 03:37 #283048

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I've been clean for a little over a week and my testicles have been in a lot of pain and if I act out then the pain will go away. Without asking for doctors orders, has anyone ever heard of this before?
bh I didn't act out and I'm feeling better now, it was a big nisayon for me. It's randomly happened before...

Re: I'm about to FALL!! 31 Mar 2016 04:34 #283052

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yes it's actually called "blue balls". It will go away eventually. You can try putting some ice there, and Motrin helps too.
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And every day that you want to waste, that you want to waste, you can
And every day that you want to wake up, that you want to wake, you can
And every day that you want to change, that you want to change, yeah
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 05 Apr 2016 21:00 #283642

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1 - Motrin, Advil (ibuprophen) works very well for the pain, which goes away soon;

2- it will keep coming back if the person keeps using porn, or fantasizing himself into an erection again, or dong anything purposefully sexually stimulating to himself...it engorges the tissue and causes that painful sensation;

3- it is part of growing up, so you are not alone.

Hatzlocha whatever you choose to do!
Admin put these lines here cuz he likes 'em:
"The heart needs to be broken when will-power is not enough"
"Get off the 18-Wheeler and onto a tricycle!"
"The heck with me, what can I do for you?"
"I do not particularly care exactly which "lav" suicide is. I'm not interested in it for other reasons!"

Re: I'm about to FALL!! 07 Apr 2016 01:02 #283855

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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 08 Apr 2016 04:02 #283976

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Whew! Now, that guy (who jumped overboard) needs some medication even more than the blueball guy does!
Admin put these lines here cuz he likes 'em:
"The heart needs to be broken when will-power is not enough"
"Get off the 18-Wheeler and onto a tricycle!"
"The heck with me, what can I do for you?"
"I do not particularly care exactly which "lav" suicide is. I'm not interested in it for other reasons!"
Last Edit: 08 Apr 2016 22:06 by Dov.

Re: I'm about to FALL!! 12 Apr 2016 19:16 #284407

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HELP 911 
Hello I really really want to want to act out because of what happened yesterday.
yesterday I was suspended from school because of a supposedly false accusation against a counselor. I went to ask him about a class grade or something and somehow he started talking inappropriately to me about gay stuff.. I reported it, and they suspended me. I was also going to expelled, but they dropped the charge and suspended him on a drug charge.  I tried praying to Hashem but I still want to act out. Can anyone help?
 
I am not a therapist offering advice. I am merely a concerned poster and Friend.. You can do it. KOT. 

Please chat me anytime. I'm all ears. Thank You
Thank you... Shmuly

Re: I'm about to FALL!! 12 Apr 2016 20:09 #284410

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Shmuly, hang in there.  You can decide to NOT act out.  Remember, school is almost over and you will be moving to Israel and starting a whole new life.  Even joining the IDF!  Don't let the school's loyalty to the counselor throw you off.  You can show them and yourself what a man you are by staying clean.  We're rooting for you!
 

Re: I'm about to FALL!! 03 May 2016 02:39 #286423

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I want to note my personal take on many of today's forum shares
Unfortunately many many friends that did well, were falling all over the past 1-7 days 

Can we have a frank and open discussion for ideas what we can all do better next Chol Hamoed

This is an open question, feel free to give your input 
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 03 May 2016 03:47 #286433

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markz wrote on 03 May 2016 02:39:
I want to note my personal take on many of today's forum shares
Unfortunately many many friends that did well, were falling all over the past 1-7 days 

Can we have a frank and open discussion for ideas what we can all do better next Chol Hamoed

This is an open question, feel free to give your input 

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