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90,000 Reasons To Say NO to acting out.... in 20 words or less
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Re: 90,000 Reasons To Say NO to acting out.... in 20 words or less 23 Oct 2019 21:06 #344371

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Markz wrote on 23 Oct 2019 17:55:

benaliyah613 wrote on 23 Oct 2019 17:35:
the disgusting feeling that you get when you come out of that high just isn't worth it

Welcome!
i think this has been mentioned 90,000 times, but for some odd reason (maybe there are 90k reasons) that didn’t help me ;-(

What's your כוונה?

Re: 90,000 Reasons To Say NO to acting out.... in 20 words or less 23 Oct 2019 23:47 #344378

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Tzvi5 wrote on 23 Oct 2019 21:06:

Markz wrote on 23 Oct 2019 17:55:

benaliyah613 wrote on 23 Oct 2019 17:35:
the disgusting feeling that you get when you come out of that high just isn't worth it

Welcome!
i think this has been mentioned 90,000 times, but for some odd reason (maybe there are 90k reasons) that didn’t help me ;-(

What's your כוונה?

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Re: 90,000 Reasons To Say NO to acting out.... in 20 words or less 24 Oct 2019 04:57 #344393

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benaliyah613 wrote on 23 Oct 2019 17:35:
the disgusting feeling that you get when you come out of that high just isn't worth it

thats a terrific reason, thanks for the share!
For an explanation on my choice of username and avatar see my first post 

Re: 90,000 Reasons To Say NO to acting out.... in 20 words or less 24 Oct 2019 05:01 #344394

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Markz wrote on 23 Oct 2019 17:55:

benaliyah613 wrote on 23 Oct 2019 17:35:
the disgusting feeling that you get when you come out of that high just isn't worth it

Welcome!
i think this has been mentioned 90,000 times, but for some odd reason (maybe there are 90k reasons) that didn’t help me ;-(

maybe if we tried reviewing it another 90,000 times,it might make a dent in our thick skulls,it might work better if we smash our heads on a wall every time we say it (:
For an explanation on my choice of username and avatar see my first post 

Re: 90,000 Reasons To Say NO to acting out.... in 20 words or less 24 Oct 2019 11:49 #344408

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sleepy wrote on 24 Oct 2019 05:01:

Markz wrote on 23 Oct 2019 17:55:

benaliyah613 wrote on 23 Oct 2019 17:35:
the disgusting feeling that you get when you come out of that high just isn't worth it

Welcome!
i think this has been mentioned 90,000 times, but for some odd reason (maybe there are 90k reasons) that didn’t help me ;-(

maybe if we tried reviewing it another 90,000 times,it might make a dent in our thick skulls,it might work better if we smash our heads on a wall every time we say it (:

I shared what works or doesn’t work for me
can you do the same 
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Re: 90,000 Reasons To Say NO to acting out.... in 20 words or less 24 Oct 2019 15:20 #344422

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Markz wrote on 24 Oct 2019 11:49:

sleepy wrote on 24 Oct 2019 05:01:

Markz wrote on 23 Oct 2019 17:55:

benaliyah613 wrote on 23 Oct 2019 17:35:
the disgusting feeling that you get when you come out of that high just isn't worth it

Welcome!
i think this has been mentioned 90,000 times, but for some odd reason (maybe there are 90k reasons) that didn’t help me ;-(

maybe if we tried reviewing it another 90,000 times,it might make a dent in our thick skulls,it might work better if we smash our heads on a wall every time we say it (:

I shared what works or doesn’t work for me
can you do the same 

first of all dont take my post to heart, after all i did sign off with a smiley,second of all i tried sharing what works for me,and the last time i shared i got a silicon doll thrown at me, so once bit, twice shy...
For an explanation on my choice of username and avatar see my first post 

Re: 90,000 Reasons To Say NO to acting out.... in 20 words or less 24 Oct 2019 16:56 #344427

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Markz wrote on 24 Oct 2019 11:49:

sleepy wrote on 24 Oct 2019 05:01:

Markz wrote on 23 Oct 2019 17:55:

benaliyah613 wrote on 23 Oct 2019 17:35:
the disgusting feeling that you get when you come out of that high just isn't worth it

Welcome!
i think this has been mentioned 90,000 times, but for some odd reason (maybe there are 90k reasons) that didn’t help me ;-(

maybe if we tried reviewing it another 90,000 times,it might make a dent in our thick skulls,it might work better if we smash our heads on a wall every time we say it (:

I shared what works or doesn’t work for me
can you do the same 

care to share what works for you,does it work long term ,short term, odaat?
For an explanation on my choice of username and avatar see my first post 

Re: 90,000 Reasons To Say NO to acting out.... in 20 words or less 26 Dec 2019 03:17 #346234

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I'm an investor and I don't want to take short term benefits over long term ones...

Re: 90,000 Reasons To Say NO to acting out.... in 20 words or less 05 Apr 2020 11:33 #348306

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To win today is easier then to win tomorrow...

Re: 90,000 Reasons To Say NO to acting out.... in 20 words or less 06 Apr 2020 06:20 #348319

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Re: 90,000 Reasons To Say NO to acting out.... in 20 words or less 12 Jun 2020 13:12 #351103

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I never feel happy about it after.

Re: 90,000 Reasons To Say NO to acting out.... in 20 words or less 16 Sep 2020 14:22 #355184

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Because Hashem said it's not allowed, and He knows what is best for us.

Re: 90,000 Reasons To Say NO to acting out.... in 20 words or less 17 Sep 2020 13:12 #355232

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For your (or future) wife and kids.
Your best teacher for success is your last mistake

Re: 90,000 Reasons To Say NO to acting out.... in 20 words or less 17 Sep 2020 18:01 #355239

So you can walk into Rosh HaShanah and Yom Kippur with something really valuable! 

Re: 90,000 Reasons To Say NO to acting out.... in 20 words or less 17 Sep 2020 18:24 #355240

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Because if I do something for Hashem that's so hard for me, it might be worth more than everything I've done in my entire life!
In the place where ba’alei teshuva stand, even pure tzaddikim who never sinned cannot stand. (Rabbi Avohu, Brachos 34b)

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