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From Boys to Men

From Boys to Men

By the.guard
The revolutionary book "From Boys to Men": Guiding our Sons and Students in the Ways of Kedushah Finally! A book that integrates the Torah’s wisdom and psychological research to provide a comprehensive approach to educating and supporting our sons and students regarding: ...
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Girlfriends

Girlfriends

By the.guard
"Shtarkandemotional" writes on the GYE forum (click here for the full thread): I’m a very frum Jew in yeshiva and in a very meaningful and emotional relationship with a very frum girl... We’re both yeshivish background and it’s a secret! I never thought I would be posting...
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Tips for Controlling Ejaculation

By the.guard
As explained at length in the kuntress for men, female orgasm generally works very differently than male orgasm. Whereas men, generally speaking, can reach full arousal very quickly and experience orgasm and ejaculation very quickly; for women, generally speaking, it can ...
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What's Permitted

By the.guard
Guardyoureyes often receives questions regarding the limits of what's permitted in the bedroom. Although there are many levels of holiness that a person should strive for, we live today in a very open world full of big nisyonos. Most Chosson and Kalla teachers do not leav...
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Conversion Therapy for SSA

Conversion Therapy for SSA

By the.guard
Question: I know conversion therapy is highly controversial and deemed unhelpful and unhealthy in the mental health field. What do you think about it? Dovid, a GYE volunteer, responds: Thanks for sharing the question and I am glad to answer the question from my perspect...
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7 Chabad Rabbis rule: abusers may be reported

By obormottel
The Chabad Lubavitch community has taken a historic step forward in combating child abuse, child sexual abuse and abuse of adults. A prestigious group of international Lubavitch Rabbinical leaders, many who are Rabbinical Judges, have signed a proclamation addressing abus...
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Filtering 101: 3 Steps to Protecting Kids

Filtering 101: 3 Steps to Protecting Kids

By obormottel
We’ll walk you through the three basic steps to protect kids from porn and create a safer home internet experience for kids of all ages
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FEMALE PORN ADDICTS ARE A LOT LIKE MALE PORN ADDICTS

FEMALE PORN ADDICTS ARE A LOT LIKE MALE PORN ADDICTS

By obormottel
Some of these findings may seem obvious, but they lend credence to the idea that porn addiction (like other addiction) is a "learned" behavior gone haywire.
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The Truth About Female Porn Addiction From a Recovered Addict

The Truth About Female Porn Addiction From a Recovered Addict

By obormottel
Erica Garza Dec 7, 2018 When I tell people that I’m a recovered female porn addict, the typical response is surprise. I can’t blame them. Not only is talking about porn considered culturally taboo, but most of the narratives around the topic have focused on men. I’m us...
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3 Myths About Pornography Use In Couples You Might Still Believe

3 Myths About Pornography Use In Couples You Might Still Believe

By obormottel
Whether you are are in a committed relationship or thinking about one, or you are a counselor, member of the clergy, or a therapist, here are 3 myths about pornography use among couples you need to know:
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Be Internet Awesome - For Kids

Be Internet Awesome - For Kids

By obormottel
We forget that we need to proactively teach our kids things we may have learned the hard way (like being very careful about what you type into a search engine).
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Safe Playdates: 3 strategies to keep kids safe

Safe Playdates: 3 strategies to keep kids safe

By obormottel
“What can I do to ensure that our family standards are kept and that my child remains safe from inappropriate media content while attending a playdate?”
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Sexual Fantasies During Relations

Sexual Fantasies During Relations

By obormottel
What are the halachic guidelines when it comes to thoughts during sex? Is there any way for me to rewire my brain and stop this? I feel helpless. Thank you so much. 
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When is enough enough?

When is enough enough?

By obormottel
Many people tell me that I am not an addict. After all, has my addictive behaviors caused terrible harm and consequences? Have I lost my whole family?  Have I contracted AIDS? Have I given someone else a sexually transmitted disease?
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I Pause

I Pause

By obormottel
I am not an addict. I am the wife of an addict. I have also lived with other addictions before my marriage. My mind is trained to obsess about the addict and their safety, their whereabouts, how they are, or how they ought to be.
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the.guard (Yaakov)'s views on Homosexuality (in a nutshell):

the.guard (Yaakov)'s views on Homosexuality (in a nutshell):

By testchart1
Having SSA is similar to someone who would be attracted ONLY to married women, i.e. single women don't attract him at all (if such a thing was possible).
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13 Principles regarding gender disorientation groups

13 Principles regarding gender disorientation groups

By testchart1
I'd like to mention that which is obvious to us all, with a sketch of 13 principles regarding the gender disorientation groups that fight everything holy
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