Audience

Dear Scared! Let me first commend your level-headedness, a quality that is exceedingly rare when it comes to relationships. You obviously have your head screwed on right and you are walking into this with your eyes wide open. So often people enter or avoid relationships without any clear thinki...

; Married and love to watch some steamy porn together? Be warned, as frequent pornography use can sound the death knell for your happy marriage. ;According to the researchers, pornography is associated with a substantial increase in the probability of divorce for married people and this increase...

A woman wrote to us, asking for chizuk in face of a challenge she was facing. She wrote: ; A family friend from overseas called me and asked if we can meet up. I don't know if I ever told you about this family "friend" but that's basically how every SA issue that I have started. We set a time a...

E.F. writes: You need to add much more info on your website for women who abuse themselves on the Internet. ; I am recently divorced, and my son is now without his mother because she became addicted to the Internet and degraded herself daily by talking to men online all day every day for over o...

Rabbi Azriel Ariel, of the the Israeli organization Hotam, which works to propose Halachic solutions to societal problems, has called to address the phenomenon of romantic relationships in the workplace. He stressed the need to create a behavioral code that will prevent unhealthy relationships t...

; A wife wrote a letter to GYE: Your site was exactly what I needed when I signed up. I was a newlywed who had just found out about my husband's struggle and didn't know where to turn. Shocked, hurt, overwhelmed and frightened, I came across your site and found the section for spouses. Reading s...

Our Reply: Dear Bewildered Tzadik, it is good that you are reaching out for help. ;Although we get tens of emails like yours every day, your email shook me up. Firstly, because of the statistics you quoted (75%!) and, secondly, because of how you make it sound: as if the battle is lost with tod...

My Rosh Yeshiva, ztzl, used to reminisce about his days as a child on the Lower East Side. Often, he would come back from school and his father would ask him, ‘Noach – did you remember that Hashem loves you today?’ ‘Yes’, was the young boy’s usual answer. ‘Well done, his father would respond. Yo...

Dear Mr. Yaakov, ; I have been wanting to email someone at guardyoureyes for awhile. I wanted to sincerely thank you and all your staff for all the resources available on your website. I found out my husband was watching schmutz about 7 months ago. It was the worst yissurim I ever had in my lif...